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Flat Tires, Boy Bands, and Breakups

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Ever had a flat tire ruin your day, or wondered why car repairs cost an arm and a leg? This episode takes you on a journey through the bumpy road of car maintenance horror stories, from the challenge of tire replacements to radiator issues, and the headache of dealing with different service providers. Along the way, we celebrate Latina Marie's birthday and ponder societal norms and perceptions around age, especially through the lens of photography and maintaining a youthful appearance. We also hint at some exciting surprises in store for future episodes to keep you on your toes.

Do boy bands have what it takes to make a comeback? We dive into the musical magic of iconic groups like NSYNC and compare their dynamics to modern solo artists dominating the charts. Our discussion spans the nostalgia of Eminem's Slim Shady revival to the struggles and successes of groups like D12 and Da Band. We reminisce about the good ol' days of musical collaborations between past and present artists, and the unique, eclectic sounds that groups bring to the music scene. It's a heartfelt reflection on how music has evolved and what we hope to see in the future.

Relationships and personal preferences come under the spotlight as we explore the underrated brilliance of Robin Thicke's first album and the impact diverse music has on our lives. We shift gears to discuss dating dynamics, the quirky realities of height differences, and how humor plays a crucial role in maintaining healthy relationships. From ghosting and no contact to managing social media friendships, we tackle the tough topics with honesty and a touch of humor, emphasizing the importance of clear communication and understanding intent. This episode promises a rollercoaster of emotions, laughter, and thoughtful reflections on life and relationships.

Speaker 1:

I ain't gonna never get over $50 out the door.

Speaker 2:

But that's when you said I'm like usually tired of being like $150, that's the cheapest.

Speaker 1:

I mean I knew because the guys from Vance were and he went with me, Okay, which was good, because I feel like, yeah, I feel like he would have been like yeah.

Speaker 2:

That's something you is good for, right.

Speaker 1:

And I was like they still gonna charge me like $100. But that's still better than $250.

Speaker 2:

Because Firestone be tripping.

Speaker 1:

But the only reason we go there is because Alvin's mom has an account with them and she do get a bit of a discount. So the discount was $250. For one tire. A tire that was being replaced. We bought the tire from you.

Speaker 2:

Oh yeah, Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah. So you already bought a 250 tire.

Speaker 1:

I paid almost $900 for all four of my tires. Almost $900 for all four of my tires. What? This is the same place that I bought my radiator. I bought my radiator and they put it in charge for $700.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, you told me that this is the same place that I bought my radiator. I bought my radiator and they put it in charge for $700. Yeah, you told me that.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, then he talking about we should charge you more because you bought the part. Please make that make sense. You couldn't find the part.

Speaker 2:

But you're going to charge me less if I buy it.

Speaker 1:

No, talking about, we don't take outside parts.

Speaker 2:

You should have told me, because I would have took it somewhere else but the only reason I did get it myself is because y'all couldn't find it, and I doubt it would have been less than 700 like, because they had my car for like two or three days and euro was like what's taking them so long?

Speaker 1:

you should have brought it here. We would have gave it to for 400. I'm like no, I know, I know for next time, yeah and your car seems to be having a lot of problems a lot of issues. I don't know why like ever since I got it.

Speaker 2:

I just been in and out of the shop going crazy over you. But hey, that's life. Welcome to adulthood and welcome to he smoked.

Speaker 1:

She don't, she drink a lot. She don't, she drink a lot.

Speaker 2:

Hey, before we get started, last episode we told y'all that her birthday was coming up, but it just passed, so everybody just take two seconds to go, thank, your mama for life. That too, but scream at your screen. Whatever you're watching on and listening to, Just scream happy birthday, Latina Marie. Don't do it. Do it One, two, three. Happy birthday, Latina, Marie. So what you 35? Now Quit putting this ear on me, cut it out.

Speaker 1:

Quit putting this ear on me. I am 30. I am 30.

Speaker 2:

That really, oh that really almost took me out, because what I am standing here and I know it's rude to ask a woman age, but I know yours Why- why is that rude? I've never understood that either.

Speaker 1:

If you don't want to tell them, just say a lie, just lie. Who's going to check, clearly, who's going to Google it?

Speaker 2:

They might Google you.

Speaker 1:

Your date, your day, or I mean if you end up being with them. Yeah, yeah, yeah, at some point I would hope you would just let them know all right, listen, I was playing.

Speaker 2:

I ain't want you.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, yeah, for sure but I don't think it's rude. That should be a topic. Maybe it's not that you're telling the first day, right?

Speaker 2:

because I know I didn't been lied to so many times.

Speaker 1:

I was always want to write it down like a story.

Speaker 2:

I was going to let you this time. I was just going to say go ahead, Go with it.

Speaker 1:

I just don't get it. I mean, I don't mind telling my age because I know I don't look my age yeah.

Speaker 2:

I think that's why I don't mind. You really took me out with that one, but yeah. I don't look my age. But you know what's crazy. It's weird for me when, like when we were watching a movie earlier, he was like you look.

Speaker 1:

So I, I through all my stages, from a baby to now I'm like my face has stayed the same you can take a picture today and we'll look at it tomorrow, and it looked like you did 10, 10 years ago. I don't know.

Speaker 2:

I was going to say that maybe because a lot of people do see me in my pictures and say I don't look my age. So that could be it. So you're saying the person I look old is.

Speaker 1:

No, I'm just saying you just Pictures. I'm telling you they be loving me Pictures is just outstanding. That picture of you holding me when I was pregnant with William.

Speaker 2:

Weren't you over 18?

Speaker 1:

You look, 16 years old. I think I was over 20.

Speaker 2:

I was 21. You were 12, right yeah, I was 21. So I was 20.

Speaker 1:

What the actual, because what?

Speaker 2:

Yeah, was that Michael? No, no somebody over here, but yeah, um you remember when we took it like a couple years later. Oh yeah, yeah we did. I went back and looked at both of them and literally the only thing that changed on me was my beard. But you look exactly the same. I do look exactly the same I was.

Speaker 1:

that's impressive. That is crazy to me, Even through my weight changes and everything I always look exactly the same. That is one thing I do like.

Speaker 2:

That's impressive.

Speaker 1:

Not you, you de-aging I like that.

Speaker 2:

I'm Benjamin Button out here.

Speaker 1:

I'm moving backwards, you out here turning into a baby every time you take a picture. I love it. That's crazy so y'all?

Speaker 2:

last week I guess I inspired her to do these surprise topics cause she hit me up and she was like hey, I already got our three topics for this week, so don't even. I was like okay, don't trip.

Speaker 1:

I heard it in my mind and I really didn't think I was going to say it like that that reminded me of a Friday like. I was going to be there.

Speaker 2:

I asked my bike back. You know I wouldn't trip oh, I ain't true Go home Right Episode over. We had enough of today, but before we go home I'm going to tell y'all about this weed though. So today I got the Don Mega, and I think I've had this one time before, but I didn't, I was just smoking to be smoking, I didn't know the effects or nothing that it did, and this is actually a really, really. I know you all like music, but I was about to say cerebral, again, mental One more time.

Speaker 2:

Mental weed because it helps with. I think it was like 22% of people said that it helps with stress, 34% of people said that it helps with stress, 34 percent of people said it helps with depression and like I think it was like 24 or 26 percent of people said it helps with anxiety and like it's a calming, relaxed and eating munchies. So if you're looking to put some weight on because that's actually the journey and I'm on I'm trying to put on 30 pounds for the next two months before I go back.

Speaker 1:

What's gonna stop you from eating? That's the journey I'm on that?

Speaker 2:

I don't know I don't know, but yeah, so we got the Dime Mega today. It is almost damn near 30% THC, so you're getting a prime. I know that don't mean nothing to you, but you're getting a prime smoke and this is one of them things you roll up and smoke to yourself when you been having a bad day or somebody done got on your nerves. Are you thinking about just pulling up straps?

Speaker 2:

this one gonna calm you down and get you right. So just remember that the dime mega and I got this from skyman. I know they I'm a shot of mine. Anyway, I got this from sky man. So now I'm making some really, really good calming weed, and that's what I'm smoking on today. Oh, and I'm smoking it in a game. I'm about to get a new bong, though, and it's like a ak phone, like the rifle yeah, it's fire.

Speaker 1:

So y'all gonna be seeing that soon. Y'all gonna see that soon all right, and that is straight on. That actually was I like that. Okay, all right, am I reading them off to you? You mean talking about them.

Speaker 2:

No, I just did them one by one last week and I said I would start with hard hitting. And you were like nah. The second one was more hard.

Speaker 1:

It was Okay, I'm going to start off easy, ooh, okay.

Speaker 2:

Start that easy into it. You want it all, like we go four play. Hey, you know what I'm talking about.

Speaker 1:

Okay, warm her up talking about.

Speaker 2:

Okay, warmer up turn that oven on and sit for us. Let it sit okay. Okay, can boy bands make a comeback? Oh, I feel like that's hard, that's easy. Oh, we got some coming. Can they make a comeback? You know what's so crazy? He's he never in a boy band. But we was talking about Eminem's new album, the Death of Slim Shady. Okay, but how he brought Slim Shady back and this is one of his highest selling albums in the past four or five albums, yeah, and it did give me that sense of nostalgia. I was happy hearing the old skits and stuff that Eminem did, but then it got me thinking about when he would talk about boy bands and I used to be like they don't why you don't like them, so me personally.

Speaker 2:

If NSYNC announced today y'all, we get back.

Speaker 1:

I'm going to be one of the first.

Speaker 2:

They better sell out. You know how quickly that would sell out. Yeah, and I do strictly because in a group, even in rap groups and stuff, there's different dynamics to it. Nobody sounds the same, Nobody has the same flow. Everybody has their pick of who they like in the group or in the band or whatever. And just in today's music it gets so monotonous. Everything just sounds the exact same and I'm like that's one thing we aren't seeing. You know rap groups Because um.

Speaker 2:

Because was D12 a rap band yes, but that album it is not just because of. Eminem Nerd or NBRD. I always call them nerds too, but I forgot that Sina Siles album, yeah, but even that you bring it up. All the their music was so eclectic and different because they all have inputs. We don't all like the same thing, but we're going to figure out and I guess with solo artists you just go in. I'm going to do what I do.

Speaker 1:

I feel like we've got way too many solo artists.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, we don't have duos, we don't have groups.

Speaker 1:

Even, like you said, just for it to be rap groups.

Speaker 2:

Like Da Band. Yeah, not Da band, but even the band. D-a-b-a-n-d. We just all sorority. That dude sound like a sorority. Give it to me. But even how they put up, what was her name? Sarah the light-skinned chick who sang. That was her name, sarah the light skinned chick who sang.

Speaker 1:

That was her name, I don't know. I don't remember.

Speaker 2:

I think it was Sarah.

Speaker 1:

That's such a plain name like you threw me off with that.

Speaker 2:

I need to know, but I think her name was Sarah. Sarah, don't quote me, but I think so, but I loved that they did that, especially being a singer and me liking melodic music. Now y'all Sarah Strokes. It is Sarah Strokes. Pause.

Speaker 1:

Pause. Ain't that what you used to suss? But I know it's not for me no, but it is cause Sarah strokes. But you stroking girl, I mean you can come stroke this Sarah, but she just pissed me off and she ain't even do nothing her parents did.

Speaker 2:

They should have gave her a stage name like something, cause it was like Babs, chopper, dyline, freddie P.

Speaker 1:

Ness, yeah, your name is Dylan and then Young City and Sarah.

Speaker 2:

Sarah, okay, we gotta move on, but I was gonna say it's crazy that nobody in their marketing team was like we. We gotta change up your name.

Speaker 1:

Double S could have been her name.

Speaker 2:

That could have been, that would have been a lot more fire.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, that would have been a lot more fire. It would have fit in a whole lot more than Sarah.

Speaker 2:

Strokes, sarah, she just pissed me off. Oh, but yeah like but her being a singer in that group made me listen Because especially back then. I wasn't as much into rap and hip hop, but now you're giving me a reason to go listen to it. Look at this picture, bro.

Speaker 1:

It just like look like some, like yeah, like they was walking down the street saying hey, did you do music? We should start a group and look at Sarah now looking at that, she looks out of place like very much.

Speaker 2:

Babs is the only one giving something and I'm not gonna lie without her done up she was, but when she did it I was like okay, but she could spit, she had bars though. I would definitely give her that.

Speaker 1:

Y'all crack me up bro.

Speaker 2:

But no, I I think they could make a comeback, but it just has to be in a nostalgic way. It has to be in a nostalgic way, it has to be.

Speaker 1:

So this question came to my mind because B5 was like they keep trying.

Speaker 2:

That's not the one that we're getting at, yeah they keep trying.

Speaker 1:

That's not oh.

Speaker 2:

I think I've seen something that they, they all look sick.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, like super skinny and super like they just sitting at home doing coke. And no offense bro, no, but yeah like y'all, something ain't right I know that they're all stressed because of whatever but it's crazy how far that effect man spreads.

Speaker 2:

Excuse me, oh, but yeah, he really had his hands on a lot of shit you know what's crazy though, cassie like see the video. No, he should be ashamed. I mean because I'll go all day on that. I can't go too deep in that. How?

Speaker 1:

do you get on camera and double down on it?

Speaker 2:

Like. But what was crazy? Before the video came out, he denied everything. I never did anything. I'm a perfect human being. That's basically how you put it. And then that come out. I was just fucked up, just up.

Speaker 1:

Back you up now, yeah, but no, I I think that's good, but it just works, or not? Boys to men definitely.

Speaker 2:

But no, even that when um, justin bieber was first coming out and he had boys to men like doing back in them and yeah I, I that was so dope to because especially somebody as young as that I know you wasn't really into the hits.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, yeah, you didn't listen to them.

Speaker 2:

But to just see them on stage killing it with somebody like you.

Speaker 1:

I'm like oh, okay, they could fit in for today. But when Backstreet Boys did their reunion tour or whatever, it didn't catch the attention like I did think would.

Speaker 2:

Oh, it wouldn't. I believe, like because I believe B2K would be huge. B2k Would be huge, but the impact why I think that is because the impact of New Kids on the Block when they came out with that song, that was. When you're single when you're single. That blew up. People were just happy to see y'all back together and the music was updated. It's not like y'all doing old shit, but the sense of nostalgia was there.

Speaker 1:

I think the problem with NSYNC is that Justin's too big. Yeah, he don't. It's not even that he's too big, he don't. It's not even that he's too big, it's he don't want to share spotlight.

Speaker 2:

What I believe he thinks is go backwards.

Speaker 1:

Uh yeah, yeah, I could believe that because they were on the Troll soundtrack and it says all the people, all the Troll castmates, are on the song. Plus, you know how it just names everybody that's on the song.

Speaker 2:

Right.

Speaker 1:

So it says all the castmates that's on it Justin Timberlake and NSYNC.

Speaker 2:

Yes, yeah, I don't like that and it's like, because you're not there twice, yeah, you're just in NSYNC.

Speaker 1:

But he is.

Speaker 2:

He's getting paid twice because he's in sync and he's justin timberlake right and I get financially doing it but that's what I thought, like because you blew up so much as a solo artist, you just didn't want to split it five ways right I get that, but the what y'all would make from that five ways is way better than whatever you think you wouldn't get solo right, because on he has a song with them on his new album and it says featuring NSYNC, and to me it should have just said NSYNC.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, yeah, it should have just said NSYNC.

Speaker 1:

Right, for sure, for sure because obviously you're not five people and I, I will think, is instinct.

Speaker 2:

Isn't instinct without right?

Speaker 1:

and I'm. It just really angers me that jc didn't blow up.

Speaker 2:

I still think he's a better singer a much better singer. Better singer yeah, he looks so old now though yeah, he got grace yeah, um, what was the song? The Girl who has Everything on their first album? You remember the?

Speaker 1:

first version On their first album. Yeah, that's on no Strings Attached. No, it's not Really.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, that's on their first album. They came out the gates.

Speaker 1:

What?

Speaker 2:

They came out the gates with it. They've been doing it. Yeah, they've been doing it.

Speaker 1:

They came out the gates with it. That shit boys didn't hit until.

Speaker 2:

Black and Blue, but they heard no strings. It was like my God, no Millennium was, dope Millennium was dope it was, but not like the call.

Speaker 1:

Give me the call. What you talking about?

Speaker 2:

But it give me the call. What you talking about but it was the version on the album is just jc, he sings both verses. But then I heard it overseas because you know they was touring yourself. Yeah, I heard an overseas version where justin did the second verse and I was like you didn't deliver it as as well they did that a lot because Drive Me Crazy on their first album.

Speaker 1:

Oh yeah yeah, yeah. There's two versions of that where they switch verses. I didn't know that. Yes, and JC is the only one on that Black song.

Speaker 2:

The group Black the trio, the girls oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, but it says featuring NSYNC. Now, if he would have did that, the same thing you did, yeah, I feel that I feel like nobody was really backing him.

Speaker 1:

I feel like people were paying people to put justin out there I mean now knowing how the industry works for sure, for sure for sure he was the youngest. Yeah, we're cutest, I think his mom might have been more business inclined than anybody ever realized, and I think she started really pushing him.

Speaker 2:

Oh, even from the documentaries and stuff, she was like no, this is going to happen.

Speaker 1:

This is how it's going to go, which ain't nothing wrong with that, for sure. Look, I'll be your boy.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, you know you, but don't disregard the rest of them. Yeah, don't disregard the rest of them, right? Yeah, and not saying just in case he can he can do.

Speaker 1:

Hey, I started listening to him. Go like live, like live performances and stuff. My man's ain't that dope justin my man's ain't that dope.

Speaker 2:

You really don't think so a lot you really think so?

Speaker 1:

he'd be going flat a lot. You really think so? I know so. Have you seen his tiny, his tiny desk? Yeah, you didn't with it.

Speaker 2:

Oh man, uh I, maybe I gotta go back and watch him when you watch usher's tiny desk and then listen to his but did they? Thing is Usher.

Speaker 1:

I mean, you can't fucks with my man Usher.

Speaker 2:

Not at all, and I remember they tried to make that a debate.

Speaker 1:

Usher is out here, bro, and everybody knows that I am a diehard Chris Brown fan, but I would never. Usher is a singer, but that's what I'm going to say.

Speaker 2:

So you, being a diehard Chris Brown fan, would you put him over. Usher is a singer, but that's what I'm going to say. So you, being a diehard Chris Brown fan, would you put him over Usher.

Speaker 1:

Usher is a On what, though? Sing it? Usher is a singer. Usher is a singer. Chris Brown is a performer, performer. Okay, yep, I'll give you that, and a damn good performer. But Usher is a singer. Yeah, I mean Us performer, but usher is a singer, yeah, I mean usher's performances would be dope too but but chris flipping, chris brown's performances be out in this world like who's doing what he's doing?

Speaker 2:

no one I was talking to alvin about y'all going to the concert. He was like man, that show was booty. I was like dang for real. He's like bro, it's shut. And then chris bound came yeah, the opening acts were but yeah, chris is gonna give you a show every time amazing.

Speaker 1:

I never thought I would go to a concert of his and even with the shitty seats we had, chris Brown is out of this world it was.

Speaker 2:

At one point I was like I can't give it to him. I can't give it to him, but everybody like he's been here over 20 years. He's been doing it at this level after over 20. I was like I can't give it to him. I can't give it to him, I can't give it to him. But everybody like he's been here over 20 years, he's been doing it at this level for over 20.

Speaker 1:

I'm like he might be.

Speaker 2:

He might be.

Speaker 1:

Like I'll be because I, if you know me, you know I love Chris Brown. I hate Beyonce.

Speaker 2:

I don't know why that information was necessary. I don't know why that information was necessary.

Speaker 1:

Because I can give Beyoncé a fry and I still am not getting it, like I still don't get it. But you know what's crazy?

Speaker 2:

The way I feel about Jay-Z and Justin is the way I feel about Beyoncé and Kelly. I think Kelly's a better singer. Yeah, me too, but I believe Beyoncé had that it factor. I don't even think she did you better, stop it, girl she. I believe Beyonce had that it factor. I don't even think she did you better, stop it, girl. She did, because when she hit that stage.

Speaker 1:

Beyonce is not. She is a good performer.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, a great performer. She's a decent performer and even if you're not a better singer than Kelly.

Speaker 1:

That's it. She is a good performer. She's a good performer.

Speaker 2:

She is a decent performer but even like Kelly being a better singer, you know what?

Speaker 1:

Ain't nobody better than Michelle. I'm just joking, I'm just kidding.

Speaker 2:

I'll take Latoya and I'm sorry, michelle, you got it but not like them oh. Jesus but no, I, I and maybe it's just cause I'm kinda miss that type of music, but yeah, I would love to see boy bands, yeah.

Speaker 1:

I said boy bands, not even, not even just boy bands.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, yeah, I said boy bands, not even just boy bands, Because, thinking about Beyonce, they was TLC, they was. I forgot about En Vogue.

Speaker 1:

They had it too.

Speaker 2:

Hell, yeah, swv, yeah, escape, yeah, you better stop. But you see, this is what I mean when I say music. Now, none of them sounded alike. Right right, they all had their own thing about their group or their personalities, and the music was so fucking fire it didn't sound like everybody else, that's out.

Speaker 1:

But I think people know that we need groups because there's so many collaborations. I think yeah, and it's like why put all these collaborations together instead of just finding some groups or duos?

Speaker 2:

I think I was talking to you about it, but it ain't nothing, tgt. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, that was like the last group that I really, and their album was fire, what's that I need to listen to.

Speaker 2:

Yes, it was Tyrese, but all three of them alone. All three of them alone Fire. So now you get them three in the studio All inputting on one song. Yeah, you're bound to get a hit. Yeah, and that like for me. That's why I think that, just like you said, the collaboration aspect, right, but y'all collaborating with people who do the same thing as you, yeah.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, there's way too many solo artists Because. I wouldn't even say like and when I say a comeback, I don't really mean like let's just bring all the old groups back.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I want to see a new artist. Yeah, I want to see some new groups come out. I agree, I agree, but no, I 100%.

Speaker 1:

I think they could, yeah, I think they could. I just think people are too selfish to share the spotlight and the finances and it could be a lot of work to work with groups.

Speaker 2:

but yeah, there's different personalities you gotta work with for sure, for sure, for sure. What is? Do you have a favorite group of all time?

Speaker 1:

Group.

Speaker 2:

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 1:

Ooh, favorite group group of all time, group Mm. Hmm, it's really that album. It was not for me if there was no skips, but really there was not one song that I'm like. Uh, no, I mean, nicole scherzinger is fire. She wasn't there, wasn't she? Then you got these other girls, anna marie, like she was she and so underrated those other like, kind of like yeah, tall, long yeah yeah that was a group of mine. I'll give you that. I'm just like I'll give you that. If they decided to come back.

Speaker 2:

You'd be in the first row.

Speaker 1:

You said it was $2 million, I got it.

Speaker 2:

I'm going to figure it out. You have to pay for the mission, that's right. You're going to be spending it on for the rest of your life.

Speaker 1:

You're going to turning it on for the rest of your life. You're gonna take it away. Yeah, that's gotta be. It's gotta be Eden's crush.

Speaker 2:

I was gonna say that's I got two. One is only because of the main guy, but Jeff Todd. He was really the only one singing, but they're a group so I gotta give it to them and NC Like was really the only one singing, but they're a group, so I got to give it to them.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, and NSYNC Like just NSYNC's creativity, and I mean the overall package, because I think there's groups that sing better than them. Yeah, I think they're like B2K. They're a group that performs better than NSYNC. You think so? Yeah, they stage show better, but they don't sing as good, right.

Speaker 1:

So now I don't want to see you lie, right.

Speaker 2:

And like. So there's other groups. What's that about? There's other groups that do things well, but they were like you remember I think it was the VMAs. One year they did a TV performance, the.

Speaker 1:

NSYNC, yeah, the NSYNC.

Speaker 2:

That's the NSYNC. But they had the tv screens, yeah, and like they were sloppy, I was like this is so creative. Or when they did the no strings attached album and they came out of the toy boxes concert that's what I mean, like when I say everything.

Speaker 1:

That was my first concert that was my first.

Speaker 2:

No, it wasn't.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, you may have went to voice before me but that, yes, that concert was like that.

Speaker 2:

How are y'all doing? It's got skits involved. Yeah, it has full package. So if and once again, if they come back today, I would be mad. I'm probably going to be pissed off because it's going to sell out so fast and my internet connection was slow.

Speaker 1:

And I would be like at all times, you know with how old they are. I love that, joey and Chris, because they're the most unfit ones of the group today. Still put they all into it.

Speaker 2:

Oh yeah, yeah, I think it was Can't stop me from killing this performance. Justin had got the video vanguard award and he brought them up to perform with them. And that's exactly what I said. I was like they don't look like they messed up. Yeah yeah, and that's what I'm if y'all really got on talk yeah and all new music. I mean of course I'm gonna want to hear it over, but if y'all stop it, stop playing with me. It's crazy, stop playing. They got to hear it over.

Speaker 1:

But if y'all Stop it, stop playing with me. It's crazy. Stop playing with me. They got to do it.

Speaker 2:

I feel like we grew up with the best music. 90s music was the best. 90s and 2000s was the best Early 2000s was the best.

Speaker 1:

Even I want to see some rock. Yeah, like alternative rock groups come, or alternative pop groups come back. Yellow Card yeah, do me on Yellow Card, bro.

Speaker 2:

Ocean Avenue yeah, I need more of that in my life.

Speaker 1:

That is one of my favorite favorite songs.

Speaker 2:

They go crazy. What was the group with the girly singer? I?

Speaker 1:

know you ain't talking about Parabore Parabore, yes, I know you ain't talking about Paramore Paramore, yes, I know you ain't talking about them. They went stupid. That girl kills, kills. Somebody has a podcast called Black People Love Paramore. Because we do. She ain't never told no lie. Yes, we do.

Speaker 2:

And she interviewed Hailey. Yes, we, oh, that's dope, that's dope, yes.

Speaker 1:

Yes, that's crazy. You they was. They dropped out of school together or they were all homeschooled. That's what it was. They were all homeschooled and then about each other yeah and they've been doing this since they were like 12.

Speaker 2:

yeah, yeah no, I didn't know that craziness yeah, yeah, yeah. That is crazy, but that makes sense. Why y'all are that good Right? Why y'all work so well together yeah.

Speaker 1:

Cause y'all heard her in the studio. No, find some of her studio footage.

Speaker 2:

Oh, I know it sounds just like the track.

Speaker 1:

She's wild girl.

Speaker 2:

Her voice is pure too. She was in the church choir. I can believe that.

Speaker 1:

Cause her reign stupid.

Speaker 2:

She loves us too. We love you because you love us.

Speaker 1:

Okay, man, okay y'all better ask I love when white artists genuinely love black music, like nick joe yeah, like those genuinely loves us. And how you can tell is because joe and kevin and them don't involve black music in their music, which is fine right.

Speaker 2:

I would say that's the problem. But he'll have choirs and like he feels yeah, I feel that I just love it, but it's that soul aspect yeah, because remember we were talking that some white artists can sing they can really see yeah, but you can tell they're not blowing.

Speaker 1:

Right yeah by Robin Thicke and Justin Timberlake. Yeah, justin can sing.

Speaker 2:

Justin can sing, but that means Robin.

Speaker 1:

Thicke People. You can't tell, but you make Like, you make that face all the time. Have you heard some of his newest music? No, romance is out here and very underrated, but listen.

Speaker 2:

A lot Romance is out here and very underrated. But listen, a lot of people don't know his first album. First album Because he didn't come out as Robin Thicke. He came out just as Thicke. That's what you would have thought Thicke, Thicke, and he had long hair, scruffy. He looked like the whitest white boy you'll ever meet, but the whole first, oh my God, every girlfriend that I've had, I'll show them that album and they'll be like this is Robin there's people that don't know this album for real. I'm dead ass. Majority of people don't.

Speaker 1:

When I get you alone. That was his first single, and when I found that song, do you know, my life changed. What White people can sing.

Speaker 2:

You're sitting sweet like Betty.

Speaker 1:

Cocker His writing. I'd love to have your kitchen Y'all better stop dealing with me.

Speaker 2:

So listen go. It's not under Robin Thicke, it is. You go on Spotify and you look up Robin Thicke. That album is not there.

Speaker 1:

Are you fucking serious? How do I got the album?

Speaker 2:

It's under Thicke. I gotta look it up.

Speaker 1:

I think it is. I think he fixed it, fixed it.

Speaker 2:

No, I'm pretty sure it is not out there. It's the 20th anniversary? Oh no, it is.

Speaker 1:

It is. It came out last year.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Look A Beautiful World. That's what it's called. I guarantee you y'all will not Got a call from my boss, mr Punk. Y'all not gonna be. Just, I don't even know what you're talking about. It's crazy.

Speaker 1:

It's crazy.

Speaker 2:

But I crazy, but I gotta rephrase that it's for a wide range of an audience. If you really really with me, like. If you're not, like, I only listen to this genre, I only like. If you just with music, you know people who just listen to rap, not even just rap like, or just rock and roll.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I can get with you because you can.

Speaker 2:

You're at least hearing some, some harmony because, because not hearing rap like um when lincoln park and jay-z did that out?

Speaker 1:

yeah you're missing out because you don't listen to rap yeah and like, but you might not because you listen to lincoln park but you ain't as soon as you see, jay-z, you nah, I don't listen to rap Remember Three doors Bring them back, bro.

Speaker 2:

Bring them back, all of them, all of them. My fault, we got way, way, way, but you notice these are all bands and groups.

Speaker 1:

So the synopsis is I think they can make a comeback.

Speaker 2:

Oh, for sure.

Speaker 1:

For sure You're not using that word, right? Synopsis.

Speaker 2:

No, I think they could make a comeback.

Speaker 1:

Oh, for sure they're not using that word right synopsis. No, I did felt wrong, you know it felt very wrong. I didn't think I was facing it correctly.

Speaker 2:

No, it's not, but it's okay uh, we ready to move on, yeah yeah, you said they're getting hard-hitting, so let's do it, and then we be getting hard-hitting this year.

Speaker 1:

Do you have a type Think back to all your exes? I don't think you do. I think I do, but I don't think you do. I think you are, which is a good thing.

Speaker 2:

I think you're very well-rounded so if we're, if we're just going off of? Look up here, yeah, yeah no, but I'm just saying my whole dating history. I have gone through stages you think so? But no, and I mean like you're talking, dating wise, like in that relationship or who you just sleep with what you go after, okay then no, yeah, I don't think you do.

Speaker 2:

No, no, I don't, I don't. But I'll be telling people that looks aren't as important, because I've heard a lot of people like say it but not say it, that my girl, they would never date my girl or that's not one that I'm like but you don't know her like I do yeah so that makes her look so much like uh roky a lot of people like she. Kind of funny looking they always funny looking, yeah, like she was cute.

Speaker 1:

No, but okay I mean her body was, she just was heavy on the top.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, and then a lot of people was talking about her voice.

Speaker 1:

I can't remember what she's.

Speaker 2:

We had a class together, I know I remember that, but none of that ever bothered me. When we was together, we could laugh. Ever. We could talk on it she was cool though and so like personality has always outshined, yeah but, that's why I was saying, like even I can't do dating apps and stuff like that because I am in person. I gotta, because if I meet you and then you just I'm like that's a waste of my time. I'm gonna make it enjoyable, hopefully, but it's a waste of my time cause I know.

Speaker 2:

I think I went through stages, yeah now that cause, like I was gonna say that was my stage of white girls, like that's all I was dating. But then I realized that I moved into mixed Hispanic girls and that's all I was dating. But then I realized that I moved into mixed Hispanic, yeah, and that's all I was dating. But then I was like it has to be some black in you. I don't care what you're mixed with, but black has to be. So I that's what I'm saying Going through stages, but through all of those I would always give everybody a chance. Yeah.

Speaker 1:

I don't think you have a type. I don't. I definitely went through stages. I started with white, just like you did, um, but then once I got into you got a little bit of black in you. They all pretty much look the same.

Speaker 2:

They were all like football build tall, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I'll say that, yeah, because.

Speaker 1:

I was going to say Jamal, but he was taller. Yeah, yeah, yeah, and he played football. Yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 2:

I mean, I like somebody who can hold you, you never sat down and thought about it?

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I didn't, but I do want somebody taller than me. I want someone who can Husky.

Speaker 2:

Yeah like you ain't even got to be Bill Right right, got to have some meat on you, yeah, like something like that. I wouldn't be too skinny for you.

Speaker 1:

No, oh, really no. Well, I'm taller than you.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, that would make up for the fact that you are smaller than me.

Speaker 1:

Got you got, but I mean, at my lowest weight you'd be perfect. Did you know what's so crazy?

Speaker 2:

a lot of big girls be coming after me. That don't bother them.

Speaker 1:

I think a lot of guys your size and smaller are in denial that they love big girls like y'all need to just own up to it quit playing it's not even that serious, I'll tell you. I don't mind me a big girl, but once again, personality matters.

Speaker 2:

up to it. Quit playing, it's not even that serious. I'll tell you I don't mind being a big girl, but once again, personality matters. All of that shit goes out the window if you're like, if we can have a good time together, that's really all that matters to me Because it's my fault. Before I forget, I was just thinking this earlier Everyone that I have dated, they've really been my best friend. Yeah, they really. Like I can't, yeah, If I was bossing all my friends you would, you're perfectly fine.

Speaker 1:

I definitely can't be in a relationship with somebody I can't talk to Like. I used to talk to this guy and I think he thought that I wasn't like I couldn't pick up on jokes and stuff.

Speaker 1:

We just hadn't gotten there yet, gotcha, but we were doing something and we had seen this couple and I ain't gonna never forget this. He was like I'm about to tell his girlfriend that I love her and I was like don't do that. He worked really hard. We don't know these people. You fucking ruined a relationship. I'm like he worked really hard to get her Like don't do that. And it was like right then it clicked together.

Speaker 2:

Oh, she can pick it up, and that's how I be.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, Because, like when you throw him right back at me, I'm like oof, wait a second, and that's what he did, and I'm like boy, I've been telling jokes, since you were a baby, but for real, your attractiveness. Yeah, shoot, shot him Through the roof, because even for me it was like damn, we riffing off of each other about this couple. We don't.

Speaker 2:

Even so, if I do have a type, you have to be funny yeah and I'm dead, like you have to be funny.

Speaker 1:

If I can't laugh with you, we can't do nothing nothing because one thing is I hate serious sex like you ain't about to make this feel like a fucking chore. We need to be laughing Like. I've been cracking jokes during this session, sir, and I get it Like I know you don't want me tightening up because I'm laughing, because that's just going to make you come faster, but tell a fucking joke. Don't just sit there. You come faster, but tell a joke, don't just. Don't sit there acting like you're on a job interview.

Speaker 1:

We we got to do and I need to have fun doing it. No, I'll tell you, I definitely have a type and it's in it's physical and personality. You need to be funny looking. No, don't be funny looking.

Speaker 2:

But this is what I mean, man. Yeah, yeah for sure, but knowing how we grew up, all the messages.

Speaker 1:

Right, like you can't tell me I'm not funny what you mean, and I really. I think that's what used to keep people from wanting to date me, because sometimes they can't take it yeah like I'd just be cracking way too many jokes I have met them types where they really think my family is mean Right, right, and I'd be like mean, Like what you mean.

Speaker 2:

Well, they said this, and then you started laughing in front of me. I was like Grow up, I'll be like you. Better stop.

Speaker 1:

Grow up Because your dad used to call Alvin a fool, uh-huh, and you know he'd just say that though Right Like okay, fool, right okay, fool, it's like, does it's like okay.

Speaker 2:

But I'll be used to taking so personal and I'm like chill the out, but that makes it even funnier.

Speaker 1:

Right like are you a fool? He bringing up the technical definition of a fool bro, sit down. Sit down because we don't need.

Speaker 2:

You know what's crazy. I've really found that in all races, yeah, all body type, like I remember this Asian girl shout out to you, cast out, but she was so quick on her shit and that was like for it or full Asian chick it's Only know one funny.

Speaker 1:

Asian person Like personally know.

Speaker 2:

But that's what I mean, like if that's not, you're welcome, if you're not bringing that, and that's probably.

Speaker 1:

That's really only it Because even if we get into a, happy is the only Asian person.

Speaker 2:

I know that's funny, that is crazy, but I love it Because even if we get into a Happy is the only Asian person that I know that's my. The happiest is his little brother.

Speaker 1:

That is crazy but I love it. Like shout out to you, I want to know what they parents think. That's a dope as shit.

Speaker 2:

But like, even if we get into a fight or an argument, like if we can't laugh afterwards, if that tension is still there or we can't find a way, to come.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, there was, there was this tiktok of a couple.

Speaker 1:

they have a rule when they arguing, uh like if they need to step out or pause on the conversation, they can do that. Right, and they was arguing about something and he come in the room and he like we're're still arguing, but hold on. I got some tea and they just start gossiping about other people. I fucking love it. Then they finish gossiping and he like I'm still really mad at you. I can't believe you didn't like my red shorts. Excuse me, y'all arguing about shorts, get over it.

Speaker 2:

But I love it and that's what I mean, like you would have never known that they were in the middle of an argument the way they was gossiping with each other. Cause, the older I get, like I'm realizing you can't have an argument without screaming yeah, I don't think it's a healthy relationship if you're doing stuff like that.

Speaker 1:

Every time y'all disagree, y'all arguing. It's not just a disagreement. We gotta call this quits. We can't do this. That's off topic.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I like this one.

Speaker 1:

I do think you don't have a type no, I really don't, Ladies, I do.

Speaker 2:

That was a little. Yeah, I like this one. Yeah, I do think you don't have a type. No, I really don't. Ladies, I do not. So shoot your shot. I'm single, I do.

Speaker 1:

You got to be tall, you're a man. Get in my DM.

Speaker 2:

But hey, they both open in.

Speaker 1:

Ladies, I'll read them.

Speaker 2:

Oh, since you do like girls, do you think that would?

Speaker 1:

also be the type of thing she got to be like, but I can't fucking breathe. Somebody go make a joke on me, don't do it, leave me the fuck alone. So the first girl that I ever messed with I was very much smaller. I was skinnier, yes, but she was, but she wasn't. She was like she liked to dress girly. And she can because she had a nice body, still has a nice body. I've been seeing you on Facebook, so y'all still friends. Yeah, I mean, we don't really talk like that.

Speaker 2:

But y'all still friends. Yeah, I mean, we don't really talk like that.

Speaker 1:

But yeah, um, but she was more masculine than I am and I think she prefers it that way with her female partners. Um, I mean, she has a child, so she definitely does swing the other way, right, um, but yeah, I think she, I think I'm not sure, I think she prefers it that way with, uh, her female partners, for her to be the more masculine one, but she can get, she can wear a dress like she. Right, right, um, I only actually like, I only actually like fucked with three girls. So another one she was shorter than me and like me, like, dressed how I dress, like I can be comfortable, I can be girly, it was.

Speaker 1:

It was really weird and I didn't think she liked me and this was in Vegas, we was just talking and chilling. And think she liked me and we, this was in vegas, she, we was just talking and chilling, and then she kissed me and I was like I didn't know we were doing that. Thank you, there is that, right, that was the only. I mean we did what we're doing. And then the other girl also was in Vegas and she was taller than me and bigger than me, but she was 100% girly. So no, when it comes to girls, I don't think I have a type, but I always prefer who at crime wants to be taller than me.

Speaker 2:

That's what I was going to say, shorter than you.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, but we were sitting and she stood and kissed me.

Speaker 2:

So she got two inches taller than me.

Speaker 1:

So it worked. That's crazy. What was she about to say? Wow, period, girl period. Kids hate me, they love you, they love me.

Speaker 2:

They do. They fucking love me, but it's the same with me, hey, kids I don't hate kids, but I don't have any.

Speaker 1:

I hate kids.

Speaker 2:

I don't know why the I got four because I wasn't thinking about the kids, why you wasn't man.

Speaker 1:

But yeah, I don't the kids like me and I like them, so I'm cool with it. Kids would think I like them because I am nice.

Speaker 2:

But the problem is they don't see me as an adult. I feel like they don't see me.

Speaker 1:

They be talking back to me so I'm like, all right, my own kids don't see me as an adult, like they be looking at me like when are you going to stop yelling? Because you're not. You don't run around here.

Speaker 2:

Yes, I do, I'm telling you you gotta remind them, you have to wait, wait y'all thought we was way too.

Speaker 1:

I gotta turn into the hawk for my kids to even think she was Fucker. I am serious. I told somebody the other day. I talked to my kids like they bums on the street because they act like it. Quit talking to me like this, jesus. And then they all about to be taller than me.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, what am I going to do my mom be talking about it. What did you say okay. What'd you say all right. Who do you think you are?

Speaker 1:

william is almost. Like you know, I'm grown right and I'm like you, you know. Okay, don't let him be 16 and taller than me. Oh, he's gonna be. This is his chest. He up here like yeah.

Speaker 2:

For sure I don't like it. But when I realized, when I did get taught, I told you my junior year summer, going into senior year, that's when I just shot the fuck up. But you know that he was locked up for a little minute. But when he came home we were eye to eye and I was like, oh yeah, I'm definitely that's gotta be a topic. It's not recorded, though I know I'm about to write it and a lot of girls that year were just like she ain't.

Speaker 2:

I didn't know that she was so tall Like you. Damn right, you better realize that you came through you type really slow. Yeah, I do but yeah okay. So guys, you do have a type, guys you don't have a type, guys you don't have a type.

Speaker 1:

My type is tall. I have been with people the same height as me. Oh, in between yeah. My type is tall, but I have been with people who are the same height as me, which I can do, but we ain't going nowhere. Just know we're not going to work out.

Speaker 2:

This is just for fun. We're not doing this for play, play, you ain't got to eat, right? We both go ahead and say like we can't, okay, right.

Speaker 1:

I can't be like babe, come get this off the top shelf. Why we the same height? For sure we got stools all over our house. It ain't happening it ain't happening? All these fucking laughs?

Speaker 2:

nobody's doing this, oh yeah, and that's in the budget, like I got a budget climbing, fuck this, yeah, yeah, no, no.

Speaker 1:

I feel that, no, for sure but as far like I would like for you to be kind of buff or chubby or you know, but that's not a necessity, but it is a necessity for you to be at least six inches taller than me.

Speaker 2:

At least Six, at least, yeah, and from you that's not a lot to ask?

Speaker 1:

Yeah, no, because I'm only 5'6".

Speaker 2:

I feel like that's not a lot to ask, yeah.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, that's not outrageous, because I'm only 5'6". I feel like that's not a lot to ask you. Yeah, that's not outrageous. I'm not looking for a Yao Ming.

Speaker 2:

Because I don't meet a lot of men. That's not my height or they might be a little shorter.

Speaker 1:

I meet a lot of men that are my height that want it.

Speaker 2:

And I'm just like why? No, I just mean the life, like going through life.

Speaker 1:

No, I, mean a lot of men that are my height and wanted and I just be like you couldn't find me. Can I be in it? I'm just lying, come on girl, you uh. And I just be like you couldn't find nobody shorter than you like.

Speaker 2:

There are short women, yeah, women, sure, because I feel like all the women that I know are shorter than me.

Speaker 1:

To me, I'm average height for a woman. Oh okay, I am the absolute but that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 2:

If you mean a lot of short men, like to me, every woman is short to you.

Speaker 1:

It's like my age and younger men are just short. It's wow near grand rapids. Anyway, yeah, it could be that too.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, a tall man is just. Actually I'm not a lot of you.

Speaker 1:

I do see a lot, but I feel like a lot of your friends are shorter than you. Even terai is shorter than you. No, that's the up. He pissed me off with that tori no, it's not his name.

Speaker 2:

I named you but, and that's what I was thinking, like back that. But you're right, like when I walk around life, I don't, he ain't shorter than you.

Speaker 1:

No, he tall as you. No, he taller than you. Yeah, really Okay, torai.

Speaker 2:

He like 6'3". Who's Flash? He's shorter than me, is he yeah?

Speaker 1:

Okay, but he's still a good height. Yeah, he's like 5'2" and a good size. But he's still a good height, yeah, yeah, and a good size.

Speaker 2:

But that's why? Because he's shorter.

Speaker 1:

Man, he's a great size. He's like 5'10". I think he's a great size.

Speaker 2:

He's a great size, but that's my answer and we can be the same weight and I'll still look skinnier than him, because of height, it's hard for me. And I'll be trying. Like I said at the beginning of the episode, I'm trying to put on your 30 because that's going to make me look like that, but I be trying. I'm a good size for me. I'm not unhealthy.

Speaker 1:

You would be the best. You're my brother, so we can't do it. I can't stand you. If any woman has ever cuddled with Flash man please let him know.

Speaker 2:

He know what he got. He's a great size but like you're like that at that height where.

Speaker 1:

He much shorter than you. He taller than me.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, yeah, like two and a half short, because y'all was all taller than me in high school.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's crazy.

Speaker 2:

But that's what I'm saying To me, that's what I'm saying I'm lying Like to me, the world is a little bit shorter.

Speaker 1:

I'm just looking down at you. I love it, I love it. I'm just walking around looking down at you. I love it, I love it. I'm out here being shat no.

Speaker 2:

Hell, hell, my neck would hurt.

Speaker 1:

That.

Speaker 2:

My neck would fuck wife's name Shani To be that high. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1:

I gotta pick you up all the time.

Speaker 2:

But I also understand it's gonna be hard for Shaq. I wanna know how big he is, but that's gonna be hard for.

Speaker 1:

Shaq, I wanna know how big he is. I can't stand you I need her to tell me Was he tearing you up? I need to know, right.

Speaker 2:

I need to know.

Speaker 1:

I would be flabbergasted if he was the average man, like what you doing. I would be. And you cheat, you, this gay that's how you go. That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. That's what's like. I'm good. I need to sit down with her and have a chat.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, you go ahead. I need to know Because you're wild.

Speaker 1:

You know who I think is sir. You are and he can get it. You can tear me up, bro, I would think. Here's my. I really think that Sir would have me never having sex with you. I'm sorry to put that expectation on you because you might not be, but that's where my mind goes. Oh, Call me Sir is the sexiest thing. I'm not really into dark skin. Alvin is dark. Alvin is chocolate. He's dark and he is, and sir can get it. I can't stand you Like if I could have kids give me a baby, just not kidding with you oh yeah, you yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2:

But y'all need to think do you have a type? Because, oh for sure, don't waste nobody time for real, yeah, don't yeah, and that's where I was going with that.

Speaker 1:

Like, if you have a type, why are you talking to people that ain't in there?

Speaker 1:

now I can see if you make it clear like this is just for fun yeah, play, play okay for play, play I do have my plays right, that's cool, yeah, that's cool yeah, but I'm saying like my type, as far as like we're doing this long term, even if it's just sex, we're doing that oh okay, okay, yeah, okay yeah yeah, that makes sense that makes sense so yeah, don't always nobody time out here, go for your type, okay that's your

Speaker 1:

type let them know here's where I think things are going to get a little controversial, controversial, controversial. There it's gonna get crazy it's ghosting, slash, no contact, mature, because it's a big thing right now in the media, the socials of media, people are really promoting ghosting and no contact or no contact I think it depends on how long.

Speaker 2:

that's why I'm doing it my side of the engine, I'm like why the fuck is my side. But it depends on how long we've been dealing with each other. Okay, like if, and I even say less than six months.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

Go ahead. I don't owe you no goddamn explanation. Yeah, but even six months to a year, it depends on the situation, because that y'all I'm getting a little serious. If I've been dealing with you a year plus, at least give me the respect to be like listen, this ain't for me. I don't think this is like, because the thing is it was working somehow like we're a year deep. But that's why I say, if you're not wasting my time, this is if it's authentic. Yeah, if we're a year deep in this, there's something there, obviously. So at least give me that respect and and with that deep, I'll give you the same respect You'd be like I get it. I think it's circumstantial, circumstantial, circumstantial.

Speaker 2:

Bro, I swear you be thinking about weed when I'm not looking I don't know the word, you know what I mean, I think you got it right the first time.

Speaker 1:

I think you're circumcised. That was definitely not it. I think the situation matters. I just cut through the bullets. It depends on what happened, Because I think I told you, and I think I might have even said it on the podcast, there was a girl who was in a relationship and she came home and found her husband cheating, or boyfriend or whatever. It was a long-term relationship, but he was cheating and instead of busting in the room to confront she, was packed up her stuff and left.

Speaker 2:

And ghosted. Yeah, In that case. In that case, I definitely get it.

Speaker 1:

That's mature. Yeah, I feel like that's mature too, because you're not about to get a side out of me.

Speaker 2:

You're not about to get a side out of me, hell no, because it's only going to be better for me. Right, right, no matter how you turn it.

Speaker 1:

And she ghosted to the point where she in another state. She's not even. Yes, she gone. Yes, because she moved out of state with him and went back to her hometown. Yes, like I feel like that's very mature and to go no contact with you is very very because, because what we got to talk, right you because the thing is, I clearly told you that was my boundary. Don't cheat on me, right, right yeah, and we're long term right because it, even if it's a year, two years, that's long term to me.

Speaker 2:

Yeah a lot of time. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1:

Hell, the yeah now with going no contact with somebody. Whenever I hear no contact, I always equate it to a family member. I don't't know why, but no contact always goes. Who in your family are you in no contact with? That's for sure, and I don't think it's not mature. I don't think it's immature to go no contact with, not at all.

Speaker 2:

But I think I was asking you like if you were friends with one of my exes on Facebook, and I was like, but why, and not saying, and not really not coming from a place of anger?

Speaker 1:

yeah, I'm really confused why are you?

Speaker 2:

because the only reason you know them is because, yeah, is because of me.

Speaker 1:

I just feel like and this is just me, because we're going a little bit off top, but I feel like I want to say this because you're doing ghosting, no contact. Yeah, I want y'all to stay in contact with my exes. Tell me what's going on. What is the tea? How is this nigga doing? I'm not that interested. You ain't gotta be, but you might see something and be like hey asshole.

Speaker 2:

So I'll be like what the fuck what? No, asshole. So I'll be like the fuck what? No, that's not why I stay, no, and I'm saying like if that happens in life, if we're because I don't say I don't think you should be rude to him, like if y'all want to just sit there and catch up.

Speaker 1:

Sit there and catch up, yeah and if he comes across then it comes across. I'm definitely not reaching out to anybody, for sure, sure.

Speaker 2:

For sure. But I'm saying internet-wise, like the no-contact wise. Then yup, all of y'all Round of up round table right now.

Speaker 1:

Now I feel like that's a conversation that we should have had.

Speaker 2:

Yup.

Speaker 1:

I think all four of us, definitely all ten of us, should have had a conversation.

Speaker 2:

And that's what I mean. That's how deep it went.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, because the Kardashians know, they know, but I feel like y'all had to have that conversation, that's the only motherfucking way. We never had that conversation. I think it was just like I thought it was yeah, yeah. I think in certain people's mind it's just understood Because I'm still friends with Trevor on Facebook let's see Nope Deleted. But to me it's just like I don't talk to you like that.

Speaker 2:

I don't care If I see you in real life what's up, trev, how you been. And I'm for real interested, but that's as far as going. The only reason I know you is through her.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I get it, fuck for.

Speaker 2:

To me.

Speaker 1:

I just don't find the people that I don't fuck with I'm still friends with on Facebook, so that's where it's like. I'm just not taking the time to delete you.

Speaker 2:

I'm going to.

Speaker 1:

And.

Speaker 2:

I'm, I should. That's no contact. I should, I'm, but once again, and I wish I would have had that conversation, because that does matter- I again and I wish I would have had that conversation because that does matter.

Speaker 1:

I should, though that is a huge flaw for me. Yeah, people still have access to you because I won't, and I think I'm being nice no and I might even block you and restrict you just because I don't want you getting.

Speaker 2:

I don't want, I don't want it, I want to be that. I don't want it, I really do.

Speaker 1:

But even when I sent a message to her, I had to unblock her and then, right after, I got it straight back into it, see as far as I went with my ex-bess, I can't see anything that she posts, so there's a thing on Facebook where you can not get like. You just can't see their book.

Speaker 2:

But I'm still friends with her if you can take the time to click on them. Three dots to click on.

Speaker 1:

You got time to click on the page and just click delete, and I don't know why bro.

Speaker 2:

Nah, I don't know. I'm good on you and I wasn't always that way. I wasn't always that way. I want wasn't always that way.

Speaker 1:

I want to be that.

Speaker 2:

But I think when we were in California to me I was like I'm in the real world now, yeah, and so many people were just like, oh well, like I seen that I was still single. But I'm seeing so many people just not give a fuck, like, except them boundaries.

Speaker 1:

You just not give a like. You set them boundaries you cross. I don't get damn like it's, because it's not that I think that ghosting or no contact is immature.

Speaker 2:

I think it's very mature. Yes, that's what I learned it.

Speaker 1:

It takes a lot of strength and self-love, yeah, to delete someone yeah to block them? Yeah to, and I have a serious problem with that and I don't know what that is.

Speaker 2:

But, like you said, that access thing, like just at any point anyway, and once again, I didn't know that when I moved to california and that's why she could call me yeah, and, but you shouldn't have been able to yeah but in the process of even going through that learning, I'm like fuck, no, as soon as you make it, because me, if we're even in that deep, I'm really going to fight for it, I'm going to try. If we're in that deep and you really just like nope, then no, fuck it, nope, we done.

Speaker 1:

Because, I won't lie, I like the thought of which ain't happening, so I don't even know why I'm obsessed with that thought, but I like the thought of you might be contacting me, but you ain't. People are treating me how I need to be treating them.

Speaker 2:

But that's when I learned it. I'm like nah, because you chose not to have this, access ain't gonna be.

Speaker 1:

you can hop in and hop out whenever you want to because in my mind you didn't block me, so you're not mad at me, but we're not talking. So what's the problem?

Speaker 2:

so why don't you do it? Yeah, because, once again, it's not immature. Yeah, if you do that, because you don't talk to him anyway, because I need to just let it go I keep thinking and, honestly, that is the problem of why I keep reaching out to people the subconsciously.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, because it's like gonna move to the forefront but you don't care about me. Like you don't, I'm not a thought to you and I'm not saying people can't change or whatnot, but like if we because I've done, I haven't talked to people before they've ever run into them in real life.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

And they really are a completely different person. And we'll reconnect. That's fine, that's cool with me, but once it's from that point on, if I never see you again, if I never speak to you again, I will not miss a wink, because her birthday is after mine, like in two weeks, and she didn't say nothing to me and I love that my birthday was first, because that tells you what to do, yeah but that.

Speaker 1:

But I would, but I would say happy birthday to you because I'm in my mind.

Speaker 2:

It'll make you feel bad because you didn't say anything to me but I still, and it don't, it, don't, it ain't gonna make me feel no fucking way, and the thing is I I don't know what that is in me that I think I can control people's emotions for me, like I yeah, I don't know. I, I sincerely think like but, like I said, I wasn't always happy birthday, so I'll tell her happy birthday.

Speaker 1:

Then she'll feel bad. No, she won't, because this ain't the first year she ain't told you happy birthday, so she know when your birthday is.

Speaker 2:

So, yeah, I need to go on facebook and go with people and the thing is it will make you feel better, and that's in a season process, but day after day after day. That's why it's not immature, because how hard it is is to do. It is so hard for me I'm not going to say it's hard for everybody, but if we're in that deep, it's hard as fuck to do this, but I love me too.

Speaker 1:

And that will be another topic. I'm not even going to bring it up. That's why I don't think it's immature.

Speaker 2:

Because this about to be painful for me too. And then, as much as I might give off, I don't give a fuck, and if I really act like that for real, I feel like that's immature.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I do think it is immature of me to believe that something's going to change.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I know it is. It's mature to delete them.

Speaker 1:

I know it is fucking childish to think it's been how long and ain't nothing changed. That's like me being friends with murder on Facebook. He's in jail, he ain't coming out. What do you think is gonna happen? Like, exactly, grow the fuck up. Exactly, and I need to. I I'm aware of how stupid it is for me to want what is not gonna happen. I've been telling myself this for a while. It is really hard, though, which is again why I think it's not immature, I think it's very natural.

Speaker 2:

Even when I go through my friend list and I see that somebody deleted me, they're not on the friend list.

Speaker 1:

I don't take it hard or no, I don't even recognize it Exactly and I know that people have deleted me, but really I don't recognize it. Recognize it one because I know there are people who I'm friends with and I don't know where I know you from. There was this one girl who I'm not gonna say her name, but she asked me to be her friend on facebook. I had deleted my facebook because I had a stalker and I created a new one, and this girl asked me to be her friend on Facebook again.

Speaker 2:

Like a real life stalker.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, that's crazy and I don't know where I know. I know I know her, yeah, but I don't know where I know her from. Yeah, we went to school together, but it's not registering that we went to school together. But I I it's not registering that we went to school. Like, how do you know me? Right like none of that is coming up.

Speaker 2:

Yes, they did I love it, girl, you better keep going.

Speaker 1:

I think we should record that night. I like it and then there was another girl that apparently hung out with Jansen and all of them, and she keeps asking me to be her friend on Facebook and I don't know her the thing is we've been at so many parties.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, you know how many faces that I saw and what is so significant the thing is, we've been at so many parties. Yeah, yeah, you know how many faces that I saw and what is so significant that you think we should be friends on Facebook. Right, right, but, and I think that just once again, I like to keep my life private, so even the access to me, like I have so many friend requests, right, I don't hit confirm, I probably should go through it handily, but that's the thing. I don't even give a damn.

Speaker 1:

But see, I'm not that private because my page is not private, which is what be throwing me off when people ask me to be their friend? There was this girl that tried to fight me in high school and years later asked me to be her friend on Facebook.

Speaker 2:

For be a friend on Facebook. For what? My page is not private. Whatever you want to look at, you can look at. We don't need to be. We were not friends?

Speaker 1:

Why are you trying to be my friend on Facebook? She trying to make amends. Hey, do it with someone else. I don't have the time for this. What are we doing right now? Like that's dumb. Stop it, I feel it.

Speaker 2:

But stop it. I feel it, but no, I feel it. I like, for what?

Speaker 1:

it was a lot of immature yeah it was a lot of girls who didn't like me trying to be my friend on facebook and I'm just like why?

Speaker 2:

but sometimes, like you heard something about me, whether I'm doing it or bad, yeah, and you just want to see.

Speaker 1:

But again Paige is not private.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I don't get that.

Speaker 1:

You can see everything on my page. I don't get that Everything.

Speaker 2:

Oh man. But no, I don't think it's immature at all. I need to grow up.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, because you're being childish, yeah.

Speaker 2:

Because, once again, if we're not talking, what the? What the fuck for?

Speaker 1:

what the fuck for now, when it comes to guys, I think I have that under control.

Speaker 2:

It's just really with like um, maybe not, but I'm so far. I'm going into google photos, everything that got your face on it. It's a delete. Really, we never happened.

Speaker 1:

I was just looking at pictures the other day.

Speaker 2:

You probably have more than I do you. To me you never happened.

Speaker 1:

I need to be that way Because, for what? For?

Speaker 2:

what.

Speaker 1:

For what?

Speaker 2:

For what?

Speaker 1:

Because you've done you've probably done all this to me, Bro Bro.

Speaker 2:

And I feel like once again, at least in my experience moving to California and her having that access to me, that only hurt me in the long run. Yeah, because I was the childish man and I'm thinking, oh, we might have.

Speaker 1:

Right.

Speaker 2:

No, she wasn't thinking about it. She used you for what she knew she could get out of you. And now I'm like you had it. It's like letting a job have access to you when you don't work there right, hey, we not gonna pay you, but you gotta help us with this shit. No, fuck, no, it becomes a lot not me.

Speaker 1:

Hey, we're not going to pay you, but you know, fuck no, fuck no. It becomes a lot. Not me, not me. Yeah, I think I'm going to spend some time on Facebook tonight.

Speaker 2:

So there you have it, people. It is not immature to give them the snip, snip, snip, snip.

Speaker 1:

I thought you were going to say it was Hell fucking. No, I did. I thought you were going to say yeah, I did.

Speaker 2:

I thought you were going to say yeah, but like even when people were like, oh, she back around, like for real, like we've been having a conversation, like it's for real.

Speaker 1:

But when you give me that it's done, yeah, it's motherfucking yeah it's over, it's over, and I think I'm stubborn, like I do think, or not stubborn, but I think I'm special enough for you to want to come back.

Speaker 2:

I think that too, but usually you do like I said. But then and I'm not going to say you might just realize I'm not for you or whatever because I've had it in weird ways. I've had it in rude ways, I've had it in respectful ways, I've had it in mature ways where they broke, had it in respectful ways, I've had it in mature ways where they broke it off. Because once again, I'm just the type if I'm deep I'm going to keep trying. I don't think I've ever been the person to break up with somebody Me either.

Speaker 1:

I've never broken up with anybody.

Speaker 2:

Once you let me know, because the thing is.

Speaker 1:

Do you think that's a mature?

Speaker 2:

No, because I was going to say that you've never broken up with anybody. No, no, no, because I mean, if I'm that deep, this is a relationship we're supposed to be and I'm saying through, no matter what, if we ain't put a ring on it, then we can definitely try, because I don't think you should stay in an ungrateful marriage. Yeah, because I don't think you should stay in an ungrateful marriage, because then you're just wasting your life for real, and that's what I mean. At any point, I'm giving you the respect to walk away, right, but I've just got it in those ways and I'm just like but no matter what, as soon as you let me know that it's done, done, done, done, yeah, and I mean from the rocky to a fat booty. I don't have memories, pictures, nothing to worry about, none of them, none of them, none of them.

Speaker 1:

The only one and she was before rocky, this friday, I don't know, next tuesday friday, next tuesday I still don't know the weather the first white girl with you long ago.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, you're telling me afterwards oh, shoot, before rocky was she? Yes, okay, but that was just like, uh, my, I believe, my first girlfriend. I said it was like just I was in concert's mountain. Yes, or a couple weeks ago, concert, she was at all your concerts.

Speaker 1:

Oh, for real, bro. That's crazy, yeah, and I I don't know what's wrong with me. I didn't know where I knew her from. Yeah yeah people. She noticed me oh yeah, I believe that you're gonna have to remind me, lady, I don't know, I believe that. And she said, and I was like oh my god, yeah but that's the only one that like we're facebook friends.

Speaker 2:

we just failed to talk, but none of them and I was like 15 when I dated her, so we only dated for years 16, 17 and on. I don't have no contact, I feel like.

Speaker 1:

I've never gotten a clear. We're done. That sucks and that is really it does, even to this day. There are a few people that could possibly come back and be like we never broke up. Oh, did we not? I believe you. I believe you. I'm whole ass. Mary, believe me, I'm sorry. I've been cheating on you for 13 years, 13.

Speaker 2:

Hell no, you know, we are Benito. I mean yeah obviously that really yeah for real. But to get that clear, yeah within, like that sucks for real.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, and I think that's what it is. I think that's what it might be.

Speaker 1:

Just the fact that nobody has ever been like we're done, because I've never broken up with anyone, I've never ended any friendships, I've never done any of that. If it was up to me, everybody would still be in my life, like I really would be a cheater, because everybody would be in my life Ain't nobody going nowhere but? And there has never been one person be in my life Ain't nobody going nowhere, but? And there's never been one person who's ever been like, oh wait, murderer, I did break up with, but you're a murderer. So he wasn't me, he wasn't but um, but he was, I did break up with him.

Speaker 1:

But at least we have to feel it it I've never broken up with anyone and that was a really rare case, because he cheated on me and that was not the first time that I had been cheated on, but he was the first person that I had had sex with, so the cheating was so much more severe. It was just like, uh-uh, because he was cheating on me and all we was doing was kissing. Now you cheating on me and you lost. Yeah, yeah, like you've got to be joking, like, and then I later find out that you had a baby with this. Like you cheated on me and had a baby. She's pregnant. Leave me alone.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, leave me alone, leave me alone, but I feel like it took that for you to not saying it's a bad thing, but it took that, like I said, I've had it in weird ways. I've had it in mature ways, I've had it in rude ways, but no matter what, as soon as you stop being childish. I do need to grow up don't be childish out there, don't be like her can't be no, you got into your marriage, huh. Y'all just never decided he was like one day we married I as bad as that sounds.

Speaker 1:

That is exactly that sounds. That is exactly what it is Like. No, All of my friendships, relationships, everything has always been. Do you remember Lily? Yeah, she was one of my best friends in high school. There was no. Oh, you're cool, it's nice to meet you. We had a class together, so obviously there was some interaction there and then it was just we hanging out all the time. But that's how you know a real friend. But, yeah, like my bitch Right, Like the stories that I could tell you.

Speaker 2:

I was going to say I don't remember becoming like tight, tight with Eric, but we just had a class together.

Speaker 1:

We had one class together From then on, you know we were inseparable. I remember you listening like that. You couldn't tear us apart. We're doing dumb shit swimming in the winter. Who's doing this? This is an almost daily routine for us. Go swim and sit in the car in the winter. What? Who's doing this? Who's doing this? And this is a almost daily routine for us. Go swim and sit in the car in the freezing like going out to the lake taking pictures neither one of us neither, so that's like one of us.

Speaker 1:

There ain't no white in neither one of us. She's Cuban and Vietnamese. That's wild. We doing the whitest shit out here, clearly Getting stuck in the driveway in her car.

Speaker 2:

But it was never even a clear.

Speaker 1:

It was never like we friends.

Speaker 2:

And there was no.

Speaker 1:

No, she went off to college and yeah, and we just lost yeah I mean it makes sense, but it's always bad still like yeah, yeah, that there were a few times that she reached out and was like come, come, spend the weekend with me at college, blah blah. But then she became friends with people that I was distancing myself from, and so it was like that I mean, that wasn't why I never went out there, it was just never like we just never made an actual plan to.

Speaker 1:

it was like you're calling and asking but we're never being like, okay, come this this day, I don't know why. I thought that was a man's life. Yeah, there was never for anybody that I've ever been in anything with a clear this isn't going to work. This ain't working.

Speaker 2:

We got to be done, yeah that's isn't gonna work, this ain't working. We gotta be done. Nah, that's. That's insane.

Speaker 1:

Even with friends.

Speaker 2:

Once it's, because if we don't, it's still all up and once again, life does happen. But we might still make contact, like if I see anything happen in your life, I'm gonna congratulate you, I'm gonna make sure I'm gonna check in every now and again, like we ain't gotta talk every day, right, right for sure. But if we had that and then we just go to nothing, absolute nothing, like I'll reach out and I get nothing and I did like.

Speaker 1:

When we were living in vegas, I found out that she was living in california, so I reached out and I mean, I get it if people are like, that was years ago, my life has moved on.

Speaker 2:

I get that but never having it.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, oh what was that? You saw that I'm not tripping, I'm not tripping, I'm not tripping. That was there. That was there. Hi, what's up, hey, what's up Nothing, nothing. That was nothing. That was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was it was listen.

Speaker 2:

If I ever stop talking with you, I'm gonna let you know I'm like that's all I'm asking.

Speaker 1:

Just tell me like this ain't working out. You can be as rude as you want, to be right, you're having you said you think we go.

Speaker 2:

So if we get in an argument we go in the episode, all happy and stuff.

Speaker 1:

I say hell, no right like I beat you bro, I'm going to I.

Speaker 2:

You're going to be the one sitting there like you're watching. I don't know if we'll be back next week Because, like for real, for real, for what If we're deciding?

Speaker 1:

that, because if you're going to be that mean, Like that's not mean To leave me hanging. No no that's not Like. Depending on on, I mean there's ghosts.

Speaker 2:

I don't think I don't think we're gonna get into that, but once again, if you do it right no, it's not I'm before this gets any, no, but before any with anybody, before this gets too intense, I'm gonna just I'm gonna head out, I'm gonna go ahead, because what the Okay?

Speaker 1:

no contact is definitely not immature. Ghosting can be immature.

Speaker 2:

But that's what I said and I do agree with you it can't be.

Speaker 1:

It's definitely circumcised.

Speaker 2:

Because if we even feel that deep after four to six months, I'm expecting that respect.

Speaker 1:

The circumcised has to be seriously. I'm expecting that the circumcised has to be seriously butchered for you to Nah, but I feel it Y'all circumcising. Y'all can't? I've heard that uncircumcised peeing is quite enjoyable. I've never that uncircumcised peeing is quite enjoyable. I've never been with one but I have heard through the grapevine that it is something to enjoy. Something to enjoy. You know, your granddaddy got circumcised as an adult.

Speaker 2:

Oh hell the no he didn't.

Speaker 1:

Yes, he did At a big age. Because, I was alive.

Speaker 2:

Anything over six months, anything over two days.

Speaker 1:

What are we talking about?

Speaker 2:

Anything over six minutes, you fucking right, you fucking right, because, yeah, yeah, at a very big age.

Speaker 1:

At your big right bitch. How did we get here?

Speaker 2:

Listen, it's not immature to. It came back for you. Yes See, he said I ain't done with your ass man.

Speaker 1:

it was in my head.

Speaker 2:

Like in my brain.

Speaker 1:

Got to go.

Speaker 2:

So it's not immature to ghost no contact, but it is also situational. If you don't want all that shit, just go ahead and ghost them. No contact.

Speaker 1:

I think if you're ghosting, it's got to be that you got hurt. Oh, for sure, For sure you can't just be ghosting people because you done For sure or you bored.

Speaker 2:

But once again, it depends on how deep we are, even if you did get hurt or whatever.

Speaker 1:

But I mean, if I only knew you for a week, but yeah, I'm going to ghost you if I'm done?

Speaker 2:

No, but I'm saying like if I come in, I'm like y'all, I've been thinking about it. If I come in, I'm like y'all, I've been thinking we might need to take some time, I don't know yet, but like maybe we can give a couple weeks to see if things get better or not. But then I just don't hear from you or see you.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2:

What the fuck do you mean Right?

Speaker 1:

Have you ever tried to end something with somebody Like just even a casual, like hookup or something, and just be like, okay, we need to take a step.

Speaker 2:

Oh, I don't take a step.

Speaker 1:

And they just won't let you.

Speaker 2:

They've tried, but you're not firm. We're learning.

Speaker 1:

We're learning that you're not, I would say it happened to people.

Speaker 2:

Because they're like, yeah, okay, you're going to be there.

Speaker 1:

Right, or they text you the next day. Sir, I did tell you we were going to be there.

Speaker 2:

But the thing is, what do you mean? Text me the next day.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I should have blocked you.

Speaker 2:

What do you mean? Text me the next day. It makes me feel good, you fucking. What Hell? No, how am I going to know?

Speaker 1:

that you wanted to text me if I blocked you. How do I know that you wanted to text me if I blocked you?

Speaker 2:

My thing is I'm not that petty, because that is immature. Leaving that ex just to feel good, that's petty. No, I do care about you. This is not easy for me to put. This is going to be good for both of us. We both decided that.

Speaker 1:

I want to stay six. I need the endorsements. Clearly, I want to stay six.

Speaker 2:

Hell, no, hell no.

Speaker 1:

I need to become 16 hell no.

Speaker 2:

And that does not make you a bad person once again, like I don't think I ever told you why I got this tattoo, but the duality of what's in a human being yeah that doesn't make you a bad person yeah, I do think that everything makes me no not at all, not. But it's like how can I think that everything makes me a bad person? No, not at all, not at all. But it's like, how can?

Speaker 1:

I think that when so many people are doing it Like bitch, you're just dumb.

Speaker 2:

But now it depends on, like you said, how you're doing it.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

Niggas are cheating and shit Right right right. Yeah, I'm telling you, it's not immature, it's not, it's not immature, it's not immature, it's not. I know it's not, it's not. So I started doing it, dang, and hey, maybe you should start smoking. You know what?

Speaker 1:

Sometimes I really do be thinking that, like all the smokers is out here living they fucking life, and I'm over here thinking I can make things right because I'm clean. What you got, a job already bitch. Do what you gotta do.

Speaker 2:

I think it was episode two or three. I was like I'm so Nothing against her, but I'm so glad I did not say I do the life that I've had and been living since then. And once again, within that cutting you off for real and I'm moving out of. Yeah, and once again within that, cutting you off for real and I'm moving out of this, yeah. Like you said no girl did Like I'm gone and it made a whole new me I mean you moved away, but you moved with us.

Speaker 1:

I have a serious problem with thinking that I'm hurting people's feelings, and it's like even if I am, and that I'm hurting people's feelings, and it's like, even if I am, what does that matter?

Speaker 2:

Your feelings got hurt and they didn't care about you. I care too much, Bro. It's time to let go. I care too much. It's time to let go Fuck that.

Speaker 1:

Here's the thing If they want you and I block you. If they want me and I block them, they go far and I block them.

Speaker 2:

Oh, they gonna find a way. Right, you said you had a real life stalker. Yeah, are they gonna find a way, and my thing is that'll show me something.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, but if we never speak, again yeah, that shows me something, because I never really thought about that, like, yeah, you block them on your phone and then they'll.

Speaker 2:

They know where you live like if you're that deep, they know how to find you. Like you said, old girl moved back to her hometown. You think he don't know where she stay at if he really, really no, but you even know why you know, exactly why she left your ass because you know where to live. That's why it's not immature, just ghosting and like that circumcised.

Speaker 1:

The circumcised has to be, but it's never, then people start calling situations circumcised. Because of this, I'm sorry. I apologize in advance.

Speaker 2:

They matter, it's another t-shirt, the circumcise wasn't right.

Speaker 1:

I had to walk away because the circumcise was not done correctly. Okay, let's go.

Speaker 2:

We gotta leave For real gang. No, you's go. We gotta leave For real. No, you're not.

Speaker 1:

They find me. They're gonna find a way. My phone is on airplane mode, bro. They're gonna find a way. My phone is on airplane mode, bro.

Speaker 2:

They're gonna find a way. Stop playing with me On that note. Listen, I'll appreciate y'all for tuning in every motherfucking week. Riding with us. Riding with us. I don't know why y'all listening to this stupid shit I do. These are real life things. I don't know why you're listening to this stupid shit I do. These are real life things.

Speaker 1:

I've never actually thought about this, these things that we've been talking about are real life ass things. I think I needed to.

Speaker 2:

Maybe we laugh a little too much. For sure, but I can't take shit serious, but I was going to say maybe that's the difference between me and you. I can play and joke with you, but yeah, I'm still hearing it Like I'm still.

Speaker 1:

It's still very serious to me Because I have never actually said it out loud that I've never ended anything.

Speaker 2:

And these conversations fucking matter For real. Thank y'all for tuning in. Yeah, because the perspectives clearly fucking matter.

Speaker 1:

I don't think that we would ever actually have these conversations?

Speaker 2:

If we were? Nope, I don't think so either.

Speaker 1:

We're bringing people together.

Speaker 2:

We said that Go ahead, girl. I'm learning so much more about you now. What do you think?

Speaker 1:

The girl thing I didn't know that, but even like this, I never knew that your record of break it up, yeah, the whole phase like I'm learning so much about you.

Speaker 1:

I feel like I knew a teeny bit of everything that you're saying yeah, yeah but I okay, I'm not a private person, but I am like I don't just put it out there, like I obviously give everyone access to me, but I'm just not like you know, when you're on Facebook you say, or when you're putting up a post ask everyone, all your friends, or only me, everyone, all my friends, I'll make sure people in India know who I am.

Speaker 2:

I don't want you to see shit shit, mumbai knows all about me.

Speaker 1:

I'm trying to fly over here right now. I don't. There's not one person on earth who can't get into my like.

Speaker 2:

You see everything, and even that like us, through talking, we're coming up with more topics. So, for real, we got more things. Yeah, we got more things coming from y'all.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

And if y'all been wondering some stuff, you want to ask something you to let us know, leave it down in the comments. We definitely will have no problem.

Speaker 1:

A lot of opinions about the uh. Should kids eat as oh have to ask for food?

Speaker 2:

I was actually surprised that people agreed that they should, so and it's been a black one with a real big one, though they was just laughing at me.

Speaker 1:

But once again they real-life topics.

Speaker 2:

So, yes, tap in in the comments if you want to hear us talk about something we got y'all this has been fun.

Speaker 1:

I think I like the later shoots, Although them teenagers walking around being like shoot me shit.

Speaker 2:

I feel like they did that on purpose. It's been like the last three nights and there's been irritating the fucking because they were looking over here doing it but they even hit the windows and shit. Another night when I came out and smoked and then they I'm like yo y'all fucking chill out yeah like, keep it away from the windows. Teenagers are just getting worse. I told you these kids is different. These kids are different.

Speaker 1:

They need to be watching this shit to learn some shit it's crazy because, like you said, we come off like we're probably their age or a couple years older, but, nah, we come from a whole different era, you niggas is different it is ridiculous. How crazy the difference of growing up is.

Speaker 2:

Technology, really, that's another one Even as a parent.

Speaker 1:

I'm still like I will never do what you do Right how.

Speaker 2:

And I'm raising you, that's probably why they don't listen to you.

Speaker 1:

I don't understand.

Speaker 2:

I could never get away with this, but this is where you put it. Okay, I'm going to have to go stand.

Speaker 1:

I could never get away with this, but this is where you put it okay, I'm, but yeah, for real, calm yourself down, because that? Nah, I feel it nah that. But once again, thank y'all for tuning in. This is Genius.

Speaker 2:

And you are watching that actually went Put a beat to it and there we go.

Speaker 1:

Hey, don't fuck with me.

Speaker 2:

We just recorded it. Y'all was witness. We out here, we out here. I don't think the beat gonna sound like that it should.

Speaker 1:

Definitely should, definitely not, definitely should, definitely not. No, it should be. Sample that and then work around it. That's not even. Let me give you a clean one.

Speaker 2:

Let me give you a clean.

Speaker 1:

one Sample that. Okay, I got, you, I got you Watch me do things like that. I dare you not to. I dare you to act like you didn't hear me. I did, I did, I did, I did I did, I did.

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