He Smoke She Don't
He is a single man with no kids. She is a wife with four kids. He smoke She don't. Do they see life through the same glasses? Take a listen and find out
He Smoke She Don't
Love, Looks, and Laughter
Ever wondered if looks really matter more than love in relationships? Or why some of us can't resist the allure of mint chocolate chip ice cream despite fierce debates? Join us on "He Smoke, She Don't" as we celebrate our podcast journey up to episode five, filled with laughs, unexpected revelations, and a deep dive into the dynamics of modern relationships. We'll share our excitement about turning our conversations into potential hit songs, and the importance of listener feedback in shaping our show. Plus, get an insider's look at the hilarious origin story behind our podcast's name.
This episode takes a candid look at the influence of social media on our romantic preferences and the complex balance between physical attractiveness and genuine connection. We'll discuss high-profile relationships like Victoria and David Beckham as examples of true love. From there, we touch on the rising interest in unique music genres, including black country artists, and debate the responsibilities of fathers in supporting their child's mother even after a breakup. Expect a range of opinions and personal anecdotes that add depth to these discussions.
We also address the fine line between feistiness and disrespect in relationships, and how insecurities in men can impact dynamics with strong-willed women. Through personal stories, we challenge common misconceptions about who typically leaves relationships, and delve into the fascinating world of faceless dating apps. Could they help us find our soulmates or just increase the risk of catfishing? To top it all off, we'll share our mutual appreciation for under-the-radar musical talents and the importance of keeping an open mind when exploring new genres. Tune in for an episode that's as insightful as it is entertaining!
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Speaker 1:Now you know that we live because this is he smoke is she don't episode five?
Speaker 2:it wasn't on beat.
Speaker 1:I didn't know what you wanted me to say it was a long those lines, but we got it. I'll be forgetting that.
Speaker 2:You not, as I was gonna, uh I was gonna start singing when I shake it. She don't, and I was like I gotta get that out of my head.
Speaker 1:That was right, no, because when I shake it she don't mind, when I shake it she don't mind, okay, when I shake it, she don't mind. I feel like we gonna have so many like songs bangers yeah, we can make it into songs yeah, we probably gonna like do two or three, but we gotta we gonna have an album.
Speaker 2:He's. No, she don't mind. Hey, tell me you ain't pressing play.
Speaker 1:I've never seen that you know what?
Speaker 2:now we got it, now we have please don't be biting right, don't bite right, cause we already got. Actually, uh, take did put a R&B money album out.
Speaker 1:That's cool, but you was a singer and stuff, yeah, anyway, yeah before you did that and it wasn't like the he didn't say R&B Money podcast album.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:The he Don't, she Don't podcast album. You know it's going to be long, like Chris Brown's album. We should even take some of the topics that we've talked about and write some yeah.
Speaker 1:But what's happening? It is episode five of he Smoke she Don't and it is your boy, genius, and Latina Marie. So we've he smoke she don't and it is your boy, genius, and Latina Marie. So we've been going through clips and stuff of our episodes and I just want to say I'm proud of us. Very, very Like for real. For real, we've been having interesting topics, we haven't been short-winded. Yeah, we just run out of shit to talk about.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I can talk forever, but I was gonna say and I like talking to you.
Speaker 1:Yeah, like I was noticing while just watching back, I'm like I was divulging some shit. I never said to anybody yeah, and I'm like I don't know if I like that why just I feel like I'm a very people like to open up to me, even if they don't want to it could be that then, Because the conversation has been flowing so well that by the time they come out of my mouth I'll be like can't put it back. Come here, True ass, Becky. I'm super proud of us, for real.
Speaker 2:What's it called? What's it called? When we did that, it made me think of the Mortal Kombat.
Speaker 1:Oh, get over here. But that's how I feel when the words come out like nigga, get over here. Yeah, for real, and you're not gonna cut me off. But I was like we gonna be fighting, but for real, for real. Good job to you. For what? What I do to keep it up with you.
Speaker 2:I mean it's you it's you no it's. It definitely is you. I was telling Selena that like this would go nowhere if it was my responsibility to get done. I don't think so it it just might take 10 years. Yeah, I just with everything going on in my life and being a mom and stuff, but that's why I'm super proud of us too, because life happens yeah. And a lot of stuff has been coming up since we started, since we did it, since we started.
Speaker 1:And I was just bragging about how I don't mess up words, but yeah, life happens and so much has been happening since we started this for both of us individually this is so weird to me, guts, that's what. I mean y'all girls, but yes, so that was a proud moment. Thank y'all for still rocking with us if you're loving it, let us know.
Speaker 2:If you're hating it, let us know. It's getting better still. No, I'm for real. If you don't like it, let us know. Let us know what it is you don't like. That was our episode 5 nice talking to y'all.
Speaker 1:that'll give us something to work on, for sure. But so, spinning around to the topic, spinning the block last week. It was a couple weeks ago.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, it was, but we was just watching it.
Speaker 1:So it was last week. Life is happening.
Speaker 2:Man, it does not feel like it's been a month, right. Yeah, I feel like it's been A month, right. Yeah, I feel like we just sat down yesterday and talked about this, right.
Speaker 1:And it really did start like that. She came to me. She was like I think we can begin on a podcast. I said okay. She said what did she call it? And I was smoking at the time and I was like he smokes, and now we're here with y'all.
Speaker 2:Funniest part of that story. I went to all my siblings and said we should start a podcast.
Speaker 1:And you don't understand, like because when you said it to me I got hyped. I was like, oh, she want to start a podcast with me and I'm glad you got it because you were like, how would she? It's the same thing, I wasn't special then. But you see who kept up with it Right, which is why I asked you, yeah, yeah, so today on the scope, what we got for you? I don't know.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, that's right, that's not my job Today.
Speaker 1:We got that stinks. That's how you know it's good.
Speaker 2:Oh my God, I just got like a real big, oh my.
Speaker 1:God, I just got like a real big. You remember when we was talking about like we just smell like skunk, mm-hmm. Nah, when it hit like that it didn't smell like skunk. That's when you know you got some fire, when you're like, oh my God, it smelled like rotten things or Something dead. But that's how you knew.
Speaker 2:And I know that sounds weird, but that's how you're going to have gas.
Speaker 1:But first topic, we're hitting back to relationships. I feel like we haven't talked about that in a couple weeks.
Speaker 2:No no.
Speaker 1:So looks versus love? Yeah, Because I feel like in today's time a lot of people be going for looks over love.
Speaker 2:You think so?
Speaker 1:I do, I do, so we go be. I definitely do With social media just being a huge thing on the internet and I feel like social media has taken over that.
Speaker 2:It's crazy because I was like in deep thought about that today, of like with everything that's going on with my situation, yeah, of like with everything that's going on with my situation, and I'm like I saw this guy yesterday at the store and he was looking at me and I'm like sexy, but you might be toxic. But the fact that you had that thought, so many people aren't having that thought, yeah, just not thinking about that, cause I'm like happy couples ain't that attractive. I don't agree.
Speaker 1:I don't agree either, but For some reason I know what you're saying.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I know exactly what you're saying Because, like I told you the other day, victoria Beckham and her husband, david Beckham. They are really attractive people to the world. Not that I think they're ugly, but to the world they're an attractive couple. But like when you see clips of them together and just seeing them interact you can tell that they're in love, like there's real true love there with them, and it's not. I don't feel like that was a case of he's attractive, she's attractive. Let's see if something can happen.
Speaker 1:I think it was just and I also feel like in their realm of life they probably met each other at a time when they didn't have to be trying to be attractive to each other. They probably just I think somebody introduced them.
Speaker 2:but that's what I was gonna say they probably was networking yeah, friend, yeah, like I think y'all might like each other yeah all right, but I just I feel like, man, before we go into that topic, let's huh.
Speaker 1:Before we go into that topic, let's finish what we're talking about.
Speaker 2:Oh, do you feel like you are looks over?
Speaker 1:so you didn't hear me. Huh, what said? Before we go into that topic, let's oh, oh, okay.
Speaker 2:I'll be honest with you. I didn't hear what she says, so I was like okay y'all don't even know what we're talking about on today's episode, but we going already, so looks over.
Speaker 1:Love is topic one topic two songs, or weird songs, that are lit, and especially in today's time, with like like Beyonce doing a country album, so many black country artists not just focusing on country, but there's so much music that's going under the radar, that so many black country artists not just focusing on country, but there's so much music that's going under the radar that so many people are listening to and the mainstream shit that gets played over and over. It might be good, and now it's even a toss-up. Is it good or is it just repetitive? Or is it catchy? Is?
Speaker 2:it not really good, or does it remind you of something?
Speaker 1:But there's so much unheard weird music out there that's lit and so we're going to be running down a couple of them songs. So maybe in your free time add it to your playlist. When you're riding in the car you're like, damn, this should actually do it For sure. And topic three Adulting. You have brought this one up to me. What was it?
Speaker 2:Should baby daddy be responsible for putting food in baby mama's refrigerator? Yeah, yeah, I think I'm going to start with that.
Speaker 1:Okay, we can't, cause I got some strong opinions about it.
Speaker 2:I don't think we agree. I don't think we agree. Well, what's?
Speaker 1:your. We got those topics but we going in, so I don't think it's his responsibility.
Speaker 2:Really Now, really now should he and we saying it's his baby mama? Yes, it's his baby mama, his kids? They don't live together, they're co-parenting. This guy wanted to know if it was his responsibility to put food in his baby mama's refrigerator. Now, the only reason I say it's not his responsibility is because y'all have come to the agreement that y'all not together. That should be something that you can take care of on your own. Food in the refrigerator. Like it's not a huge thing now, especially if he's paying child support, which that was never mentioned. Okay, so that is unknown information, but let's just say that he is paying child support.
Speaker 1:Why you ain't getting the Russian.
Speaker 2:Right. I understand that I know a lot of people are going to be like but his kids live in the house. Yeah, but he's putting food in the refrigerator at his house.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:It would only make sense to me if they were living separately. For another reason Y'all aren't together, you mean like they're together and living separately. Yeah, yeah. Then I would feel like, yeah, bro, you got it. Now, obviously, if she's like really struggling and she's like you know, I'm going through some stuff, I you know I need food in the refrigerator for the kids, Obviously he shouldn't be a dick about it and do that, but I don't think it's his responsibility.
Speaker 1:Okay, and you actually hit some very valid points that even maybe changed my perspective, because I think it should be. You know, when they say if you're man enough to make the baby, you're man enough to take care of it.
Speaker 1:I'm not saying the baby mama is your baby or whatever, but your kids are still there. Yeah, you don't stop being a father just because they're not around you, right? And so if I ever hear just me personally if I ever hear that and I can hate the woman, I do not want to have nothing to do with her but if you don't have food, my kids don't have food.
Speaker 1:Right, and so I do believe it's a responsibility once again, because they're still your kids at 100% of the time. Right, you don't drop them off. And now that responsibility is gone, and I'm saying, even if y'all are together, you drop your kids off at their friend's house and their parents not home. You like, hey, dad, they don't have no food in the house. Can you mind dropping off some food for me and my friends? That's your responsibility.
Speaker 2:Yeah, to make sure that they eat. I definitely feel like you should.
Speaker 1:I'm putting food in your friend's house, but it's still my responsibility to make sure you eat, so no matter where you at Right.
Speaker 2:So, no matter where you at, I got to do that and I agree, I feel like they're definitely. That's why I say you definitely should Like. If it comes to that being an option, your option should be to do it, but if it's like falling on them as it being a responsibility, no, I don't think so. I think it should be Only because you chose not to be with me. That's not something that's on my responsibility list For sure.
Speaker 2:Now, my kids are my responsibility. So if you call me and you tell me there is no food, I should be responsible for my kids and make sure that they eat. And if, in turn, you eat too, it is what it is Like, obviously you know, and make sure that they eat. And if, in turn, you eat too, it is what it is Like, obviously you know. But I don't think. When I'm going as a man, if I'm going grocery shopping, I should be thinking, oh, let me get some of that for her house too.
Speaker 1:Also, like you were saying, like the whole child support thing. Now, I also believe if I'm paying child support, I'm probably not going to be putting food in your fridge, right, because that should be taken care of, right, but even then, it's still a responsibility. You got to pay child support every month. Yeah, it's still a responsibility. Yeah, and so it is a responsibility to me, for sure.
Speaker 2:And.
Speaker 1:I don't want to say that dudes don't do nothing or dads don't do nothing but nine times out of ten. The mom is doing a lot more for the kids.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I'm saying, even if y'all still together, that ain't going to break it.
Speaker 2:It's not. But that's why I feel like it shouldn't be the responsibility, because one, it gives that man the chance to be a man, because you'll always have a man who says it's not my responsibility, but I'm still going to do it anyway, and you'll always have a man who says that I'm my responsibility. Bitch, figure it out. So it gives them a chance to figure out what kind of man you want to be for you, for you, for your kids and for your baby mom. Because your kids are looking Right, they're going to see. That is in for your baby mama. I was going to say because your kids are looking at you, they're going to see that. So I definitely don't think that it should be a responsibility, but it should be your choice. Your choice should be to keep food in her refrigerator.
Speaker 1:See, I feel like you gave that choice up as soon as you nutted it. Um, I don't think so I mean it's just me, but if she's not eating the kid and I guess to the point that I don't, if we're not together I'm not caring about you like that.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I don't care if you're eating the food or whatever. Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2:And that too is another thing that'll come up and be shown.
Speaker 1:And I'm saying you could call me three times a week to put food in your crib, because you, I, my kids are, I gotta do.
Speaker 2:Right. I just feel like when he's going shopping for his house, it shouldn't be on his mind. That shouldn't be on his mind Like oh, I got to get it for her house too. But if she calls and she says I need it, then yeah for sure.
Speaker 1:He should do that, cause I'm not thinking like if I go on a grocery trip, I'm buying groceries for two households.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that to me that's responsibility. Yeah, but yes, for sure, if she calls be, those are your kids. So, yes, you should do that. Yeah, but you don't have to, obviously.
Speaker 1:But and another reason I say it is a responsibility, because it's almost like that slippery slope.
Speaker 2:I'm sorry genius, it's not that hot out here.
Speaker 1:I thought I was listening. I was like is it just me, or why does Breeze be feeling cold as hell? I might have to take this, but the whole slippery slope thing.
Speaker 2:Is it just me? Why this breeze me feeling cold?
Speaker 1:I might have to take this, but the whole slippery slope thing is you get away with not doing this? You're gonna try to get away with not doing more and more and more and more, and I feel like, at least for men, that's how we step up. Right, and even if we gotta be forced to, that is how you step up, because, at the end of the day, it's making you a better man. Right, it's making you an overall better person.
Speaker 2:Because I've seen a TikTok from a girl, which I was really. They saw it. I was really shocked when she said it. It came from a girl. That's it. No, no, no what I'm about to say. She was saying that she would never date a man with kids because she feels like baby mama should always be first, and I was thrown off by that. But when she explained it it made perfect sense. That woman is the mother of your kids. If she call you at 3 o'clock in the morning, you better answer with out of attitude because she has your kids. There's no telling what she's calling for. I mean, you always know when somebody's calling to be sneaky or do something, but if you got a good baby mama and y'all, that's not 3 am, that's not 3 am, not at 3 am.
Speaker 2:If you've got a good baby mama. No, that's worrisome, something did happen at 3 am. If I'm calling you and if she, she was saying if she called you to come fix her car or whatever whatever those are yeah, she comes first because those are your kids and I didn't ever think about it that way. But it makes perfect sense and that's very mature of her to know that if she's going to be in a relationship with a man with kids, that she ain't going to be number one when it comes to his kids.
Speaker 1:I don't agree with that.
Speaker 2:No, I think. I think if you have a good baby now, if you got a bitter baby mama, obviously no, but if you got a good baby mama that's taking care of her business, she only call you when it's important.
Speaker 1:And about the kids, I definitely agree Only because, well, when you say she comes first, I'm hearing she, not the kids. Yeah, if you're calling me for something about the kids, it is about the kids. But if you call me like, hey, my car broke down like that's her and I have my kids with me, what you call me like hey, my car broke down like that's her and I have my kids with me, what you call it.
Speaker 1:At some point I'm gonna need, I'm gonna have those kids again, and if I don't got a car, we can figure that out no, but it's the same thing like if you can't take them, I'll take them wherever they need to go my car's still working or I, I will do that. I will spend extra time to come pick them up to take them if you can't make it. But your problems are your problem.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but I still feel like and the only reason I say that versus the food thing is because my kids don't have to ride in your car.
Speaker 2:Why.
Speaker 1:Say you didn't have one.
Speaker 2:What if you got to go out of town or something and you can use my car? I mean, I get all that, but why make things more difficult? Wouldn't it just be easier? Especially what if it's a problem that you know how to fix? I know you know how to fix this. Why would I spend money, go through the time you were?
Speaker 1:saying that she would come before my present woman right.
Speaker 2:Yeah, no, yeah, if y'all are doing something, and if y'all are doing something and me and your baby mom will call you and be like my car broke down and it's something I know you know how to fix. Even if your answer is I'll be there in a couple hours, I'm just going to have to sit there for a couple hours, but then she's not coming first. She is because you, at the very least, picked up the phone while y'all were doing something. There are some men who you ain't coming first, to the point where I ain't answering your calls First don't mean your second, third or fourth.
Speaker 1:Coming first means first. So if I finish whatever I'm doing and then coming, you're not first. I feel like it is still first. You're on my time schedule, if you like, hey, and say the same exact scenario, but I can't get you till tomorrow. You're still not first priority. Because I'm saying what if I had a dinner date that I'm not out with yet, I'm just headed out the door to it? I maybe got a half hour before I got to be there I probably could stop by. Look at it see.
Speaker 2:I'm not doing that, but I feel like she thinks that if, like, if she was your date, the girl in the TikTok, I feel like she feels like we supposed to pack up a box and go.
Speaker 1:Yeah, no, fuck that. I feel like that's very mature of her? Oh of her. Yes, yeah, that is very mature of her, but I don't feel like it's immature of the man either.
Speaker 2:But think about Dorothy.
Speaker 1:Because man either. But think about Dorothy, because I so think. It's just more mature of her.
Speaker 2:But I don't think it's immature on the other side, on Dickie's side.
Speaker 1:That's just a whole different, because that is I'm saying strictly that I don't think that's immature on the side.
Speaker 1:I mean, if you're not shunning her and it's not that You're just not going to be first. I'm sorry you gave up that one, and I'm not saying that it might not have been me who initiated the breakup, but because we're not together anymore, you're not going to. And I'm saying my kids might come first, and then my girlfriend, and then you, or probably even my parents and then you, but you just moved on to total polar for not to go anymore. No, I don't think so.
Speaker 2:What point do I have to do this for? I think you will feel different when you have a kid of your own, and not that you have to break up with that person, not that you have to end up, oh, to have a kid break up with a kid? Yeah, no, I'm saying just having a kid at all, Maybe, maybe, maybe you won't, because I just thought about somebody who has a kid and he ain't, he care less about that, and I've also been finding a man's going to do what?
Speaker 2:not only a man a person's going to do what a person's going to do, yeah.
Speaker 1:And that's why I was even saying the slippery slope thing about the grocery. Sometimes they have to be forced to and I'm even saying in that situation you've got to be forced to be second or third priority. So you know that.
Speaker 2:And I'm even saying in your life get used to not calling me.
Speaker 1:We're not there anymore.
Speaker 2:All in all, I think it is not anybody's responsibility to do anything for somebody in another, in that they're not with anymore, but you should make the choice, but maturity depends on how that person is. Yeah, you for sure should make the choice to be kind. It is being kind. I feel like that's even kind.
Speaker 1:It is If a stranger just randomly got my number and called me like hey, I'm not going to come help you.
Speaker 2:Why not? I don't know you. I mean, you should be cautious, but why not?
Speaker 1:I'm more likely to help a stranger if I see you out in the world.
Speaker 2:I feel that because it was raining some weeks ago and I had the boys and we was on our way home and this lady was walking, and because she's a lady and she was older, I was like I'm going to stop and give her a ride.
Speaker 1:She ain't going to be a threat to me, not true.
Speaker 2:Not true. She could be True, true, true, but I had to quickly explain to the boys after they got, after she got out of the car. You don't do that. You like, you have to. It sucks because you should want to just initially be like, let me help, but the world that we live in has made it that that's the dumbest thing you could do, because you could end up dead or kidnapped or stranded forever because you tried to do a good deed Right.
Speaker 1:I was going to say I think the conversation was responsibility right.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I'm sorry if you feel that way, but my responsibility is not what you think they are.
Speaker 2:For sure. I definitely don't think that it's his responsibility. If he's asking strictly, is he responsible for putting food in her refrigerator? No, you're not. Should you putting food in her refrigerator? No, you're not. Should you put food in her refrigerator? Absolutely, because those are your kids. Now, you're not wrong if you don't, it's just you're an asshole if you don't.
Speaker 1:I don't feel that way. Once again, I think it's his responsibility, I mean we were talking about the woman and her cars. We can talk about that, but if it's the initial topic, no, I don't think it's a responsibility and that's coming from somebody who would still do it. I mean, yes, I do think it's OK and that's coming from somebody like who doesn't have kids and would still do it. I think that is your responsibility Make the kid take care of it.
Speaker 2:I think things that are responsibilities are like taking them to basketball practice or sporting events or school, or things that either parent could do. When it comes to your own household, I think it's your responsibility to make sure that those things are taken care of. Can you ask for help? Absolutely. Should you receive help? Yeah, you should, but you're not obligated to receive receive it. He's not obligated to give you those things. He's obligated to help you take care of those kids however he sees fit, and y'all might not see that the same way. A lot of women gonna be in this comment section like bitch, shut the fuck up. And I'm going to.
Speaker 1:I'm going to shut the fuck up shut the fuck up all the way, but and I honestly don't think you're going to have a lot of women- I do.
Speaker 2:I think I'm going to have a lot of men like yeah, yeah, yeah, and a lot of women like she's a pick me nah cause.
Speaker 1:I mean, from what I've seen, there's a lot of more independent women that don't want to take that out for men.
Speaker 2:I want to believe that. I want to take that help from men. I want to believe that I want to believe that women are getting there. But there are so many women who are having kids and even just dating for so many wrong reasons. They ain't giving up that help. They think it's his responsibility to do everything. So I don't know. Well, there's that topic.
Speaker 1:We disagree on that one. Yeah, please, please, let us know what you think, because I think it's a responsibility she don't.
Speaker 2:And since we're talking about women, that's what we it definitely is.
Speaker 1:It could be, it could be.
Speaker 2:Since we're talking about women having kids and being in relationships for the wrong reasons. Are you choosing love?
Speaker 1:No hold on. Before we go into that, I'm so sorry the sober people forget y'all for a second. All my stoners. I'm so sorry I forgot. I'm over here coughing on the gas, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm over here coughing on the gas and I ain't even told y'all what I'm smoking. So today we got some ice cream mints Once again, an enticing name.
Speaker 2:It is.
Speaker 1:Tell me, it don't sound good.
Speaker 2:I mean mint, like, mint, like M-I-N-T yeah.
Speaker 1:I don't like mint in ice cream. You don't like mint chocolate chip ice cream.
Speaker 2:Get out, that's so good. Get out, you're crazy. Get out, you're crazy. Chocolate and mint is so good it's so disgusting, you're crazy, that's gross.
Speaker 1:So you don't like the mint Oreos? That, oh my God.
Speaker 2:Well, there's something else for you, so you gonna brush your teeth and then eat chocolate?
Speaker 1:No, that tastes different.
Speaker 2:No, it does not. It tastes. That's exactly what it is. That's all it is. They put toothpaste in your Oreo and you sitting here eating it, telling me it's good they taste completely different. That's disgusting. Whatever Like mint chocolate chip or, yeah, mint chocolate bark during the holidays so good, you eat that nasty. Oh my God, are you serious? I don't want to say it, but that's so white. I don't know any black people who eat that. Like what are you talking about right now? You're lying to me. Does current eat?
Speaker 1:that current? No, I don't know.
Speaker 2:I haven't asked I don't think she does, I know she don't. I know she don't.
Speaker 1:I know she don't listen, you're not about to do me. I know it ain't. No, I'm black as they come, okay.
Speaker 2:We just had you, you over here with.
Speaker 1:You're not about to fuck with me. I know, that is so gross and it's I'll fuck with it. I'll fuck with it, but anyway I'm smoking on some ice cream bitch. I know that's nasty. Now it's more on the indica side, what that mean up, oh, indica, I'm gonna keep testing you until you get it right. What did I say it should be?
Speaker 2:I said it should be up.
Speaker 1:Yeah, sounds stupid, so anyway, so, so anyway. Energy yeah, so Tifa's like soothing. Yeah, sounds stupid, so anyway, so anyway, I can't. I'm not doing this show with you. This really is our last episode.
Speaker 2:Five episodes with Cole, thanks guys, it's a limited series, that was a good one. It was a limited series, that was a good one.
Speaker 1:Oh, shit, nothing finishes. So ice cream, I'm going to hurry up. That was a good one. Oh shit, nothing finishes. Alright, so ice cream, I'm gonna hurry up. Ice cream mints more on the calming side, some of the arousal. So even if you want to smoke before you do it, there you go. That's the train of the day. Ice cream mints we gonna be here all day. Oh, my stomach hurts oh my gosh bro.
Speaker 2:But this.
Speaker 1:This is what weed does to the world makes you laugh, brings people together that's what this that good old pee. That was the longest Saturday we ever will do. I promise you that.
Speaker 2:Oh my God, Somebody, please take me home.
Speaker 1:That was too good. But this is what I was saying before the show Like don't let the shit get to your head, but I genuinely like doing this with you, tristan. No, I'm just saying, I just said you know what? We moving on Genius, we moving on it, we moving now.
Speaker 2:It's not going to my head. It's not going to my head. I know I'm the shit. I know you want to do this with me for a reason. Okay.
Speaker 1:No, but I do you find something All right. Moving on, yes, honestly, I feel like this is a question more for women is going out to the bottom, yeah, but I I genuinely want to know from women love or looks, love over looks yeah, because I don't know.
Speaker 2:So I definitely don't feel like I do. But like, obviously attraction has to start with looks. Everybody's aware. With that Don't agree. I mean, unless we're talking online.
Speaker 1:A lot of today is that.
Speaker 2:I still would never what Talk to somebody online.
Speaker 1:Oh me, no, I can't do it. I'm lying, I was overseas, I didn't know nobody. I got to. Yeah, I can see that. But other than that, I really am in a real world place too. Yeah, that's why I don't agree is because, say, if I'm not paying, I'm at the bar. Say, if I'm not paying attention to somebody, I talk to the bartender and she slides in with a joke. I heard that joke before I saw your face. Yeah, good one. Yeah, I'm connecting you with funny before how you look. But even if I turn and you're a five, you're a six now because I'm laughing. Right, if that makes sense.
Speaker 2:There has been times where I have been out and men will approach me and I don't think you're attractive and I will not give you the time. But I think it's mostly because you're not attractive and you're not smooth at all, like nothing you're saying is making me rethink this, do you think?
Speaker 1:because you're not attractive, you're not taking what they're saying the same way sometimes 100%. Sometimes I was going to say and this is why I was posing that question to women is because I feel like y'all be missing out on some great dudes because of that. I used to be short. I wasn't always tall. Thank God you got me there.
Speaker 2:Sure was a baller.
Speaker 1:I prayed he did it. But I've got back then and I didn't grow until my junior year in high school. So back then I was getting turned down a lot because of my height, were you?
Speaker 2:I don't think they ready yet.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I don't think they not coming. Yeah, I don't think they're not coming out but yeah I used to get turned down a lot because of my height and I'm like, of course I'm biased, I think I'm a great guy, but I think I'm funny, I think I'm caring, I'm okay. Wait, I'll ask this do you think I'm a good guy, like a good? Guy, a good guy and that's what I'm saying, but because of my height, you're missing out on that.
Speaker 2:I don't think it's your height luckily now I don't think it was your height. I think it was the lack of melanin. I'm just kidding. They will never be in. We ain't never without a style. Please tell all light skins know that you're not in all.
Speaker 1:One day you'll learn whatever, no, and.
Speaker 1:I also. I've been with light skins. But you know what's crazy? Because I never. I told you I never thought I was good looking until around like 22, 23, and I still didn't think I'm like I'm shit. I just thought that I grew into my looks. Finally, I thought I wasn't that attractive. So I really worked on my personality. I thought I was more funnier, I had a lot of character and I'm like you're missing out on all of that because of it could be my looks or because of my height. They all accept my height. That's why I'm saying that.
Speaker 2:I don't know. I mean, I definitely will be strongly hesitant to talk to somebody if they're shorter than me. If you're the same height as me, I'll give you a chance, because at least I can look you in the eye. But that matters to me. I can't forever be with somebody looking down at you. Oh I get it and you trying to tell me what to do, shut the fuck up.
Speaker 1:You ain't gonna look up and tell me what to do who you talking to. And I'll be thinking about that too, just height-wise, I get that. Yeah, I'm not gonna lie, I do get that it's very hard to be dominated. I understand why a woman was turning me down.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's very hard to be dominated and as much as women don't like to admit that, we want to be dominated like, I want my partner to be the man but to be dominated Like. I want my partner to be the man Like, but to be the man. You got to be a man. I didn't say that. I'm not saying that you're not a man. I'm not saying you're not a man. I am definitely getting some contact hire right now.
Speaker 1:Sure.
Speaker 2:Yes, I'm not feeling it. I'm not feeling it, I'm not into it. Told you, it's that gay ass, gay ass.
Speaker 1:No, but I get the height thing, but what about weight cause?
Speaker 2:I get approached by I'm very sorry overweight men a lot. I don't know if it's my, I think I'm, I look gentle, so it's like I don't know what that means. Like they think, yeah, they can see that I'm not a mean person, so they think they have a see that I'm not a mean person. Yeah, so they think they have a chance because I don't appear mean. Yeah, and I truly do believe that that's what it is. Because it happens a lot. Like unless there's a video of me saying that I love the chubbies somewhere, because big men come to me all the time and I just don't know what that is. And this has been like all my life. Yes, y'all had a show once it could be that and a big guy had a. I just will never forget this. It was a dance group and they had a big girl guy dancing and he came and talked to me and I was just like no thank you.
Speaker 2:He was nice, he was funny, he was actually cute. I think I don't even think it was his weight that made me say no. I think it was more of just the fact that we were in a different city, so I'll never see you. I was in high school, but big dudes you used to see yeah.
Speaker 1:You see me, and even more if you're cute, I'll give you a chance. Yeah, I don't mind big women, we learn, huh, we learn.
Speaker 2:Yeah, what.
Speaker 1:But that's what I'm saying. I would have missed out on so many dope people if I'm just going off your opinions I do agree I agree like do you feel like you missed out on dope people because of that? Like you know? Yes, because I also feel like when I bring around people that y'all think that aren't up to my caliber or something, y'all look at me like why, what is it?
Speaker 2:yeah, talk to them and we all just chilling, laughing, having a good time so when I met my husband, I was talking to a few different people at the same time. I was like the actual definition of dating and there was this guy that I was talking to and he was super nice, tall light skin Cause when you ain't out of style but he was not cute to me. He was not cute to me, but I was giving him a chance.
Speaker 1:People can be ugly too.
Speaker 2:He, he was not attractive to me at all and but we had good conversation and he was so nice, he was like taking me out on dates, he was doing everything, and then we smashed and he was everything but attractive and I do feel like you missed out.
Speaker 2:I don't know if I missed out, because I don't know what he's up to now like, what his life is, but I do feel like you were just too focused on his face. Yeah, because he had a nice body. Yeah, the sex was good. Yeah, everything was good, like he could have been a potential. But I think in that time I was like I can't continue this off of potential. When I'm, I know I'm not attracted to him, like I'm not.
Speaker 1:But the thing is and that's a lie Like you sitting here saying he had good conversation and you were attracted to him but we were talking on the phone a lot. That's fine. So I wasn't a person for the text, yeah.
Speaker 2:It was dark.
Speaker 1:I mean, I feel like you were attracted, just not to his face, and I think that comes down to like a checklist thing. Like, can they do this? He's checking off all these boxes. He's just not the attractive box and you're gonna let it go because he's not the attractive.
Speaker 2:I mean, I think that's the main reason why I didn't want to continue it, because, even though we had good conversations, I think he was looking for something I wasn't looking for. Like he was looking to settle down at that point because he was a couple years older than me, and I think that too was like you ain't even cute enough for that. I'm feeling it. No, I don't feel it, but I feel it, but I do. I'm not gonna lie. I do feel like the facial unattraction is what really kept me from, because I could have told him like I'm not looking for that right now, and if he really liked me, we would have kept it going until I was ready.
Speaker 1:Right now I'll say, I believe in beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and so what I find attractive, the next man right and so for me, I have my own scale, from one to ten what right you might be, and there's a number you can't go below.
Speaker 2:If you go below that, then I'm just like yeah, because I can't wake up to this every day.
Speaker 1:I feel it. I feel it, but I also will, and I'm hearing people say I'll give, I guess, below averages chances because of the connection that we make.
Speaker 2:See, I feel like that is fair. I don't, and I don't know how he got a chance, because I don't, I don't do that, and he should definitely. He definitely should consider himself lucky, because I don't do that. I will not give you more than a no, thank you, I don't, I don't, I mean I will, like I said, and it ain't no, no, I think I'm too good. It's just I'm not physically attracted to that and I know, or I knew in that moment, if I'm going to even just be dating you, I want to be able to look at you.
Speaker 1:Oh, I mean, yeah, I got to be able to stand looking at you, yeah, but that's what I mean.
Speaker 2:I'm not saying he was butt ugly, he just wasn't my cute. Yeah, yeah, I get it, I get it.
Speaker 1:I get it. So I mean because I want to say looks don't matter. But when you're putting it like that, it does, it does, it does. But in that situation, like you were saying, he not, but ugly. If I had the equivalent of a girl like that, I'm going to choose love over looks. I didn't love him. No, I'm saying but I know what we can have. Yeah, and I know how you make me feel, yeah, oh, I'm going to choose that over your looks.
Speaker 2:I don't even think that it got to feelings.
Speaker 1:Because you didn't let it.
Speaker 2:Probably, but it never got to it. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:I'll give it a chance to see where this goes. And if we don't work out, we don't work out. And I'm not going to say if we don't work out, If I find out you might be acting a little bit too big for your looks. And we don't work out.
Speaker 2:No, he was very humble. I'm going to give you a chance to see where it goes, then If he is with someone right now, like if he got what he was looking for, which was to settle down. I pray that she is a really nice person, because he was great. He was great and we would be divorced by now if he picked me. You really think so? I do, because one how nice and humble he is. Wow, I'm just, I'm a wild child, so that alone would have been a lot for him to handle.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, I get that. And then just Y'all being two different people, yeah, I get handle.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, I get that. And then just Y'all being two different people, yeah, I get that. Yeah, I don't think his looks would have kept me away from him if I had like really been like, okay, latina, chill the fuck out. Like if I had taken a step back and was like, just give a chance, yeah but I wasn't looking for that right, right.
Speaker 1:So that ultimately yeah, because I feel like today you just see so many couples because they look good, they're willing to put up with whatever they do like I'll be seeing so many like social media couples and stuff like that, but then after they break up they'll leak behind the scenes footage of or phone calls or texts.
Speaker 1:And I'm just like you are putting up with this, for because they look good, right, because it seems like that's the only reason. Yeah, especially after you put out what you put out, yeah, and I feel like that's become so common that people are missing out and then that's making so many angry and bitter people. Another reason why I don't even like dating.
Speaker 2:And making it hard for people to want to date, because it's like you just think that everybody's going to do that.
Speaker 1:I run into so many beautiful women and not trying to sound conceited or nothing, I think they're only talking to me because they think I'm attractive. But then they'll start acting a certain way like just like they know they look good, or they can talk to me any type of way.
Speaker 2:Well, that's because of you no. That is because of you, what? Because you are attractive. If you weren't attractive, they wouldn't think they had the right to act that way. So if I'm, if I know I'm at least decent looking and you come to talk to me, I'm the shit bitch, right.
Speaker 1:So it's because of you. Oh, got you, got you. No, but this is what I'm saying. The I don't mean we like talking stage. What I'm saying I don't mean we like talking stage. I'm really getting to know who you are and it's the human being in you is ugly. But then I started thinking, like I said, from the way it comes out, the way they be saying certain things, and I'm like who the hell put up with this to make you think that this is okay? Yeah, like, and I know you're beautiful, you are you a 10.? But is that why? And did you go for people who that's all that matters to them?
Speaker 2:I think it's a combination of being, because of whoever you're with, being attractive, like for women. I think it's a combination of knowing that the man that they with it, that they're with, is attractive, and a part of it is when you're mistreated in relationships or after a relationship, you don't know how to act. You don't know how to because what I was doing, which I thought was good, wasn't working. So and that was a good person, so maybe I should be an asshole because I don't know what else to do at this point. So I think not that anybody should just be like I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, but I think we should, I think you should, I mean I'll try to understand, Only I guess it just depends on what kind of connection you have with them, Like how much does it matter to you we?
Speaker 1:ain't got there.
Speaker 2:Yeah then no, and that's why I'd be like you could just let them know, Like I don't know what you've been through, but whatever you're doing.
Speaker 1:Thank you.
Speaker 2:I think short, feisty little girls is cute, it is kind of sexy.
Speaker 1:That's what that is, but there's a difference between feisty and disrespectful. Yeah, for sure's a difference between feisty and disrespectful?
Speaker 2:Yeah for sure, Huge difference. But a lot of people don't see it that way, Unfortunately very unfortunate. And if a feisty, cute little short girl was with an insecure man, that would make a huge difference. And men, not that it's just y'all, but y'all really do need to stop being so insecure. I agree One as women.
Speaker 1:You will stay with that. And now, once again, whenever she does choose to drop you, you got her out here in the world with us.
Speaker 2:But let's be real. Women ain't walking away as often as it's being said that we are, or that y'all think that we are. Women are not walking away that often we're getting walked out on. You think so, I do, I do. I do Because in my experience, when I walk away, it's like it's done, like I'd be so confused when people be like he hit me up again. You didn't make it clear that you were done.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Because I've never really experienced that other than prisoner, murderer, prisoner, that guy Other than murderer. I have never experienced exes just coming back like trying, trying. Oh wait, jeff too.
Speaker 1:Okay, but I'll say that's true.
Speaker 2:I've never like I don't know, because I've experienced more than I've done it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's what I'm saying. When men are done, they are done. That's why a lot of people who know me personally say I'm like a dude, because when I'm done, I'm done. I'm not calling you again. You, you won't ever hear from me again unless you call me so and I would love for any of you dumb ass exes of mine to get in the comments and and tell me I'm wrong. Tell me I'm wrong. How Tell me I'm wrong? How many times have I contacted you? And then that would be proving my point. Because you on my podcast trying to tell me something. You don't know what you're talking about, right there. So, yeah, I don't get that. And I've always heard friends of mine or just like you see it in shows and movies and stuff. Oh, he's calling me. So you didn't make it clear you were done.
Speaker 1:You just was like but that is the case a lot of times too, I can speak from a man's perspective, Like yeah, that is the case a lot of times.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:They want to play this game. Yeah, like you were saying in one episode, you're like I might call you to bring up something. I'm into wrap around to hopefully bringing us back up and I'm like what? And a lot of women will do that. You got to refresh me. We were talking about when I was living in California, when my ex was just calling me and I was saying oh, no, that was a personal conversation.
Speaker 2:No, I was just watching it.
Speaker 1:Oh, okay, and I was saying that.
Speaker 2:You're right. I was listening to it the other day.
Speaker 1:But I still, you gotta refresh me. And I was saying to her like, and I was moved on, I'm like, look, I do want to help you out, I do care about you, like that's not a question, but if you could not give me these calls and you were saying it could have been her hinting and that's what I'm saying. They won't say that they're done. Yeah, for sure They'll leave that open-ended shit there.
Speaker 2:Did I say I do that or was I just saying that yes, you said you do.
Speaker 1:Well, you said you would do that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I don't know if you said you would because I don't know that, but I definitely would.
Speaker 1:Women yeah, yeah, if I felt like I wanted to contact. I would definitely do that exactly, but I don't think I have but no, that makes sense why a man or people think that a man will hit up a woman. Or she didn't make it clear because she didn't yeah, for sure, for sure, for sure.
Speaker 1:So I get that. We kind of went off topic. I was going to say yeah, but all in all, I, me, and I will say this I truly heart it, holy heart it, felicia, all right, he. What? If you give people a chance, and I've learned good looking, bad looking, if they're going to fuck you over, they're going to fuck you over. You're going to get hurt, either, or yeah. But you really might be missing out on a dope ass person because they're not the image you made up in your head.
Speaker 2:But that's good. That person shouldn't have to deal with your vain no for sure, that's what.
Speaker 1:I'm saying like people, if people get that vainness out of them, you will might find your soulmate. You might stop dealing with the fuck people you're dealing with because I think there needs to be more faceless dating apps. I don't no, but how are you going to catfish somebody without faceless dating apps? I don't. No, it's already enough catfishing out here.
Speaker 2:But how you gonna catfish somebody without?
Speaker 1:True, true, true, to see if it's compatible that way. Yeah, I feel like that leaves I feel like that leaves more room for catfishing.
Speaker 2:Like I wish Love is Blind was real.
Speaker 1:But see, that's different. They're still in person.
Speaker 2:You can't catfish that, you can't see that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but eventually you're going to see me. Yeah, you can't catfish that I feel like that's leaving more room to catfish somebody.
Speaker 2:Oh.
Speaker 1:Get their number. Y'all texting texting they still don't know what she's at. You can do that to 10 people.
Speaker 2:S can do that to 10 people, sending them all a different version of you. I mean, you don't feel like you would do. You've never dated multiple people at once.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I'm saying, but if they get different versions of me, no, but you all look the same.
Speaker 2:You all look the same. Yeah, all my crazies look the same.
Speaker 1:That's what I'm saying. If this person is sending just random pictures of different people, that's more room to get pictures, yeah, if you're doing that, but I'm saying like if you're leaving it just to conversation well, what's the fucking point of that? What do you mean?
Speaker 2:eventually we'll meet. But I'm saying like during conversation we're not talking about looks and not sending yeah, just faceless, keep it real faceless yeah.
Speaker 1:I don't know, if I can do that, why I don't even at least have an idea?
Speaker 2:so looks matter, so looks matter. We got our answer. I said, to a certain point, we got our answer I said to a certain point but I think everybody feels that way. I'm not putting love.
Speaker 1:Okay, say that same thing, say through text or whatever.
Speaker 2:I gave it a chance and I've fallen in love with you. And then I meet you and you hug me.
Speaker 1:I'm still gonna give it a chance, because love matters to me more.
Speaker 2:I'm not gonna act like I'm that humble. I'm not going to act like I'm that humble. I'm not even going to pretend I'm going to have this first date with you. I'm going to try my hardest. If I don't walk away like I could do this, like he doesn't look what I it's not what I pictured, but See, I'll give it two or three dates.
Speaker 1:I'm gonna really give it a chance.
Speaker 2:I need to spark it right there, ugly.
Speaker 2:If you can't light this fire right now, spark it right there yeah, cause, uh, if we can't get this happening right now I don't, I don't see it happening I'm not going to sit here and waste our time. I went on a blind date once before I met my husband when I was in hair school, and how was it? The weirdest thing ever. So he showed up at the house, picked me up and short little white guy I mean same height what he look like I knew he was white, his pictures were definitely him, but they looked like some people just take good pictures and don't look that great in person. And we just went and got food and then we went to the mall and walked around and it was a daytime date. I love those. He was super nice. Never saw him again. He was super nice. Never saw him again. He was, he was just nice. It wasn't like, but that's what I was going to ask why do you think y'all never went?
Speaker 2:out again. It just we didn't really have much in common. He was in the army and he talked about that a lot, which was interesting stuff, but it was like this is your life, like this is your life, you don't have nothing else, and I just was like I don't even think we could be friends bro.
Speaker 1:But I get that because you are separated from them.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you are, and that's a great experience in life to have. By no means. And thank you to everyone who serves. I guess I don't know why we say thank you, I mean for putting your life on the line. I get that. Thank you for doing that, but really, why are you doing that? Yeah, but he wasn't that cute to me in person. I had seen somebody that I knew at the mall and I was a bit embarrassed and that's how I knew, yeah, like embarrassed. And that's how I knew, yeah, like the embarrassment feeling that came up was like you never get embarrassed either. I don't either. That was the first time that that had ever happened to me and I was just like I don't like this feeling.
Speaker 1:Oh, but that's enough, right there. Yeah, and once again, I guess, the feeling, love the feeling that you give me, I gotta me, I'm going over there yeah, and that matters a lot, because I'm with you when I'm getting that right right for sure I mean because there were so many things that could have made me be like.
Speaker 2:But he has this, and he has this Because I was what? 19, 20 years old, and most of the guys that were talking to me didn't have a car, were living at home with their mom, and he was single. No kids had his own car, had his own place, had a job. Was living life really experiencing things? Like he liked to travel? There were so many things that could have had me be like. Job. Was living life really experiencing things? He liked to travel? There were so many things that could have had me be like. I could get this job, yeah, but I'm just not like.
Speaker 1:I feel that Once again, I honestly think it would be the only thing, looks-wise, that would stop me from dating anybody. Would be the hype. If a girl came up to me I love her, I'd be like get the fuck out of my face.
Speaker 2:I love them. I mean you do date. Yeah she can't wear heels and you're a woman she can't wear heels.
Speaker 1:If you coming up to me, I'd get the fuck out of my face.
Speaker 2:I love them. What if she's eye-level in heels? I can do that because you're not eye level you're not wearing heels all the time hey, some women do, and that'd be wild to me. When you tall girls like to wear heels, that's fine when she wore heels she was about eye level with me okay and that was fine with me that's crazy.
Speaker 1:I mean you do date a lot height, but I was going to say chances of being shorter than me are likely and I see I'm average height.
Speaker 2:I'm 5'6, so I should be running into a lot of men who are at least my height or higher.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you know what's so crazy? I don't know height matter to women so much because I don't know why. But I, I must look short when I sit down, like maybe my legs are just long and my torso is shorter because I think you have a long torso, thank you. But I'll be sitting down a lot and then once I stand up, like a group of people who just meet me, they'll be like I didn't know, you, I, I can agree, I'm like what the fuck did?
Speaker 2:I do think you, but then I don't.
Speaker 1:I don't think you appear short, though I don't either, but then I'll stand up, and then women start treating me different too. The conversation starts flirting more, I'm like height is a big thing with women.
Speaker 2:I Alvin is five, 10. So he's a few inches shorter than me and I still feel like that's too short, because that's I feel like it's men height. Yeah, but I like, when I talk to him, I feel like I'm eye level with him. I'm not, I know I'm not, but it feels like I am my. I feel like I'm eye level with him. I'm not, I know I'm not, yeah, I know, but it feels like I am.
Speaker 1:My head is only like this, whereas when I'm talking to you, and that could be why I do go for shorter girls is because I'm naturally just used to looking at that height level. Yeah, and so even if you go eye level with someone.
Speaker 2:I'm like yeah, because.
Speaker 1:I and I tell him all the time, like I don't need you to put some heels on or something. I've seen these shoe fillers for men. I'm like it's getting that serious it is. I get it the height thing and that's the only thing that I actually do get the height thing out and I commend any woman out there that's dating a man eye level or shorter.
Speaker 2:I think what needs to happen is the women who are shorter than me need to stop dating men who are taller than me. You can date the men who are my height, like what's wrong with you, why you take it? You're going to break your fucking neck trying to be with somebody like that and he's going to break your fucking neck trying to be with somebody like that. He's going to break his back trying to be with you. What's wrong with y'all? That don't even make sense. That's not even necessary. Save some hype for the women of my height. We losing because y'all want giants. I don't know what else to call it. It's a loss. It is a loss for the women of my height because these tiny girls and then and not coming for nobody Promise I'm not coming for nobody, but little women.
Speaker 2:Have you ever seen the shows Little Women Atlanta, little Women LA, where they're, medically I don't know what the? They're little, they don't like to be called midgets. So I'm trying not to say that. Little people dating humans or humans. I'm sorry, I did not mean that. I'm sorry, I did not mean that. It just fell out. I don't know what you mean. No dating giants. Dating six foot men yeah, why are you doing?
Speaker 1:that and he now picking you up. I was just gonna say that as a six foot man.
Speaker 2:I'm not bending over to kiss you. I'm not doing that, I'm not doing that.
Speaker 1:I'm just like for what keep? I'm not and I got bad problems already you can like.
Speaker 2:What's wrong with a five, six person? No, no, I agree, I agree. I agree because definitely, in uh little woman atlanta, I think it was, it was like three of them dating six foot tall men. Why are you doing that?
Speaker 1:but on the other hand I'm, I'm, but on the other hand I'm more curious on the other side, like what attracted you to a little person.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I don't get that either, and not saying that they can't be, but I'm just. I know what it is as a man.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:As a man, it's their butts Because everything is. I mean they only Because everything is. I mean they always got cannons for sure.
Speaker 1:Yeah everything is like yeah, they always got cannons but that's not.
Speaker 2:I don't know the medical terms, so please don't come for me, but everything is like smashed in a little person. Yeah, I mean, that's not medical either, but Right, right, you're right. So everything that's on me is there, but just in this smaller package. So the butt that I have, everything that's on me, is there, but just in this smaller package. So the butt that I have, imagine that being on a little person Right.
Speaker 1:That's all it is for men, but it would have to be some real, or initially, I can't say, that's all it is. Right, but I was going to say it had to be some real, real, real special circumstances for me to even sleep with a little woman. Yeah, as a six-foot person, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:She all the way down there. Y'all aren't even looking at each other at this point.
Speaker 1:I don't get that, I don't get that. That's why I do understand the height thing. I do commend women if you are dating your height or shorter, yeah. But I also do agree Shorter women maybe y'all need to date shorter men, yeah like let it go.
Speaker 2:I feel like my nose is bleeding.
Speaker 1:Uh-oh, oh, I'm getting it pierced.
Speaker 2:Or my allergies.
Speaker 1:It's probably that Too much of it Told, or my allergies Told you I'm getting them. I hate that.
Speaker 2:I'm going to have to start buying clarity.
Speaker 1:Alvin's mom gets a prescription, a lifetime prescription of allergen.
Speaker 2:D. She gets like five boxes every time she, and she don't even use them. She don't even have allergies. I don't know how she got the prescription. Here you go, man.
Speaker 1:We don't know why I'm giving it to you.
Speaker 2:When I tell you she has so many things and like we go to her for everything because it be just, it'd be just, she'd just be stuff, like not even just anything, and I'd just be like why your mom got that and no one knows. No one knows why she has the things that she has. I think she a drug dealer, I think she out here.
Speaker 1:She work for a government, so, all in all, you put looks over that.
Speaker 2:No, alvin ain't the most attractive person I've ever been with yeah cause he couldn't be. He definitely could not look the. Because he couldn't be. He definitely could not look the way he looks and be an asshole. Right, I will say that.
Speaker 1:But Alvin is attractive enough, but that's what I was saying, like even being funny, your personality makes you look better than me.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and that's why I put love on him, because initially I didn't think he was cute, I didn't think he was attractive at all. So you, okay, you and I, he, yes, he, team love, overlook he. So the day that he got my number, three other people did too, and there was one person that I really wanted to call.
Speaker 1:AKA I'm the shit that's call.
Speaker 2:aka I'm the shit, that's what she wanted to say there was one person that I really wanted to call me. He did not ever call me, so why'd you ask me for my number? And Alvin called me and I thought it was the guy that I wanted to call me. So we're in conversation and it's great. Like I'm not. I was never gonna expect this kind of type of conversation from the person that I wanted it to be, and so then he said something. I was never going to expect this type of conversation from the person that I wanted it to be, and so then he said something. I was like huh, who is this? You couldn't tell by the voice? No, because it was the first time I was talking to him on the phone.
Speaker 1:Yeah, his phone voice would be different?
Speaker 2:Yeah, and his phone voice is very different. Alvin's yes, very different, even to this day. It's like could talk phone voice is very different. Alvin's yes, very different, even to this day. Like, talk me out of anything. His phone voice is.
Speaker 1:But that's a practice that men do.
Speaker 2:I don't know. I don't know if he practiced it or if he just If I hit you with it, If he just got it. But he said something and I was like, who is this? And he said who he was and I was like, oh my gosh, this whole time I thought you were somebody else. I am so sorry. And he laughed and that was what made me be like, okay, yeah, You're not easily offended. You can take a joke Like I mean I wasn't joking, but it let me know that if I had been joking about something like that, you could take that.
Speaker 1:And even then, like you were saying, insecure men, right. This is why you shouldn't be Right.
Speaker 2:You can slide into some panties without being insecure Because I could have easily been like You're happy with who you are. I could have easily been like oh, I thought you were somebody else, Right.
Speaker 1:But the conversation was good. Just be yourself.
Speaker 2:Because around the time that I started talking to him, somebody from a different job that I had had prior had my number. I don't know how the fuck he got my number because I did not give it to him. You look so irritated. I was irritated Now. He was attractive to me and while I was at that job he was trying to get with me the whole time was attractive to me and while I was at that job he was trying to get with me the whole time and it wasn't going to happen because he was the baby daddy of a girl that we went to high school with.
Speaker 1:Okay, got you.
Speaker 2:And I told him that. I said you're the baby daddy of one of my friends.
Speaker 1:She wasn't my friend, but yeah yeah, bro, and he still kept that Right, and you I mean that ain't going to stop a man.
Speaker 2:And he admitted that they were still together. It wasn't like he was just like you thought. What did you think I was, sir? Yeah, and so I remember he called me one night and one. He did not have a nice phone voice Don't do that, not at all. And then two yes, you're cute, you're attractive, like same build and like you could easily mistake him and Alvin. But he is a little more attractive than Alvin is. But you're an asshole.
Speaker 1:See personality wins out.
Speaker 2:Yeah, he was just like he really thought See, personality wins out. Yeah, he was just like he really thought Now, tmi, maybe Some stuff had happened with me and a woman at that job, and I think he found out about it so, and I guess he thought that I was easy or something, like he thought he was just going to be able to sleep with me. I don't know. I mean, I don't know, but I think he thought that he could just say whatever he wanted, like he called me on sex. He didn't call me on like trying to get to know me or let's hang out, and see if we.
Speaker 2:Right, we're right, and I'm just like. No, actually it was after, because me and Alvin were talking at this time. You missed your window Probably Because I know you had my number for a while, but that's.
Speaker 1:I think even where you are mentally changes the way a person looks.
Speaker 2:Right, yeah, I mean, he was still cute, even today if I saw him. He was, and I did see him.
Speaker 1:But no, I'm saying like he would have been a lot cuter if he was.
Speaker 2:I don't know. I don't know if he was personable.
Speaker 1:Yeah, like he wasn't an asshole if he didn't even hit you up on no sex shit.
Speaker 2:I don't know, because before I knew I mean yeah, you did say the baby mama.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and like my, fault.
Speaker 2:I didn't know, because before I knew. No, I mean, yeah, you did say the baby mama.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and like my fault, I did actually let my brain.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's just Because he I walked into work one day, what?
Speaker 1:That does have a lot to do with how you look at people. Yeah, all that information, now I can see that no, maybe, but even before I knew he was her baby daddy.
Speaker 2:I walked into work one day and all the girls liked him. This is how I knew you ain't, you ain't gonna never touch me, homie. I walked into where I was a little late and he was talking to this girl. She was flirting, he was just talking, like you can tell, and I walked in and I'm getting my stuff together because I'm running a little late and I'm leaning up against the wall, for whatever reason. He comes up, puts his arm up over me and like gets really close and talking to me. He did the movie pause.
Speaker 2:Now I kill for men to do that now, like I want alvin to do that, so bad. But obviously I'm not going to ask you to do it. And I had a murderer did it to me. It worked, yes, but he did it and I was like what are you doing? I would never think that would work ever. Yes, it works. Wow, I'm going to have to try it now. Murderer did it in the kitchen on on, uh, pine bluff. I'm gonna have to try it. Yeah, I was cooking something and he came in and like kind of pushed me on the wall and and I was like yes, yes, what do we need? What's going on? But this guy did it and I was like what are you doing? Why are you near?
Speaker 2:me, you're like what is going on right now, and then the girl just standing there, angry because you didn't walked away from her to come. Do that to me, right, and I'm like and that's really what the what are you doing? Came from, because you you causing a problem for me. I gotta work here, sir that's funny so even all of that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah I think because he is, he was attractive because I was about to get upset with you when you said all the girls was on him, because I was like I've had some jobs where they, they just all me yeah and I'm like I don't even want them, but I'm friendly I'm talking to you yeah, yeah. But then you said he coming over to me.
Speaker 2:It's how you carry yourself because we were cool to like have conversations and stuff like he actually did, could hold a conversation, funny, everything. But you're an asshole like you think you can just fuck anything that's walking and I'm not for that. So that's crazy.
Speaker 1:I think'm not for that, so that's crazy.
Speaker 2:I think, whether it's cute or ugly, it is looks over love. I don't know the fact that you're in this I'm saying love and I know what love is and I don't know that I could say I would pick somebody or I would leave somebody if they was ugly, if I was in love with them. But I might not make it to love because of your looks, I'll say that just because yeah.
Speaker 2:I wouldn't do that. Yeah, it is love over looks. Yeah, looks over love. No, love over looks. Yeah, looks over love. Yeah, no, love over looks. Oh, yeah, I wouldn't do so. For me it is love over looks. Yes, because I would not stay with you just because you're attractive, because Murderer was really attractive. Sex, sex, sex. You look like a hater.
Speaker 1:One thing I just don't look at dudes like that.
Speaker 2:I thought he was really sexy. He had a great body, even out of he had it was three friends, right?
Speaker 1:no, he was friends with Ruben yes, but they had that dark skinned friend right. They all rolled together. He was the ugly one out of them three.
Speaker 2:Mike, yeah that's how shocked I was really. Yeah, but, like I said, they both liked me.
Speaker 1:But they both liked me and I thought you would have went, cause, once again, I don't give a fuck murderer, just tried hard like, but he was the ugly one, like you know, the ugly one out of the group of friends he was, you think? So, yeah, I, I, I guarantee, if we were to line him up and ask him who pulled more women, light-skinned and dark-skinned?
Speaker 2:for sure, for sure, and that's why he's ugly friend, he's not ugly, he was really attractive but you were into him. I don't give a fuck about you I wasn't, though I wasn't into him initially. He had to fight for me. He had to really work for me, which I like he didn't work for me. I really like that. He did have to work for me because and I will admit it was because I was kind of still feeling Vernon, Like I was yeah, I was still trying to yeah.
Speaker 1:And that makes a difference too. Once again, where you're at mentally also makes a difference. That really hurt your heart.
Speaker 2:I was dating the ugly friend and you're a murderer. You can't be the ugly friend and a murderer. You can't do this. My god, what is wrong with you? You picked the fuck up.
Speaker 1:I'm sorry to bust your bubble like that that was a real date down.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that was a real date down. Yeah, that was a real dating down moment. Hell, yeah, my God, I guess so Really, because I don't think Ruben is cute at all. I'm sorry, you're my friend and I love you to death.
Speaker 1:Once again, I don't give a damn. I'm not. You think, Rub friend, and I love you to death. Once again, I don't give a damn, I'm not just.
Speaker 2:You see, ruben, look better.
Speaker 1:Like I said, if you see a group of friends, they walk up and you can tell how they're carrying themselves. How they walk up, you can tell how they're carrying themselves, how they say hi, and then you put the looks on it, you can tell who the ugly friend is.
Speaker 2:I will say he, I don't think he was getting them, which is why he cheated. Because when? Because normally, if you're not getting them, you're not pulling them like that you will gravitate towards anything Like you will enjoy and fester in that attention.
Speaker 1:Yeah, damn murderer, you just you said it like I didn't know you were talking about.
Speaker 2:Yes, that one, yep damn, I completely forgot about the other guy.
Speaker 1:But see, and this is why I really don't care about looks, because if somebody and I have had people do that like I didn't, it don't make me feel no type of way what we? Had, or that's the only thing that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I've had people do that Like I didn't.
Speaker 1:It don't make me feel no type of way.
Speaker 2:What we had, that's the only thing that, yeah, yeah, you looked over love, I probably am.
Speaker 1:Damn. We got the reals. You're trying to lie to all. She's trying to lie to all of us. I probably am.
Speaker 2:Because yeah, that's a big thing, Because that hurts me.
Speaker 1:That wouldn't have made no difference.
Speaker 2:I don't know because with that situation he was a murderer. That came after the fact. But he cheated and I was never in love with him and I don't. I don't think I could have fell in love with him you're trying to make excuses.
Speaker 1:You dated a family friend and it's okay, but now we know that you did and I'm seeing it like this, now that you know that about yourself, and I'm saying no loosely.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, yeah. But now that you know that about yourself, take that into account Because, I'm telling you, I've been seeing a lot of good looking men lately and I don't know if it's the sex thoughts or the looks, thoughts that are like.
Speaker 1:But either way, that's the physical.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:But embrace that about yourself. There's nothing wrong with it, absolutely nothing wrong with it.
Speaker 2:I don't think there's anything wrong with it.
Speaker 1:It's just, I don't know.
Speaker 2:I don't know that it would. I just don't know that it would be a.
Speaker 1:And, like I said, it's a priority list. Yours is just not as high a priority list.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you got to be attractive for me to speak to you. That's all, and there's nothing wrong with that, and I'm not saying the world attractive.
Speaker 1:You want to stay with somebody just because.
Speaker 2:Yeah, for sure. So you're not shallow or anything, there's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 1:Okay, there's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 2:I was with the ugly guy you are Looks over love.
Speaker 1:It's okay. I'm going to cry about this for a while Damn, I'm sorry I broke your heart, oh my.
Speaker 2:God.
Speaker 1:He was the ugly friend, but the rest of your track record is good, is it?
Speaker 2:Kind of I'd be thinking back to who I dated and I'd be like but you know what's crazy?
Speaker 1:I was just about to say that, but I'll associate it with your personality Based on how I felt about you after it was over. That's how you look to me. Yeah, because next Tuesday my ex Yon always said she wasn't that attractive. She still, to this day, has been one of the most attractive people I've seen.
Speaker 2:But I knew her, knew her, yeah yeah, yeah, like, and that cause my first. I knew him and we started off as friends and when I saw him I didn't think he was cute, but he was funny as fuck. Like you made me laugh. We can talk about anything you like me.
Speaker 1:And that's okay.
Speaker 2:But once again even that.
Speaker 1:Hey, she was my first too. Okay, so we had non-attractive people before yeah but the way you felt about yours is not the way I felt about mine, finding out that they was the non-attractive yeah.
Speaker 2:I'm still fine with it yeah, I feel like everybody I dated was sexy so there we are, I'm love over looks. I might be like I was sexy. So there we are. I'm in love with Lux.
Speaker 1:I might be like I might be like so good, and we would love to know what's your preference?
Speaker 2:That?
Speaker 1:was, that goes deep. I never knew Lux could go so deep.
Speaker 2:I'm a little disappointed in myself.
Speaker 1:I understand his height, but that's in the point of the day. Um, oh, yes, let me. Let me just light up to that you still light up to that.
Speaker 2:So my watch thinks that me laughing is me working out you do part of college doing that you never seen Patch Adams? Yes, but my watch is dogging me. You don't work out enough, this lazy bitch.
Speaker 1:There we go. You got that there. We gotta talk about fitness on here. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So what lit songs have you heard lately? I'm about to get into the contact. It stinks. That's not even on the billboard that you think people should hear. The lit songs that you think people should hear, and the fact that a song has been popping up on the billboard from like 8, 9, 10 years later it don't even have to be from a certain era.
Speaker 2:You can just put a song. Let me hit my likes list on Spitty Feet.
Speaker 1:One. I know that I want people to go listen to what Girl she be doing her thing, and I mean, if I'm her very first song that she dropped, my bad yeah you like.
Speaker 2:Hit my face, hey, teal, and I'm not even joking, teal, I don't. I'm sorry to cut you off. Teal, my favorite color used to be teal until until it was. My favorite color used to be teal until until.
Speaker 1:I can't agree because when she showed me I started cracking up, but then I listened back and I'm like and I.
Speaker 2:If you're on TikTok, you know who I'm talking about. When I saw it initially I was like my man's is wild, but it did not leave my head after seeing it one time and I went and looked for him on Spotify and I listened to this song at least once a day. Teal is the shit. Like. It is a great ass song. I like it too. Like I don't know if he was intentionally trying to be funny with it or if he was just like I'm feeling this, like I like it.
Speaker 2:I'm putting it out, which is what you should be doing, because it makes me laugh and I've heard it a million times and every time I still be cracking up like my man's really said that. But it is such a great song and another reason that I feel like I've listened to his other stuff and I'm not feeling it like that not to like deter anybody from listening to his other stuff, but it's just not hitting like Teal. Teal is just. Even if he's a one hit wonder, with Teal y'all, everybody needs to be streaming it. That needs to be number one on the billboards, number one, and he be saying it too.
Speaker 1:So I'm not lying when you showed it to me, like I said, I laughed at first, but it too, so I'm not lying. When you showed it to me, like I said, I laughed at first, but then I listened back. I'm like yo, he is extra killer. So I do agree.
Speaker 2:I love that song.
Speaker 1:But oh who I was going to say. And since day one when she dropped her first song, that one blew up, but then she ain't dropped shit for a long, long time and now she's just back. But it's also like indie rock. I can't even put it into a genre because it's so different.
Speaker 2:But Willow Okay.
Speaker 1:And I mean the whole album, her latest one, stupid, stupid, and then her last one I think it was her last one before that with Travis Barker. She did the album with him.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, yeah, I was just like bro. She got a song with Camila Cabello. You love it.
Speaker 1:But her voice range.
Speaker 2:Camila could have been off in it. Still Her voice control.
Speaker 1:I'm like Willow, been working, working, working and I hate that you don't see her shit mainstream.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Because that is one that I be. Like yo. She is fucking a game. So that's the whole last album. You can't go wrong with nothing.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I need to listen to it and if you're not closed-minded.
Speaker 1:I've met so many closed-minded people that sing their own music. Yeah, If you open your mind, if you actually know you're going to hear this shit.
Speaker 2:Literally, somebody just said that to me. What they said something about rap. And I didn't know what they were talking about, because you know I don't listen to rap like that. But they were like, if I said something about Avril Lavigne or Britney Spears, you know what I'm talking about and I'm like I might, but what does that have to do with a whack-ass rapper that you're telling me about?
Speaker 1:Because I ain't never heard of him. That don't change. Good and bad, right? Yeah, I feel that and that's what I'm saying. If you got an open mind, you listen to this shit, you just go.
Speaker 2:I'm like, damn, she killing it, yeah, and like, as a singer, the production, yeah, everything is fine and I feel like she has her hand in on everything she do, and we always say how well-rounded we are as Black people, with music especially, and I love that, because when they said that to me, I'm like you don't know what you're missing out on, right.
Speaker 1:Right Because Britney Spears, right because Britney Spears. But I'm starting to see more TikToks and memes where, like uh, black dudes will be singing in the park where it's like I know I'm not the only one who is catching music. Was Green Day used to go hard? Green Day Chemical Romance used to go hard, all American.
Speaker 2:Rejects. What's it? Uh, yellow Card used to go hard. Don't tell me Red Hot Chili Peppers. To this day, to this day, you cannot tell me that Red Hot Chili Peppers ain't out here. Yes, evidence.
Speaker 1:Thank you, bewitched One of my homies.
Speaker 2:I might be alone on that one. You really could.
Speaker 1:But my homie Landon, he's really into like Screamo, but he didn't think I was but the first one because he thought I was a little timid. He put on Sister Bova Down and I was like nigga, you don't even know, you don't even know. But it's like like you can relate with so much more people because I won't lie.
Speaker 2:Scream Rock used to be. I can't do all of it. Yeah, some of it I can't do. I don't know who they are, the uh, some of it now. I don't know who they are. Chop Suey, yes, yes, and when he I was saying Chop.
Speaker 1:Suey, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. Stupid, yes, and when he played I was like, bro, you ain't gotta like tiptoe me into this, because I'm into this, because they harmonies Like you just wouldn't be. It is so fucking. And that's when I started getting into it? Yeah, I was like oh they got melodies, they got harmonies, and when you open, and that was like 10, 11.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but when you open your mind to that, Right, because I used to be like turn the screaming off, right. But when you can hear, like, when you take the time to be, like, that's a real talent, because I can't do that shit as a singer, I cannot do that. Somebody was listening to them this morning and I was like, yes, thank you. You know how dope Kyle?
Speaker 1:is on that guitar and Jack. Black is a real ass singer, but it's like, and I hear their music and I wish they were bigger. I wish you really got real music awards, cause y'all are that dope. It's like, and I hear their music and I wish they were bigger. I wish you really got real music awards, cause y'all are that dope, it's crazy how much and people are taking it like that.
Speaker 2:It's sad and he's always trying to put him singing in his like panda school of rock cause it's a talent and it's a the stuff that he does.
Speaker 1:Because it's a talent, yeah, and it's a real talent that he has. That's William and Brayden and I really wish people would give it more of a chance.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, I like. It just made me laugh when he said that Cause I'm like, rap ain't the only music and all rap is not good, especially today, rap use. Now I will say rap used to be dope as fuck, like when it started and people were really coming into it. Run DMC, that was your best.
Speaker 1:That was your favorite era of hip-hop? No, not my.
Speaker 2:No, I'm just saying Like yeah, I've taken the time to start trying to understand rap Because I like Nas, I like what's Bob Marley's son's name? Ziggy? No, damon, oh Damon, I like him. I love TI. When he was big, I always miss him, ti, you from.
Speaker 1:New.
Speaker 2:Wayne yes, that's what I said to him. He was like you, not street, and I was like, yeah, lil Wayne is as street as it gets for me.
Speaker 1:Pretty much in the middle of it. Right, you were asking for traffic to get to. If you were listening to Wayne.
Speaker 2:I mean, I like Drake, I just am not like a super fan of any rappers.
Speaker 1:Oh, okay, got you. I get that, but the fact that you can listen to it, yeah yeah, yeah. That shows that you're open to it and not all of it is for me, just like not all of Aq will probably be for you, right?
Speaker 2:Because is Anderson Paak a rapper or a singer, or is he Because I? He's an artist. I like him as an artist. Yep, he really drew me in with the Trolls movies. He was for them and he's on some of the songs and stuff.
Speaker 1:Okay, okay, I can see that I got kids. Yeah, I can see that, though, but I guess that if you're not open to it, you just miss it so much.
Speaker 2:I definitely feel like it and it's not like, you have to like all of it. Because do you remember we went to Trey Stone's concert. So damn random. Yeah, that was the most random thing that we've ever done in our entire lives, probably, and Hot Shell Ray was performing. Tell me what I was thinking about them yesterday and we didn't know who they were until their last song and we like, but the whole they were until that song. And we like, oh, the whole time we were just rocking with them, right, right, yeah, yup, yup.
Speaker 1:Like you can't tell me that you don't hear this to me R&B, pop, rock music and think it's not good Like yes, yes, and I would hate to be one of those people who was sitting in the audience like just a bandwagon there.
Speaker 2:Yeah, or just mad about it. Until the last song came on and you're like oh, this is the one that's on the radio Right, because their radio song was dope.
Speaker 1:But now you know that you're missing out on so much other shit.
Speaker 2:What's their name? 303?. They had funny songs. It was a duo. Dope as fuck, though I like. There's just so many and I really wish Blink-182. Yes, I wish all Good Charlotte. I wish all these groups, bands, would come back. I know Blink-182 has been putting music out and stuff.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I did hear that actually.
Speaker 2:They not too long ago put out a ballad type song. Oh shit, it's pretty nice. Somebody at Guitar Center told me about it. Yeah, I just I don't Three Doors Down, I'm not gonna lie, I think. Nickelback In every genre, but Rock really it's just generic now yeah, yeah, yeah it's just getting real generic it is, and I'm like I'm about to turn to folk in a minute because, because, what's left?
Speaker 1:yeah, and the thing is the generic stuff just, and I get that's all that's there. But even that, like the passion for music and stuff, it's become more of a money grab, yeah than an actual.
Speaker 2:and it sucks that for the people who are like Janet Jackson, jlo, britney Spears, mariah Carey, all these Celine Dion all the big artists who had to work so hard to get where they are and it's like now there's people who look at that and they're like I don't want to work that hard, but I want what they got and there's a way to do it right.
Speaker 2:I can't that they're even falling into it, like Mariah Carey has been doing stuff that I'm just like why are you doing this? Why you won't just put out an album? You still can sing. You ain't never put out an album, right like you still can sing. You ain't never gotta perform again.
Speaker 1:Just put out an album, somebody gonna listen to it, I, I, somebody is me like I don't know I feel like the good, the actual good music, very rarely that's coming out, it's just going under the radar. So much and I will say to all the tiktok artists I don't want to call them that to all the TikTok artists.
Speaker 2:I don't want to call them that To all the artists who are putting their stuff out on TikTok. And I find you, I thank you, because there's this rapper actually, and he got me like that and, as I just said, I don't listen to rap like that. That's my dog. I found him on tiktok, okay. Now I don't know if he's doing anything else or if, if that just like, obviously artists have tiktok videos and stuff, but I was very like, yes, like I like something I can actually talk about yes.
Speaker 2:Because I don't want to keep listening to people trying to be what's already out there.
Speaker 1:Yeah, Not that you said that. West Side Boogie, he's another one. He's actually from Detroit, but his flow is crazy, but it's so musical.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:Like I could sing over it if I wanted to, okay, and I'm like, why is this not being played more? And the bars is hard, the meanings is good, yeah, I'm like there's all the good music that needs to be out. There is just falling to the face.
Speaker 2:Now am I crazy? Or is Tyler the creator not being played like he should? Because I don't think he's being played like he should, but he's getting streamed like he should, probably.
Speaker 1:He's getting there finally. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I feel like he should have been there a long time ago and shout out to my boy, ryan Johnston, a long time ago, because I wasn't a fan of Tyler, a creator from Yonkers. That was one of the first things he had put out with the Eatin' the Bug, that's why it had got big in the video. But I heard that and I was like it's okay, so I really didn't give him a chance after that. But then, right, he was like nah, bro, you're going to sit down and you're going to listen to this shit. Yeah, all right. Since then, I've been listening to album after album after album after album, and this man- ain't missed and I'm like why did she make my earthquakes?
Speaker 1:did she make my earthquakes?
Speaker 2:he hasn't missed not one time and still not getting the recognition now we might come to a halt on the green with this one. I don't think, and please don't come for me. I don't really care for Childish Gambino. I don't think his music's that great, but I feel like people are like that's where he shines with his music.
Speaker 1:I feel like he's a great actor, yeah, his TV is. Yeah, that's way better. I believe, I believe.
Speaker 2:Because I'm just my opinion. Yeah, I mean I just this is America. Yeah, Was okay to me, I didn't.
Speaker 1:I thought it was dope. But you know what's crazy I've never just listened to the song. Yeah, you gotta watch the video.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yep, but I feel like that's his intentions, because I think he knows that that's where he really shines. I mean, he's a great creator. I will say that he's a great creator, but it's like people make it seem like he shines with music and I'm just like. Yeah, that's not what I mean I missed it, but okay.
Speaker 1:You know who I didn't give too big of a chance to recently. I'm like ah shit, my nigga actually kinda nice Lil Yachty you're just gonna have to convince me, because um. I can show you some shit.
Speaker 2:I feel like if I did listen to him I would agree, because he's so weird that, yep, somebody told me that was like. I feel like if I did listen to him I would agree, Because he's so weird that Yep.
Speaker 1:Somebody told me they was like, bro, you just have to get it. And like, whenever you get it, you'll get it.
Speaker 2:Because there's a. I was like what the fuck that mean, Right, but then I got it and I was like, I get it. I cannot think of his name. It starts with an M, I think, or an A, m, I think, or A. Those letters are nowhere near you.
Speaker 1:I was going to say that, but in my mind I'm trying to put them together. M A A M O.
Speaker 2:I think it is together. Honestly, I think it might be an AM name, but he had this song called Spice Girls or something like that.
Speaker 1:I'm not sure.
Speaker 2:And it was the only song of his that I knew and I'm like why ain't more people talking about him Like stuff like that? Really, did you listen to the rest of his stuff? I did. Was it good?
Speaker 1:Yeah, oh okay, yeah, because sometimes yeah.
Speaker 2:I believe yeah because what's that girl name that did the song with Kehlani. Um, there's a girl I don't know if she's a rapper or what, but she did a song with Kehlani, and this one particular song is fire. Is she a rapper? I think so, but the rest of her stuff is who? Let you put that out, don't, don't, but the rest of her stuff is.
Speaker 1:Who let you put that out? Don't, don't go for me. And that's what I'm saying, like it could just you lucked out. Well, because I'll listen to some artist's rest of their catalog and I'm like, what the fuck Like? But I'm always so happy when one song got me and then I go to that artist and the next song is dope yeah.
Speaker 2:And then the next song is dope.
Speaker 1:I'm like Victoria Monet. Was that for me Really? Yes. Once I heard one song I was like damn, that's so fire, let me go check it. And I was like song after song after song.
Speaker 2:It was not that for me, really. So I heard that ass, yeah, I heard that first, uh-huh, and I went and listened to some more of her stuff and I was like I'm not feeling it. But then another one no Moment is what I heard first, okay, and I was like I like this song and I went and listened to some more of her stuff and I was like what?
Speaker 2:And then that ass came out. I was like what happened? What happened with the other stuff? Because I like these two songs. What happened with the other stuff? Then I heard monopoly with her and ariana grande and I was like this shit is dope. So then I was like, okay, let me just listen, let me just play it, because I'm like intending to like it yeah.
Speaker 2:So I just listened and there were a lot of songs that I didn't like Really. Yeah, but everything she puts like as singles I love Really. You don't like none of the albums, not really, wow. And then I just heard a song that she did with Lucky Day called Smoke. Love it, but I don't think she put that out as a single, I think it was just on an album.
Speaker 2:So there are songs that I just like. I ain't heard shit that I don't like. But Rene Rap just won something for Pride Month or something, I don't know what it was. But she was saying that she believes that Victoria Monet is not getting her flowers because she's one of the best writers in the industry, and I will definitely agree with that, because there's nothing that she's written that I'm just like what the fuck is she talking about?
Speaker 2:like everything is like she got a song with Bryson. I always say Triller, bryson, tiller, and uh, they're talking about sex, but they're using like these huge words. And it's just like you yeah, she's fine. You want to get all of my? Absolutely, he won't. This persuasion.
Speaker 1:But that's fire to me.
Speaker 2:Right yeah, and.
Speaker 1:I love that song but once again just going under the radar.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:So many people aren't given, like you said them, flowers to the people. That's really been, yeah for sure. But oh, I was one other one. I have worth it by Amber Mark. That one, that's one of the ones you put on right in the morning you play. That is gonna have you feel like I don't know who that is.
Speaker 2:I'm sorry to this person. I'm sorry to this man. I wouldn't know who that is. I'm sorry to this person. I'm sorry to this man. I don't know who that is. I wouldn't know if he walked up to me in the street.
Speaker 1:But after you listen to it you're going to know her Worth it by Amber Mark. All of y'all are going to listen to it.
Speaker 2:You know what Y'all need to stay up off my man, trevor Jackson, quit, leave him alone, because he's dope as shit. I don't care about this dumb video that y'all keep trying to make it seem like he wasn't doing too much. He was giving his all. Y'all just don't know he was performing. I'm not disagreeing with you.
Speaker 1:But that's just funny because they was going in and I'm like, but I do agree on that song yeah, it wasn't necessary calm down, chill, but vocalist wise, my man is fire, he's cool and he's someone from everything I heard. I haven't given him a chance like that.
Speaker 2:You need to my man is out here. He's a dark skinskinned Chris Brown.
Speaker 1:Okay, okay, let me get my chance.
Speaker 2:I hope you don't fall, because I said that.
Speaker 1:Oh, my God.
Speaker 2:I hope I don't fall.
Speaker 1:So you got any takeouts for us?
Speaker 2:I think Sir needs to be doing a little better. Sir is my shit and I feel like people be sleeping on him. I don't think he's consistent. I don't. But you can't sleep on talent, true that? No, no, nobody else. Oh, these uh Asian artists.
Speaker 1:I gave Blackpink a chance and I was like okay they dope.
Speaker 2:I was like okay, okay, yeah, they dope they dope.
Speaker 1:I was like okay.
Speaker 2:They fire One of my kids I have no idea how to say this Fuji K's. I'm going to say that's what it is. Fuji K's, he's a Japanese artist, and you know what's crazy? Obviously they sing, Obviously they do music and stuff, just like we do.
Speaker 1:But they sing.
Speaker 2:Obviously they do music and stuff, just like we do, but it always be like damn y'all out here, I don't know why, but you can start to see the American influence on their music.
Speaker 1:They always have their own type of music, for sure, but now you're seeing that, like the hip-hop influence.
Speaker 2:I feel like he's sticking to his Japanese roots. Oh, that's great and I love it.
Speaker 1:I like finding music like that. I love it, not saying the Asian hip-hop, or like the pop, like K-pop and shit.
Speaker 2:Like I said, I like.
Speaker 1:Blackpink and shit.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but I do like finding artists like that yeah, he's really dope, really dope, he's really dope. Yeah, Shiginu Gawaiiwa.
Speaker 1:Shiginu Gawaiiwa.
Speaker 2:I don't know how to speak Japanese. That's his name, that's the name of the song. That song is dope, I think his name is Fuji K's I think it's pronounced Fuji K's, but he dope, he dope. And I looked into some of his other stuff and I liked it. It wasn't like just that one song was dope. I like his music and just that one song was dope, I like his music. Okay, fuji-jama Shinanugaiwa, fuji-jama, fuji-kase, fuji-kase. It's probably not Fuji, but it's. Fuji Fuji-kase. Okay, shinanugaiwa, I think that's how you say it Shinanugaiwa.
Speaker 1:Shinanugaiwa, shinanugaiwa, may, I think that's how you say it. We probably just got to leave it. May harmonies be so.
Speaker 2:And his range is like super low.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's what I was going to say. I be feeling like they be taking their ancestors harmonies and stuff they used to do, like the 30 keys harmonies. Yeah, I was like they. Oh my God, it's so dope.
Speaker 2:Was Mulan Japanese, I believe.
Speaker 1:So this one though yeah, I believe so, but nah, that's the music that I mean, the weird music I hate to even call it weird it's just that y'all not listening to it and y'all call it weird. So start calling it weird and go listen to it, and then it's going to be mainstream.
Speaker 2:It's all the thugs calling it weird. It's not even that.
Speaker 1:Because I meet rock people who are close-minded and they won't listen to all the times Really, but luckily I do, so we can connect yeah.
Speaker 2:And when I say thugs, I mean like people who out here actually being thugs, shooting people, and I don't mean like just black people I mean actual.
Speaker 1:They definitely have a certain playlist. That's all they listen to man, I can't with that shit too.
Speaker 2:I can't. I love it.
Speaker 1:I cannot get in the car with somebody who's only listening to rap you're talking about the, the type of music where, if it's actually on the radio, half of it is bleeped up.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Love it. I fucking love that music.
Speaker 2:Or if it's turned up loud, you can't hear it.
Speaker 1:That could have been bad. That no, I love that shit. No, that's what I mean. I'm just I really am open-minded music. If it's good, it's good, and I get it. I get what it's for, I get. When you should listen to it, I get it. And I fuck with all genres For real, for real. You gotta have a diverse playlist, for sure. I mean at least three genres should be in your playlist At least, and I mean the very minimum.
Speaker 2:So yesterday, how do I feel about Beyonce? You're not a fan? Not at all. I'm not a fan at all. Yeah, but I like Tyrant. I love her country album and I think it's TikTok's fault that I like it.
Speaker 1:Do you think, okay, even that. Do you think you haven't given her music a chance?
Speaker 2:No, I've tried. I definitely do try, because I used to like beyonce yeah yeah, the first one.
Speaker 2:No, though dangerously in love was the first. Oh yeah, b-day, b-day I. I like I like b-day. I'm not gonna say I didn't, don't like it, no more, I like b-day. After that is when it was like I feel like you're not trying. I feel like you see what you are and you're not putting in the same type of work for Dangerously in Love and B-Day. Yes, the love of music is still there. You can see she's putting in her hard work, but it's like that's an interesting take. I feel like it was very much. I can put out whatever I want and that's fine. You are you. But I like Tyrant and it's on my playlist and it came on the other day and William was like why are you listening?
Speaker 1:to this? What happened to you mom, and where's my actual mom?
Speaker 2:Right and I was like I like this song yeah.
Speaker 1:But once again, you're not even that close to where you're not.
Speaker 2:Right right, there are a ton of people who I'm like, not a big fan of or don't like at all, and I will still be like. Well, let me figure out.
Speaker 1:Because I've gotten just used, or used to just listening.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:If it's good, it's good.
Speaker 2:Yeah, if I don't know who it is, I'm like no, yeah, yeah, I mean I'd rather just hate in silence than to act like it ain't good, yeah, I feel that.
Speaker 1:I feel that I mean, if it's just not good.
Speaker 2:Because we're getting fucked up. Tonight that is literally the only part of that song that I can stand to listen to Because it kept coming on on TikTok and I'm like that part is dope, like I wish they would play more of the song. So I wouldn't listen to it and I was like, yeah, I'll just keep playing that one part the best part is right after that. I'm talking about all of that, oh OK, but the song itself is not good, I can fuck with the whole song forever, so this has been?
Speaker 1:uh no, not at all well, there is your recommendations of music, and the limited series will be wrapping up with episode five, nine opera. Thank y'all for tuning in again. This has been episode 5 when it comes to putting food in your baby mom's fridge. I think it's a responsibility. She thinks it's not. I think it's a choice cause y'all know what she talking about.
Speaker 1:I mean because my baby daddy putting food in my refrigerator heard that when it comes to looks over love, y'all already know what we have with that and we just gave y'all hella music, hella music to put in y'all playlist. So go ahead and do that and you have been tuned in to another week of he Smoke.
Speaker 2:She high on life.
Speaker 1:Cause weed speaks Because weed speaks.
Speaker 2:Weed speaks.
Speaker 1:This is my telephone voice.
Speaker 2:Thank you for tuning in. That's your telephone, that's a really. I would hang up on you why I like it love. That is not what you did. Yes, it is. No, it ain't All right.
Speaker 1:Act like you involved I'll. It is no, it ain't All right. Act like you don't know all that. Hello, hello, that's my telephone voice you better hope you don't make me laugh. That's going to come out, hello, hello, I love it.
Speaker 2:I love it.
Speaker 1:I love it Sooner or later he gonna make your ass giggle and it's gonna be over.
Speaker 2:I'm telling you you probably, if you ever talk to me on the phone, you didn't hear my real voice until you were in person with me. You usually met me in person.
Speaker 1:I'm good at Googling my phone voice is definitely different because I've always heard that phone voice.
Speaker 2:I'm just kidding, I would never do that. I would never do that.
Speaker 1:That was too natural. You've been practicing that.
Speaker 2:That wasn't cute.
Speaker 1:You had the pose, pose and everything. You better go or they're going to try to lie to me.
Speaker 2:I don't really do that, oh shit.
Speaker 1:No, I don't do that, no but just like how I knew my phone voice, that came out way too fucking natural. Get out of here. You can't lie to me. No, I that's not it I'll go give it to you.
Speaker 2:That was cute I mean it sounds like a phone laugh. That was not cute. Hey, that's more like my phone laugh. I'll just tone my laugh down, okay, okay, and then I'll like move the phone and like really laugh. That's more like my phone laugh. I'll just tone my laugh down, oh, okay, okay. And then I'll like move the phone and like really laugh.
Speaker 1:So I yeah, for real. For real, if I hate it, but if you make me laugh on the phone, yeah, I would rather not, I gotta change it. I'm gonna be like I'd rather not, I gotta change it. I'm like but deep inside. I'll be wanting to gurgle, but I can't do that. I'll just. That's all. You were here for five minutes.
Speaker 2:Stop it. That is not it. I was like you okay, are you okay? He's joking. Oh my God, don't do that. Get a new phone, lav. Get a new phone, lav, because that is not it.
Speaker 1:I'm sorry, that is not it, that ain't it but after a lav in person, I don't let the real one out, but I fucking hate you why.
Speaker 2:Why would you do that? Why would?
Speaker 1:you do that. Oh my gosh, you know what?
Speaker 2:I never thought it was bad until just oh my gosh. Oh my gosh, it ain't that bad. What? Oh my gosh, oh shit my stomach. I want someone to record me on the phone and I want to listen to how ridiculous I know I sound oh shit, oh my gosh, that's gotta be a thing now.
Speaker 1:Phone voices I'm trying to hear people's phone voices send in your phone, voice and laugh we gotta make that a thing. Oh my gosh, that does it.
Speaker 2:Thanks you guys. See you next time, oh shit,
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