He Smoke She Don't
He is a single man with no kids. She is a wife with four kids. He smoke She don't. Do they see life through the same glasses? Take a listen and find out
He Smoke She Don't
What y'all watching?! Should kids have to ask for food? Is Isolation okay?
Ever wonder what happens when exhausted hosts tackle the wild world of parenting, weed, and TV all in one go? Get ready for a rollercoaster of laughs, personal anecdotes, and candid discussions. We kick things off with hilarious takes on parenting mishaps, the weirdness of unsolicited advice, and our latest adventures in adulting. From our playful "fuck you" exercise to lighten the mood to our deep dive into the nuances of cannabis strains—particularly the uplifting Sunshine No. 4—you're in for an entertaining ride. We even sprinkle in some nostalgic memories of Greek food in Detroit and our dreams of visiting Greece, all while giving a shoutout to NBA star Giannis Antetokounmpo.
Next, we transition to a thought-provoking comparison between being a psycho vs. crazy, inspired by the infamous "American Psycho." Our TV show recommendations will have you glued to your screens, with must-watches like "Blackbird," "Power," "Euphoria," and "Atlanta" sparking intense debates and bursts of laughter. You'll hear our hot takes on character arcs, storyline disappointments, and the unexpected twists in shows that make us keep coming back for more. We also discuss the impact of societal judgments on our parenting styles and share some hilarious and relatable moments from our own experiences.
Finally, we tackle some serious and absurd topics—from managing children's eating habits and enforcing discipline to the wild story of a woman staging her own kidnapping to escape her mundane life. We reflect on the challenges of balancing isolation and social responsibilities, especially during the pandemic. Whether it's our unscripted TV show banter, unexpected plotlines, or the moral dilemmas we debate, our episode promises to keep you entertained, laughing, and maybe even a little more enlightened. Don't miss out on this jam-packed episode filled with humor, insight, and a whole lot of heart!
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Speaker 2:That's how every Buster I saw used to sound Y'all, y'all y'all, y'all. He used to go in on them, motherfuckers.
Speaker 1:I thought I was doing it.
Speaker 2:No, I don't know what you were doing. I don't know what you were doing.
Speaker 1:I really thought I was doing it.
Speaker 2:You tried, though, but we back, we back, we back, we back. I you tried, though, but we back, we back. I'm a little surprised that we back. I ain't surprised.
Speaker 1:I am, I'm tired, really.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I don't know what this week just is dragging so that you just mean, or show y'all how much y'all mean to us tired, exhausted, everything in between. We gonna bring this content to y'all.
Speaker 1:I mean, I'm never too tired to do this though.
Speaker 2:Exactly. You're going to get this content and we're here with the he Smoke.
Speaker 1:She does not Just kidding, she don't.
Speaker 2:I mean, this is still another way to say don't, but he Smoke she don't Weed Smeeks. Weed Smeeks I'm going to get that on the shirt now Weedsmeeks, and I'm the one that's supposed to be the stoner, and you know you mess up a lot more words than I do.
Speaker 1:I was wondering if I should like, do like the pity patty, like stuff like that, like pitty patty like stuff like that, like you got me so lost like actors do before they go on stage. The exercises like pretty patty, built up like tongue twisters.
Speaker 2:Oh okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, so that I can learn how to. Yeah, you should I shouldn't. I decided against it she said I thought about it, I decided not to. When I was in new zealand I learned this uh, I guess pre-scene exercise and it's called fuck you. It is basically you and your scene partner, y'all go back and forth just saying fuck you in different emotions, so like let's go. They'll be like sad.
Speaker 3:Fuck you.
Speaker 2:They'll be like angry Fuck. You're not supposed to do whatever.
Speaker 3:I want to do all of it. You mad as somebody.
Speaker 2:Hey, whoever out there, watch your back. You know who you are. She holding some vengeance in her fist. But yeah, they just go back and forth Was my sad good. It was okay, fuck you. That was better. Okay, yeah, that was better.
Speaker 1:I really felt it.
Speaker 2:Fuck you.
Speaker 1:Sensitive.
Speaker 3:Fuck you. That was good, that was good.
Speaker 2:You're going to have just a five-minute clip of us saying fuck you. But that's what we bringing to y'all. In case y'all ever feel like they should do movies and shit, we might do movies and shit. I'm going to do movies and shit. She going to do movies and shit. Whether you like it or not, she bringing me that to you.
Speaker 1:So on today's agenda we got the. Is that a strain of the day?
Speaker 2:Oh, we can run down and then, while I'm rolling up, I can go ahead. Okay, we can run down and then, while I'm rolling up, I can go ahead.
Speaker 1:Okay, we got strain of the day, we got what you watching parenting.
Speaker 2:I'm excited for what you watching.
Speaker 1:And adulting.
Speaker 2:Parenting and adulting should be fun.
Speaker 1:I think the parenting is going to be interesting.
Speaker 2:You know why parenting is always fun for me? Because obviously so many parents get offended when you try to tell them, like something to do with their child. Yeah, and it be the funniest thing in the world.
Speaker 1:I don't think I get offended, I think I just be like it depends One are you a parent?
Speaker 2:Yeah, that makes a big difference.
Speaker 1:And two like if you telling me in person, I'm all for it, but if you telling me online, shut the all for it. But if you telling me online, shut the fuck up shut the fuck up, cause we probably don't know each other so we don't even need to be talking. You don't even need to think that you need to tell me anything yeah, I feel that.
Speaker 2:I feel that, but nah, that sounds like an interesting show and I was just talking about how you mess up your words. Interesting show we have, cause I don't know what the fuck. I was just talking about how you mess up your words interesting show we have, because I don't know what the fuck you just said I'm like, what did I do?
Speaker 1:Drink, drink drink.
Speaker 2:Today we smoking on some Sunshine. No four, number four I'm telling you every time we say another name. I just like they be so happy and uplifting yeah, I gotta love them.
Speaker 1:I think that's a problem for me, because that's like bringing you in it's inviting, it's tempting that's like, what is it? That's like what is it? That's like the worst influencer ever, just, always just tempting.
Speaker 2:Yeah, always sounding good. Well, this one is actually a. You got a whiff of it. Yes, it smells, delicious right, no it does not. There's something wrong with it.
Speaker 3:I don't know, weed stinks. That smells so bad, so good.
Speaker 2:So good. But yeah, the Sunshine no 4 is a mix between Kim Dogg 4. I know you don't know what that is. At all Kim Dogg 4 and sunshine daydream. So hybrid means like a mix of two other weeds.
Speaker 1:That's CBD and.
Speaker 2:Nope, every weed has CBD and THC in it. Oh, but these are just two different weeds that they put together. Now, those two different weeds might have had, like, different effects. Okay, and putting it together you get one. Like with this one it's more of a sativa hybrid so that's what I meant yeah, the sativa or what hybrid I mean, uh, indica okay you know how to remember those so.
Speaker 1:Sativa means hyper indica means calming in the couch just when you think that seems like they should be opposite.
Speaker 2:No, because when you think about it, I just think Indica in the couch, slop In the couch.
Speaker 1:Indica energy. Indica energy no.
Speaker 2:Sativa soothing, I didn't make it up.
Speaker 1:You said Sativa Susie Soothing.
Speaker 2:I was about to say what does Susie Suving, oh Suving. I was about to say. What does Susie?
Speaker 3:got to do with this.
Speaker 2:I mean, I can see that, I can see that that would make sense, but it was probably high when they came up with it.
Speaker 2:I'm just saying but yeah, so this one oh and funny thing I mean not funny thing Interesting in 2015 it won Best Hybrid at the Michigan High Times Marijuana Cup or Medical Cup. You know, they have like weed festivals and cups and they test them and they win awards and this one won the Best Hybrid in 2015. So today we spoke with Sunshine number four and get lifted, lifted to the clouds, so I guess we can see if my spirits, or like my energy, comes up over the course of the episode it's supposed to.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's usually what Sativa does is like lift you up.
Speaker 1:Oh yeah, it's backwards.
Speaker 2:According to you.
Speaker 1:It's backwards, according to everybody. Everybody gonna hear this and be like she's right.
Speaker 2:I'm not gonna lie, it do make sense. She's right Because I learned it the real way. It just is that.
Speaker 1:In the couch.
Speaker 2:Hey, you don't want to leave.
Speaker 3:You a nigga. That's all that is. I didn't make it up. I'm talking to the person who did I can't stand it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so if you're looking for a weed that wakes you up, gets you out of bed, gets you going, wait for some Sunshine no 4. Sunshine, no 4. And today, what was it? First week I had some joints, the papers. Last week I had a pen. Today we are going with the Ever, ever Reliable Backwoods. I had a leaf in a minute. That smells really bad. Latina, you're crazy. That smells amazing.
Speaker 1:Like I ain't had a leaf in a minute, that smells really bad.
Speaker 2:Latina. You're crazy. That smells amazing. You said that's a leaf. Yeah, I haven't had a leaf in a while, so I'm kind of excited for that.
Speaker 1:You don't know, the last time I had a leaf.
Speaker 2:Never.
Speaker 1:No, it was in Detroit.
Speaker 2:You actually smoked one.
Speaker 1:At a Greek restaurant. I had a stuffed.
Speaker 3:Had a stuffed grape leaf A stuffed grape leaf.
Speaker 2:You said Detroit. Yeah, actually, do you remember the name of that restaurant?
Speaker 1:It started with a P.
Speaker 2:Because I do want to branch out and be trying new restaurants.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it was our first time there and it was really good. I really want to go to Greece.
Speaker 2:I'm going to have to try that one there.
Speaker 1:It was Greek food. I want to go to Greece too. I really want to go to Greece.
Speaker 2:I'm going to have to try that one there. It was Greek food. I want to go to Greece too.
Speaker 1:I really want to go to Greece.
Speaker 2:Hopefully one day I can meet Giannis and he'll take who Giannis.
Speaker 3:Who's that? Hunter Tacumpo.
Speaker 2:He's an NBA player.
Speaker 1:Oh, I saw something about Kobe and I can't remember his name. Kyrie, yes, yes, they look alike. I sent you the TikTok. They don't look alike, but yeah, I saw that. You know what I'm talking about. No, they do look alike.
Speaker 2:Yes, they do no, no, no.
Speaker 1:Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2:No, but Giannis, he's from Greece.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:And he's a nice player, he nice as hell, he white Huh. He white, no black. His parents are from Africa, but then they were born there.
Speaker 1:He was born there. Okay, he was born in Greece.
Speaker 2:He got a documentary on Amazon Prime called Giannis the Journey, because he ended up winning NBA MVP. He won a championship. Yeah, he's still playing His Journey to all. That was good as fuck. That was another one. I'll be watching a lot of documentaries. I guess that's where we should start with. Then, what you watching.
Speaker 1:I like a lot of ID like. Murder mystery shows.
Speaker 2:I heard that your tendency to be a psycho is higher If you like those type of shows.
Speaker 1:I think I am a psycho. I'm not even going to lie.
Speaker 2:Why do you think that I?
Speaker 1:don't know. That might be why I'm a psycho. That's a psycho as long as we both on the same page. I think, okay, what is just crazy?
Speaker 2:I think a psycho is like someone just who's not all there Because crazy I don't think is psycho. I think like you think I's not all there because crazy.
Speaker 1:I don't think it's psycho. I think like you think I'm not all there no, I do, I'll be glad. Yeah, I do. I think you're all there. I do think I'm a psycho, though, but maybe it's not. You've never seen American Psycho with Christian Bale.
Speaker 2:No, like he's a successful businessman, goes out, got nice suits and like, can function in the world, but killing girls after he sleep with them.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's a psycho.
Speaker 2:You know what I'm saying? Something ain't connecting.
Speaker 1:See, I'm.
Speaker 2:Doing his hair with the blood and looking at himself in the mirror.
Speaker 1:I couldn't commit a murder, but so why do you like shows? And shit like that, because if I ever thought I needed to, I need to know how, I need to know what you idiots did to get caught.
Speaker 2:So I don't do that, because.
Speaker 1:I can't go to jail, that's not a bad logic.
Speaker 2:That's not my lifestyle. I mean, you could just not kill nobody either.
Speaker 1:I mean, that's the goal, but shit happens, you never know. You're right, you are right, you are right, I don't know what kind of situations I can get in, and what scares me is that I think if I ever really did need to commit a murder, it wouldn't be in america, and abroad prisons are oh scarier than american prisons yeah, so I can't, I can't, get caught no, I feel like if I ever committed a murder, it would be in America for sure.
Speaker 2:I don't know. Because of that, I'm like when I'm abroad I'm not doing no shit. That's going to get me caught up.
Speaker 3:You just never, know True, true.
Speaker 1:But no, I don't know about that, Because somebody could catch me on the right night. It's just a lucky day, yeah day. Like you've been asking for this and I'm going to give it to you.
Speaker 2:No, I do feel that I am a huge advocate of leave people the hell alone, because you might just catch them on that one good day when they feeling like I ain't got nothing to lose and you just don't know how willing or how far some people are willing to take that shit like for real, you better and I really do believe that some people will be putting it on their to-do list to die Like why did you wake up like this?
Speaker 1:Why was that the goal today?
Speaker 2:To test me out of all things you could do today.
Speaker 1:But what you watching?
Speaker 2:What you watching. What you watching. What you watching.
Speaker 1:So I'm watching a lot of stuff, but some two things that I recommend people watch right now.
Speaker 2:Okay, okay, okay, okay, wait, wait, wait. What do you think about what I recommended for you to watch? Did you look up anything like a trailer or the?
Speaker 1:outlaw.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I didn't watch the trailer, but I did look it up so I know where it's at okay. I opted out on watching the trailer because the picture looked good because the picture looked good.
Speaker 2:Yeah, do you really judge shows like that sometimes, sometimes, and then you come across a booty ass?
Speaker 1:no, sometimes like Blackbird. What's that? I guess I should have told you about that. I think it was on Netflix. Okay Was about a drug dealer.
Speaker 2:Okay.
Speaker 1:I think he was a drug dealer you got my attention already. He was like pretty young white guy, so like the Kind of lost my attention. No, it's a really good movie, so he ended up no, it's a show, it's a short series.
Speaker 1:He ended up getting arrested. I can't remember exactly why he got arrested, but the officer or the detectives or whatever told him that they would shorten his sentence if he could get another inmate to admit to something that he did. The inmate is super psycho, and when I say psycho, it's like he Is he like one of those smart psychos? Yes, he knows he committed the crime, but like there's stuff about it that don't make sense.
Speaker 2:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 1:I don't want to tell the end.
Speaker 2:But they can't pin it on him, yeah because of what he's saying.
Speaker 1:So why is he in jail then? Because a lot of evidence points to him. Oh, so he was just convicted. Yeah, okay, got you and I found it literally just a lot of evidence points to him. Oh, so he was just convicted. Yeah, okay, got you, but it and I found it literally just off the picture, really, and it was a really good show, blackbird huh, yes, and. Alvin was really mad at me because he didn't find it.
Speaker 3:What Like he?
Speaker 1:thinks.
Speaker 2:Y'all be competing to find this show.
Speaker 1:Yes, yes he thinks that the good stuff that we watch should always be his pick. Oh my gosh. But he picks some real booty shows.
Speaker 3:He be picking booty shows.
Speaker 2:Would he be suggesting stuff to me?
Speaker 1:Well, he's been sticking with the ghosts and power and all that stuff or whatever.
Speaker 2:And the O's is good as hell. The new season about to start tomorrow.
Speaker 1:I wonder if he knows.
Speaker 2:I'm ready for it.
Speaker 1:I am ready, yeah he's been keeping up with that I watch sometimes with him, I watch all of Power with him.
Speaker 2:Oh, okay, so you finished that one all the way to the end when he got killed.
Speaker 1:Yep, that was so good, yeah, I was just like yo. I wish that when I think the reason I fell off of the ghosts and all of the new stuff is because they didn't keep Tasha in the story.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I think so too, but they be sprinkling Tommy in. Yeah, and I love it when they do that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, he watched Tommy's show too. I don't think Tommy's show is all that great. It don't be keeping my attention, you. Tommy Show 2.
Speaker 2:I don't think Tommy Show is all that great it don't be keeping my attention. You didn't get to season two. He did. I probably got that Because I'm not going to lie. Season one was a little slow, but it's necessary, always Right. But the first episode of season two. I was like my nigga, tommy.
Speaker 1:I do like Tommy, though I love his character.
Speaker 2:That's character on there besides Ghost.
Speaker 1:I love his character. That's the character on there besides Ghost. He was on an episode of Grey's Anatomy before he was on.
Speaker 2:Power and he talks so differently, so different. But that's when I was like, yeah, he's a great-ass actor.
Speaker 1:He's such a great actor because he is really ugly to me, really, yes, but he plays Tommy so well that my mans could get it Like.
Speaker 3:I see how he got Lala's character and I can see what you mean.
Speaker 2:I can see it Because I see him in other.
Speaker 1:TV shows. Yeah, and he's so ugly to me.
Speaker 2:And then I even be thinking whoever casted him. How the fuck did y'all think? He casted me, just know that right, because that haircut does everything for him. The wardrobe I'm like, y'all really got my man together, my man's get it. So, blackbird, that's something I gotta check out.
Speaker 1:I would definitely check out Blackbird, if you haven't seen it.
Speaker 2:Okay, no, but the Outlaws, yeah. So the Outlaws is a show on Amazon Prime, but I always find like it gotta be something so like just super original to catch my attention. Now, like shit, just be so generic to me sometimes. But this one it's about one, two, three, four, maybe like seven recent this.
Speaker 1:Why do?
Speaker 2:I know what is that.
Speaker 1:I just saw someone tyrese in it recently.
Speaker 2:Legions, I don't think that's new, though I haven't seen him in a minute actually. But no, it's about seven different people from different walks of life. They it's like a young black dude, young, uh arab girl. Older black lady, middle-aged white man, old ass white dude, but all of them have committed a crime and so they're all doing um community service together. The young black dude he used to run with the gangs and shit, but he's trying to better his life, change his life. But he got blackmailed into doing something where he had to you know, go back to the old life. But then he ended up with the old life. But he ended up with a big bag of cash with it and this fool going to hide it at the building where they're doing their community service. And a couple of other old people found it, but this obviously drug dealer money.
Speaker 2:So then, long story short, everything started getting connected to where these seven people have to start selling drugs together yeah, but the way that they be getting away with so right because they're from all different walks of life, they can really get Really nice people. They can come up with so many ways to move this shit. I was just like this was a really clever show.
Speaker 1:That's like lottery. What is? I think it's called lottery with Mac Miller, not Mac Miller. The fuck am I talking about?
Speaker 2:Rest in peace. Mac, the dude who looked like Mac Miller?
Speaker 1:the fuck, am I talking about the dude who looked like Mac Miller, who also passed away August.
Speaker 2:He was in Euphoria oh yeah, I know who you're talking about.
Speaker 1:August Cloud. Yeah, he was in a movie before he passed called Lottery I think, and it was kind of the same. He robbed a lottery winner at a convenience store While they was cashing it in. Yeah, he just happened to walk in and check his ticket and Clouds, clouds.
Speaker 2:Look at Nick Davis. I like that Clouds character. That's why he's flying with us. All right, people hang too.
Speaker 1:He was Angus, I think it is. Yeah, I said August Angus, he was. He just was. Yeah, I said august angus, I think it is was in there intending to rob the store. But when this guy said he won I think it was 145 million dollars he was like, oh fuck that I'll rob him.
Speaker 1:So he got him at gunpoint trying to get his ticket and it's like it was another couple in there, the store owner and the guy who won the ticket, so it wasn't many people, oh, and a cop was in the bathroom at the time that it happened.
Speaker 2:Oh, okay, that makes it interesting.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that makes it really interesting.
Speaker 1:So he kills the winner, and then the cop comes out and they kill him.
Speaker 2:They think they do.
Speaker 1:And that's when shit gets wild.
Speaker 2:Okay, I'm gonna have to check it, and they all have to work together to try to figure out how to get out of it. So what is this on?
Speaker 1:I think it's on Netflix. Okay, I think it's on Netflix.
Speaker 2:You watch it for you.
Speaker 1:I did Both seasons. Yeah, I'm actually really mad that there's not going to be another season.
Speaker 2:I never followed it like that, I was just wondering. It was really good I heard it.
Speaker 1:It was really good. I will say he actually made it pretty interesting, because had it just been about the sex and stuff? Because that's what it was with the girls? It was just about the relationship stuff with the girls, but with him and Zendaya's character.
Speaker 2:Oh, I don't watch it.
Speaker 1:I don't know her name.
Speaker 2:But her character.
Speaker 1:Because she was a drug addict, they storyline made it more interesting. Oh, okay, okay, but yeah, because she was a drug addict, they storyline made it more interesting. Oh, okay, but yeah.
Speaker 2:I feel like the girls in there was just like sub characters in the Mean Girls or like different variations of the Mean Girls uh, no, I can see where you get that, but it was.
Speaker 1:It was like, if you watch it it is like real high school girl BS like just the real drama.
Speaker 2:I mean for the like the other storyline.
Speaker 1:If that keeps me interested, I could probably do it, yeah the drugs could keep you, and I'm just not a big it's a lot of it's a lot of twists and turns in it, though, like just stuff that you wouldn't expect to be happening. But the funniest. I and people keep putting it on TikTok and reenacting it when I can't remember nobody's name. But Sweeney's character was in the bathroom in this checkered blue dress, but it looked like Dorothy's dress from the Wizard of Oz, from the, and her sister wrote a play and I guess whatever the play was about, she looked like she was auditioning for it, and Zendaya's character had asked her Oklahoma was the name of the play. She said are you trying out for Oklahoma? And she was like, do I look like I'm trying out for Oklahoma?
Speaker 3:and she was like a little bit. And all the girls walk out of the look like I'm trying on for Oklahoma. And she was like a little bit. Then all the girls walk out of the stalls like are you trying on for Oklahoma? And she's like why do you keep asking me that?
Speaker 1:And she's like what's wrong? And she was like if you're not trying on for Oklahoma, why are you dressed like that? She said dressed like what. She said. What did she say?
Speaker 3:Okay, like a country rock star. She said in a good way or a bad way, bitch, you better be joking, you can't be serious.
Speaker 2:You came to school looking like a country rock star and you don't know if that's a good or bad thing.
Speaker 3:She said in a good way or a bad way, bitch, you better be joking.
Speaker 2:That's a good one and as a friend, it's like who would you want to hear that from, and I'm saying it and that's a nice way to say it.
Speaker 1:I'm trying to help you girl.
Speaker 2:Oh my gosh, If it's moments like that, I might watch it yes it's stuff like that that just was like it was this one moment. Who wrote this? I think it was Atlanta. I haven't watched that, but it was the last season. It was just like some real abstract scenes in it. And so this boy he had basically been having problems in school, he always getting up being a class clown and stuff like that, so he'd get in trouble.
Speaker 1:The show is about high schoolers.
Speaker 2:No, oh, okay, this is just one of the abstract scenes. And so his mom and his granddad come up to school. Once he get in trouble, they talking to him in the hallway. His granddad just walk up to him, slapped him, said what's wrong with you?
Speaker 1:what old people crack me up that's all I want he just said what's wrong with you is that scene with? I can't think of his name, but they got pulled over and she was drunk, I guess, and the officer went. She was drunk, I guess, and the officer went back to the car, I guess, to write the ticket or whatever, and she got out the car and just started running. Was that from Atlanta?
Speaker 2:I don't know, I don't know, I don't remember the whole thing.
Speaker 1:That made me want to watch it.
Speaker 2:It is a good show, though what?
Speaker 1:is that one I remember?
Speaker 2:the first season, the most out of Lakeith.
Speaker 1:Yes.
Speaker 2:He's hilarious, I love him. He is hilarious Like one of the first things that stuck in my mind from that show. He was like or Donald Glover's character was like that's made up. He was like everything's made up. Nigga, stay woke.
Speaker 1:I love him Everything he's in, just be really good.
Speaker 2:Because of him, I haven't seen that book of clearance movie yet oh, I haven't seen that either.
Speaker 1:I see, or I started chaining, love chaining or whatever it is. It seemed pretty good, it's a show with him? I don't know it's about him and he meet a girl. He chase her for a while. They finally get together, they have a kid and like she disappear oh, in like a cult or something. So he's trying to save her. He think, but yeah.
Speaker 2:Okay, that sounds interesting, but we should find something to watch together and then do a review on it or something For sure yeah. But yeah, Outlaws If you get a chance.
Speaker 1:I might have to watch that. That's what.
Speaker 2:I'm recommending it's good.
Speaker 1:I recommend, because what did I say?
Speaker 2:What was I talking about before Black Bear?
Speaker 1:Yeah, that wasn't my recommendation, but it is a good one. But my recommendation is Baby Reindeer.
Speaker 2:Oh, yes, so I did look up the trailer of that. Oh, the stalker from that, yeah, she's in Outlaws.
Speaker 1:Is she? Yeah, okay, because they were saying she was like a pretty. Up and coming, yeah, and she's a really good actress and she's really pretty in life, uh-huh, and a lot of people were talking about how they changed her. Yeah, like they changed her so much in Baby Reindeer, but that's kind of how it is in Outlaw.
Speaker 2:She plays like a probation officer. When they're doing a community service, she's the one that overlooks them, but they just make her so nerdy and lame and I'm like it's so funny though. Yeah, but yeah, yeah, she's in that, but that I saw it. I was like and, and I can see how he would fall for. Like she was very clever in the way that she was talking to him. So I.
Speaker 1:This was a show that I found off the picture, yes, and because a lot of people were talking about it and I literally was doing some work on my computer. So this was in my mind. This show was about to be watching me, right? But it just ended up being really good, yeah.
Speaker 3:So, but I do recommend you didn't get nothing done that night I did nothing.
Speaker 1:Nothing, not a damn thing.
Speaker 3:Because what she said, what what?
Speaker 1:I watched that whole show in one night, yeah.
Speaker 2:How many episodes?
Speaker 1:I think it's eight.
Speaker 2:Okay.
Speaker 1:And that was eight hours.
Speaker 2:Oh, that hour? Yeah, it pulled you then. I think they're hours. They pulled you then.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it really did, and the it's based on his life, the actor, it's his real life. This is his real life story. Yeah, that's what you.
Speaker 2:I couldn't remember what aspect I was forgetting, but that's what I was. Yeah, now that's wild. For you to take a real life story, your reallife story, and then act in it and then star in it. Yeah, I don't think I could do that.
Speaker 1:I could never relive that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's too close to it, especially if it was that crazy. Like I know, sometimes they over-dramatize some things.
Speaker 1:Right, but if it was, that's way too message of it saying that it was based on a real story. So once I finished it I looked it up like is this a real story? Who's the real?
Speaker 1:Danny, whatever his name is and an interview of him came up right and I'm like my man did his real life story that would be way too close for me but what I really like is that a lot of people, a lot of women, talk about how it's hard to come forward with having a stalker or being raped or anything that has ever happened to you.
Speaker 2:As a man yeah.
Speaker 1:And as a man, it becomes harder for the police to believe, because it's like you're a man.
Speaker 2:But but in my mind that mean y'all just don't believe nobody out here doing nothing that's what I'll begin to like, and it's it happened so often and y'all find out that it really happened and it's still just your first thing to come out is that it didn't happen. Yeah, that's your first like to to try to negate it in some way.
Speaker 1:I'm like because I'm not gonna lie. When I hear about a rape story, my first image is that a woman got raped and for him to have had the situation be on him. Not only was you going through that, you were being stopped, it's it's like as, as a human, I just immediately go to Is that that bad? Because you're a man? Ain't that what you want? You?
Speaker 2:want somebody to be watching. Yeah, you realize, like no. All stalking ain't good stalking, especially if you don't want them. Right right, that's unwanted. It's unwanted, I don't care Like. I think I was telling you about that girl in California who was like why don't you mess with any girls at the restaurant, or whatever?
Speaker 1:No.
Speaker 2:Well, it was like this going away party she had asked me I guess girls was getting together. Like, oh, he's fine, but he's not messing with none of us. Like nobody has stories or nothing about me, but I'm like this is the same one where you saw Chris Brown, hmm.
Speaker 1:This is the same restaurant where you saw Chris Brown.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah. But I was just looking and they were good-looking women Like we in LA. This is a mecca of beautiful people and I'm just like unwanted is unwanted, right. If I don't want you, I don't want you, it don't matter how beautiful you are or ugly. I'm not saying people are ugly, but you know there are some ugly people. I'm not saying people are ugly, but you know there are some ugly people.
Speaker 1:I'm so tired of people being like we can't call nobody ugly, why not?
Speaker 2:Why not? And it's because some people just don't try Right and honestly, I think ugly is a point of view.
Speaker 1:I agree. It's subjective, I agree with that 100%.
Speaker 1:I can think somebody is gorgeous. Now here is a perfect example. When the Kardashians first came out, I and even to this day, I don't think Kourt or not Kourt, I don't think Kim is all that pretty. I really thought Khloe was pretty. Then she went and did all that stuff to herself. You're just in the same boat as them, but in my opinion Khloe was the prettiest. But the whole rest of the world was on Kim's ass. It is what it is Right. Yeah, and everybody calling Khloe ugly. I don't think she was ugly.
Speaker 2:I mean, but people were saying ugly.
Speaker 3:Right, right that was their opinion.
Speaker 2:You know, and I think that's what it is. It's just an opinion. It's just an opinion I got my opinion.
Speaker 1:Because the thing is, if I call you ugly and you think you're the finest thing walking, continue to think that, Because who am I Right? Who am I to tell you what you are Exactly?
Speaker 2:But that don't mean stalk me.
Speaker 1:I'm going to stalk no one.
Speaker 2:I could never bring myself to stalk somebody I couldn't Like to know that somebody don't want me and I'm still just like it might be a little heartbroken, but I'll deal with it.
Speaker 1:It depends on how deep I'm into this one.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I was going to say I got to know you also, Like we had to have some connection, Like you, just a stranger that turned me down.
Speaker 1:Right, I'll see you later, because I'm just going to call him V-Dog for right now. When we were in high school and when I first met him, obviously I had a crush on him and we got closer and closer. He knew I liked him. He never said nothing until later on that he wasn't into me and it was like, well, that sucks, but you're a great friend, so I'm going to continue to be friends with you. I'm not going to stalk you, though, ain't no point.
Speaker 2:If you don't want me, you don't want me, and there's billions of other people on this planet. And I feel like in Baby Reindeer she should have felt the same way, because y'all were friendly, like y'all were friendly enough to continue to just be friends yeah, instead of you acting dumb like that wasn't even necessary, because even for you to get that close, to feel like some type of way, him turning you down after like yeah yeah, I gotta watch that one, I don't even think it was a real turning down.
Speaker 1:It was just like just him aggressively friend zoning her okay gotcha and she could feel that then be happy with that at least you can still have him around.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that don't make no sense to me but my biggest recommendation, reba.
Speaker 1:If you're not watching Reba, I don't know what you're doing with your life.
Speaker 2:I thought you was going to give me something brand new, like good as hell, 2026.
Speaker 1:Reba.
Speaker 2:I ain't going to lie. Came out yesterday. I'm not going to lie and I never watched it through, kept up with it. You know I did. I don't know the came out yesterday, I'm not gonna lie and I never like watched it through, kept up with. You know I did. I don't know the storyline or nothing like that, you know I do, but the episodes that I did see, I'm like alright, this shit is funny. Um, have you seen the new Bad Boys trailer?
Speaker 1:I saw something about. It. Was that today, was that this morning, I don't know and I thought it was fake so I didn't click on it what'd you see about it? It looked like it was a trailer or something, but it looked fake to me.
Speaker 2:No, there's trailer the picture looked fake, but he's wearing a Reba shirt and part of it and it was like name one Reba song.
Speaker 1:I don't know no Reba songs.
Speaker 3:I was like do the theme song. Hey, hey, it is a whole song.
Speaker 1:I would say, it is she was blowing it.
Speaker 2:That's all. Hey Reba, you killed that song.
Speaker 1:It makes me so mad, not mad, but it gets to me when, like today, people are talking about it Like it's a new discovery, like nobody was watching it back then. Oh, there's so many shows Right Like like my wife and kids, I've been right, like people bringing it up, like it, like it, just what, like it didn't hit back when it, yeah, yeah it did still hit the same too, like I'm glad you found it, but it ain't no new gym, or nothing.
Speaker 1:It just makes me mad when the new generation think they discovered something no, you didn't sit out. No one else for 20 years was watching this how did it do so well with so many seasons if no one was?
Speaker 3:watching it.
Speaker 1:Right, you know stuff gets canceled if it's not being watched, but I also feel like it's because there's nothing like those shows out now. Because you can't put out another show like my Wife and Kids. Nah, what? You going to call it Copycat? Because that's what it is.
Speaker 2:But that's what I'm saying. For me to be interested in something, it has to be really original, and it's hard to come across that now Because you just don't get shows like and like I said, whenever I did watch Reba I was like alright, it had me laughing.
Speaker 1:Reba is hilarious and that is today a show that will be watching me, but I'm still like completely tuning into it Brock got Botox he lost a game of poker or something and got Botox so he couldn't smile, or nothing.
Speaker 3:But it was the youngest son's birthday party and the clown was there.
Speaker 1:He went up to the clown and was like you're doing his straight face. I can't keep a straight face. He was like you're really doing a great job with the kids. He was like is that?
Speaker 3:sarcasm or something. He was like no, no, I mean it, you're really doing a great job. He said tell your face. I was like who the fuck wrote this? Because I would never.
Speaker 2:He said tell your face but that's what I mean oh man, I don't know if, but that's what I mean, that.
Speaker 3:And I don't know if I just be in my own world, but I will be cracking up and shit like that because obviously you know, like he can't move his face, but this clown don't know why, and you really butchered yourself. He can't move his face, but this clown don't know why, and you really butchered yourself. Oh man, it's sarcasm. But even the setup Right. He put his hand in his face and everything. Tell your face.
Speaker 2:Oh, that's good. Oh, man, that's good. Is he hearing shit like that? They be like I might have to go back and watch this whole series.
Speaker 3:Man, and that's in season one.
Speaker 2:So just imagine, imagine, how much. Yeah yeah, all right, so there's your list of recommendations. If you've been racking your brain like damn, I ain't got nothing to watch. And you got something all across the spectrum too.
Speaker 1:Reba's number one.
Speaker 2:I'll put it up there, just so you know. I'll put it up there.
Speaker 1:But Baby Reindeer, yeah, Baby Reindeer really had me going. I actually had watched it twice. And Blackbird, that one sound good too.
Speaker 2:Blackbird will have you like. Yeah, that one sound like a mind twister. What, what? And see, I like shit like that. That have you thinking.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because the whole time you think you know Right and it's like.
Speaker 2:But he just said Real quick before we switch off. Did you see clickbait?
Speaker 1:Yes.
Speaker 2:About the guy that was cheating on his wife and had social media, had him tied up and was showing like hey.
Speaker 1:I started it, I didn't finish it, never mind then.
Speaker 2:But you'll see what I mean.
Speaker 1:That's a documentary in it or a docuseries, no.
Speaker 2:No.
Speaker 1:What am I?
Speaker 2:thinking it's just a limited series. Good man, maybe I didn't you seen Entourage on HBO, mm-mm, oh damn. I was going to say.
Speaker 1:He watched that too, and he watched Suits. Such a good series, such a good series. Suits was pretty good. I watched some of it.
Speaker 2:I watched it, it just wasn't for me. It was good, but it just wasn't for me.
Speaker 1:I feel like it dragged. I feel like after season four they should have been done. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3:Because whenever Katherine Heigl came in, I was like what the fuck's going on? Yeah, what are we doing?
Speaker 1:Okay, what's the point of this? That came out of nowhere, I guess, and I love Katherine Heigl, I feel you.
Speaker 2:I feel you. What was the point of this Then? They were focusing on two different law firms.
Speaker 1:It just seemed like they didn't know how to end it and just kept going.
Speaker 2:I didn't know. That's where Meghan Markle like where she better be. I didn't know that either I was like that's crazy.
Speaker 1:And she's a really good actress.
Speaker 2:I feel like she did really good in that show.
Speaker 1:I didn't know she was on Deal or no Deal.
Speaker 2:I didn't know that.
Speaker 1:She was one of the suit ladies case.
Speaker 2:ladies, no, I did not know that.
Speaker 1:I did know that, but I didn't know she was a real actress. I feel like she should still be acting.
Speaker 2:Right, I mean, I know it would be hard, but right, yeah, and you don't have to.
Speaker 1:I don't think she should do it because she needs to, I just think yeah, you're good, you're good at it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so that's your list. Keep in mind what I need to watch there, you go.
Speaker 1:If you got any recommendations, leave them down in the comments, please do we love recommendations, we do, we do. Oh, eric is another one. I saw that earlier.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I saw that earlier. I was like I should check that out.
Speaker 1:I started it the other day. It's a word, but it's good. Okay, okay, what are we?
Speaker 2:on to next Parenting.
Speaker 3:Oh.
Speaker 2:You really going to have a heavy opinion on this. I mean, I might have a heavy opinion, but it might not hold no weight.
Speaker 1:I think it will. Oh, okay, so I saw a TikTok. I don't even think I finished it, but just the question itself was enough to make me be like all right. I guess a lady had made a tick tock about her kids having to ask for food in her house, ok, and a lot of people had a lot to say about it. I didn't read no comments, I think I didn't finish it because I didn't want to hear what people had to say. But but the way she said it was like everybody had something bad to say about it. Okay, but I agree with her, I think, especially because I have four kids, four boys at that, who are growing.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I know they're going to eat up the whole house, and especially in today, with the way kids are, they want to be on electronics all day, and something that I've noticed is that if my kids are on electronics all day, they won't eat Like they won't do nothing, they won't be concerned about nothing. But then as soon as I say get off electronics, they all run to the kitchen.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Get the fuck out of my kitchen.
Speaker 2:You ain't thinking about it Like you not hungry?
Speaker 1:Yeah, You're bored, right, I'm thinking like you, not hungry, and I think, right, and that's why I agree. I feel like a lot of kids eat out of boredom and that's just American lifestyle at this point to, just because they've made food so tasty and because you're bored, it's like why not put something nice in my mouth? And I get it. I do it too. Excuse me, but as an adult, I just have to have that discipline on myself. Who am I supposed to ask Myself? Because, trust me, if somebody else was in the house, I would love the rule to ask, because it would shed a few pounds on me. I feel that. But just groceries are expensive and to know that somebody is just eating out of boredom or eating a lot because it's here, yeah, yeah, we ain't got time for that.
Speaker 1:Right, I need to monitor where this food is going. Like.
Speaker 2:William, it's just going to be gone, yeah.
Speaker 1:William is growing so much that it makes sense how much he wants to eat, so I try not to say too much about him, just because it's natural he's going to be eating a lot. Right now, sleeping and eating is what's happening to him. He's turning into a teenager, so I try not to say right, I try not to say too much to him, but, like Brayden, You're going to end up chubby.
Speaker 1:I don't even think he will, though, for real, because he moves around enough that he's keeping himself active enough to shed whatever he's eating. Yeah, yeah, but you're just eating.
Speaker 2:I mean and the kid's metabolism.
Speaker 1:Right, but you are sincerely eating out of boredom.
Speaker 2:Because you ain't got nothing else to do.
Speaker 1:I will walk in the house and he will be laying down with a box of something on his chest hand in it TV on.
Speaker 2:Like he just had a hard day at work.
Speaker 1:Like if I say, okay, brandon, continue looking at the TV and tell me what you're eating, he wouldn't know what he was eating, he wouldn't know what it is that he's snacking on Just got something, just got something Groceries are too expensive to just let kids just eat.
Speaker 2:Now, that is true, that is true, but surprisingly, I didn't think you were going to say that no.
Speaker 1:No, because they eat so much. Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:But I agree, I do, and because of that, like, if you let a kid just go at it, they will just go at it all day, every day, and most likely it's just going to be sweets.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Just sugar-filled something. That's quick.
Speaker 1:I had to stop buying sweets.
Speaker 2:And that's the thing like and I don't mind having them around, and especially all the kids that we got in our family. I don't mind having them around because I know it's inevitable y'all going to want something, but that's not all you're going to have they get their sugar from everybody else.
Speaker 1:I stopped putting that stuff in my house. And because I homeschool, one of our classes was cooking or is cooking, so they know how to cook. My kids know how to cook.
Speaker 2:The problem is they will cook a family meal for themselves you know what's crazy, I think when Alvin was in the hospital and I went over there to pick him up to get some stuff to stay the night, I was like y'all can grab some snacks or something. If y'all want to bring what you, everybody go in there. They can grab like a little bag of chips or cookies or something. This man Braden I really thought you were going to say William they grab like a little bag of chips or cookies or something. This man.
Speaker 1:Brayden goes in the refrigerator. I really thought you were going to say William.
Speaker 2:No, this man, brayden, goes in the refrigerator and grabs a rotisserie chicken.
Speaker 3:Oh, it was his, I know, but I was like bro out of everything in his house.
Speaker 2:It was his. You're going to grab a rotisserie chicken, he said.
Speaker 1:So one thing that I like to do I give them a budget for the week and they grocery shop for themselves. At least he's smart with his that's going to last you a while I think all three of them had got a rotisserie chicken.
Speaker 1:And I was happy that they wanted that because you can eat the chicken just as with a side, or you can make like Sandwiches. Yeah, so I'm happy with how I'm raising them as far as like eating and stuff, but it's still even though, like they'll have their budget and they'll buy what they what's specifically for them, it can still be gone in a couple of days because they get bored. And yes, even though you bought that stuff, you still should have to ask.
Speaker 2:Yeah, like you were saying, because if I ain't got nothing to do, I'll just grab something.
Speaker 3:I told myself this morning that I'm going like I'm gonna fast for the day, but I bought but I bought Chinese yesterday, but not at all right no, it was like 12, so I am happy with how long I went but the goal was to not eat at all today.
Speaker 2:Discipline is a motherfucker.
Speaker 1:But it's like and then because I bought Chinese yesterday, so because I knew that was in the fridge, yeah, because you know, it's around and I'm bored. You know it's around In my mind. I'm not spending no extra money. This is already here. I didn't gave myself all the reasons to eat it.
Speaker 2:It's not like they bullshit reasons. They're legit reasons. But, nikki, you said you was gonna be faster than that.
Speaker 3:I was bored, I finished with some laundry.
Speaker 1:I didn't have nothing else to do.
Speaker 2:I fucking love it.
Speaker 1:I definitely agree with that woman.
Speaker 2:I agree to all the people who may have been in the comments like that's crazy or that's child abuse but even like we just talk about ourselves, that's what you're teaching them some discipline, so you're not just eating out of boredom and just grabbing at something just because it's around because we didn't necessarily have to ask for food growing up, but we definitely knew we couldn't just be eating for no reason. But I even feel like there were certain things we did have to ask for all the time and certain things like what because?
Speaker 1:of that Right yeah, when it came to like functioning the house, I feel like my mom did such a good job with that and I'd be like hard on myself because I can't seem to get them to understand shit like why is? It. I am repeating myself over and over kids these days are different.
Speaker 2:I don't know what it is, but kids these days is different? They don't. They don't. They're just ruthless. They don't know what it is like these days. Is different?
Speaker 1:they don't, they don't they don't, they're just ruthless that's it. They don't, they don't, give a fuck because I'll be like this ain't hard stuff that I'm saying to you get up, brush your teeth, maybe shower if you need to simple shit like close the door.
Speaker 2:Like when you go in to walk out somewhere, close the door that's and I was like how do I gotta tell you 10 times in one day? You still can't remember I'm telling you, kids, these days is different. We need, and it's like they be so focused on what they're doing that anything else outside, like their tunnel vision, is immaculate, because they don't hear nothing. I will say shout out. To parents our parents our generation's parents that too, but any parents nah nah, nah, there's some people out there.
Speaker 2:If you're present, if you're, if you're, if you know, if you're president, if you're doing what you got to do, trying to and I'm saying really just trying, because it is a task- it is and that's why I'm saying shout out, because if you're just trying, I I see it so that shit is.
Speaker 1:Alvin is always telling me that I shouldn't be so hard on myself and I not to like say that he's not a good parent or anything, but he's not hard on himself. Like he feels good about how he's parenting, which is fine. I don't personally feel good about how I'm parenting and I feel like, if you don't, you should remember that. Like I don't think you should let people tell you oh, you're, you're just being too hard on yourself. No, I'm not meet these kids and then tell me I'm being too hard on myself.
Speaker 2:Yeah, because I've always found it a really good compliment when people compliment how, like give you a genuine or generous or kind, like I'm, like my parents did a really good job, especially when I'm not trying to.
Speaker 1:It's just what I'm doing, because I do understand that, like today, I was in a store and this kid was running around and he looked like he was about somewhere between 8 and 10. Okay, 8 and 10? I mean you should know better. Why the fuck are you running around? I mean you should know better.
Speaker 2:Why the fuck you running around this store? You should know better.
Speaker 1:And I promise you, if anybody saw the way I looked at him, they would have told me to fix my face so fast. No, get him, get him, because why are we doing this At eight to ten?
Speaker 2:As somebody who don't have kids, I be feeling like that when I see kids like that, but I'm like do Somebody who don't have kids? I be feeling like that when I see kids like that, but I'm like, do I have the right to feel like that?
Speaker 1:Yeah, Because I'd be like where's your parents? Yes, because more parents need to be embarrassed. I'm like where's your parents? That's the problem.
Speaker 2:Mama, daddy, where is they?
Speaker 1:at. I get that they're kids, Because that's what people are always. Oh, they're just kids.
Speaker 2:I don't give a flying dookie, but when I was serving one time, this kid couldn't have been no more than five, but he was yes, please, thank you, Mr Trenton. I was like. He was like yes, please, thank you, Mr Gene. I was like I know it's possible, Right, I know it's possible for you to have some manners and know how to care yourself.
Speaker 1:Like my kids.
Speaker 2:Because I even told his parents I was like y'all did an amazing job with him, like good job.
Speaker 1:And I be feeling like when I see really well-behaved kids, I don't. The first thing that comes to my mind is not oh, they must be strict.
Speaker 2:Yeah, his parents didn't seem strict at all. They didn't seem like they was beating them or like they didn't seem kind of laid back, and I feel like that's what people think whenever they have bad kids.
Speaker 1:They think they're doing a good job because they're not hitting them, they're not doing the discipline. But you got a wild ass child in the store acting like he the only one here, somebody need to be beating them because something ain't right here.
Speaker 1:It just don't make sense to me. And then I, even though my kids are not that like they're not yes, ma'ams, they don't, because I'm not going to teach them that, but they do know to say yes, please, thank you when we're out, and there have been a few times where our meals have gotten paid for because people can see how well behaved the kids are yeah and that is enough for me to be like, okay, okay, maybe I should chill for today.
Speaker 2:Just for a couple hours Once we leave this restaurant, though. You know. You know I feel that, but I also feel like there is, as far as I've seen, there's, no playbook, rulebook, no manual to how to do this shit, so that's all that you can hope for.
Speaker 1:There definitely is no right or wrong way to raise your kids and, like I was saying before we started today, if you are telling me to my face something that you feel about how I'm parenting, I will take that into my brain.
Speaker 1:I ain't taking it into consideration because these ain't your kids, but I'm right, I'll hear you because, who knows, it might pop back into the front of my brain when I need it the most. But if you online trying to tell me about my kids, shut the fuck up, because you don't know what it, especially if you are talking about something that you may not even be.
Speaker 2:But you haven't been relating to Right, right, three occasions you haven't seen.
Speaker 1:You see, in one thing Right, just like there was this. There's this family that lives in an RV and I think it's three kids, husband and wife, and a lot. They had got a lot. She did the tour and showed where her kids sleep and it was like this size room for the three kids, okay, which is bunk beds, right, and I think another bed, okay, or something like that. And then they had a bunch of stuff in there Okay, this is a decent size in an rv space for three kids, yeah. So she does the tour and she they get a bunch of comments about how they shouldn't have the kids cramped up in an rv. So he gets online like I don't know who you're talking to. My kids are happy I'm paraphrasing, of course, but but who are you to say? And I'm just like, because why would you think that it's even okay, your?
Speaker 1:opinion matters at all and people are like I hate when people say, but you put it online, so you opened that. No, that's not what I did. I showed you a different perspective on how to live Right, because a lot of people think that RVing or van life is just for couples or single people.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I'm showing you that it can work with kids.
Speaker 1:That's all I'm doing. I'm not opening my door.
Speaker 2:I'd be more willing to take your comments about the RV Right.
Speaker 3:Before the comments about my kids Right Like why are you speaking about somebody's kids?
Speaker 1:And that's why I mean like when I saw that kid today, I'm sure if people had like you, if you had seen my face, you would have been like Latina.
Speaker 3:I don't know like hey, hey, get him.
Speaker 1:Get him. But I would never say nothing to her, because you do, you girl.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and that's where I'm like I can't say nothing. I got no room to say nothing. Maybe you got a little bit more room than I do because you got kids. You could probably be like, listen, your kid might run into mine and hurt him. Like, could you just?
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean, I was by myself, but my concern is that he gonna knock something over.
Speaker 3:Right, he in here thinking he's on a playground.
Speaker 2:It's dangerous either way.
Speaker 1:Like.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:And she legit nothing to. This lady Saw him looked away and kept going about her business like it wasn't her child. Like ma'am, get your son.
Speaker 2:Now you got to once again shout out to ones that's trying.
Speaker 1:Right.
Speaker 2:You got to at least try, because the thing is, if you're taking this kid out in public, there's a way to act. There is a way to act.
Speaker 1:And I also get that some people don't want to do the discipline in public. Fuck all that.
Speaker 2:I don't agree with that. Fuck all that. I don't agree with that.
Speaker 1:I remember I seen this white man spank his and I feel like it's important to know that he was white. Yeah, Spank his daughter in the parking lot. This was in Vegas.
Speaker 2:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 1:And I was like yes.
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 1:And it just happened to come out of my mouth.
Speaker 3:Oh, you said it, bro.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I wasn't trying to be, but and he looked up like I guess he heard me and he was like, hey, we got to keep these kids in line.
Speaker 2:But when a parent know, a parent know, I feel it homie, and that's what I'm saying. Like you got more of a leg to stand on than I do.
Speaker 1:I don't know I Like not that you should just be out here saying stuff, but because she don't say nothing to her kids.
Speaker 2:she probably going to get mad at you, right?
Speaker 1:right, and not that I feel like people who don't have kids should just be out here saying stuff, but I think if y'all gave more looks or made it aware to them like that's not okay, maybe more people would. Oh, I do, because the embarrassment is what keeps me keeping my kids in line. Yeah, so I don't want nobody looking at me or them like what the fuck? I feel that.
Speaker 2:I feel that I mean. But so, all in all, you got to have some boundaries for everything for your kids. So anybody commenting saying no or that's wrong, right, you either don't got kids or your kids is out here running wild.
Speaker 3:They the ones. That's what I'm getting For me in the lineup.
Speaker 2:That's what I'm getting.
Speaker 1:It's gotten to the point now where if the kids do something wild in public and somebody sees, I just don't have kids.
Speaker 3:I just out loud tell them don't have kids, no more at least Don't do it.
Speaker 2:Uh-uh, it ain't worth it. I get a lot of laughs from it.
Speaker 1:So people like understand. Like, yeah, parenting is hard, but not for real, don't fucking have kids. Like is this the life you want?
Speaker 2:like I mean eventually, yeah, no, no, and I'm amer, america ain't even big enough for all these kids, like your boys and like Talena's boys, grow. It's so dope seeing who they become like. I'd love to see what I create. I don't.
Speaker 1:I do sorry. I do, I do Sorry hey.
Speaker 2:We out here, I do. We can take an intervention if we need to.
Speaker 1:I do feel like man, that's a part of me, yeah, and then I feel like man, that's a part of me.
Speaker 2:Now that does scare me. I'm like you're going to get the bad parts of me too. Yeah, hopefully not. You will. They will, but that's where the parenting comes in. Try to make them better than you were.
Speaker 1:But see, honestly, just because I know how bad Alvin can be, I wish that they were all me, because some of his bad I'd just be like oh, oh, my god, I really don't want that for them and and not.
Speaker 1:I feel like he agrees, I feel like he feels the same way. Like man I hope they don't get that part of me but like alcoholism is on both of our sides. So that is a big fear of mine, because I personally am not an alcoholic or don't have a problem with addiction, but seeing how addicted they are to electronics and stuff that they like to do, it's just like, yeah, it's clearly there. So, yeah, I think kids should have to ask for food. I think there should be a boundary on and there's levels to that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, to why they should, yeah, yeah like.
Speaker 1:Don't just be having a glass of juice every time you get thirsty. What is wrong with water? Right, right. We can't keep juice in our house for nothing. I don't even buy it, no more, because for what I don't even get? None, I agree. If I buy something for me, I'm not, I'm touch it. Yeah, that that's what I don't even get. None, I agree. If I buy something for me, I'm. I didn't touch it. Yeah, that's what I meant the other day when I was talking about the gum. I didn't buy that for them and it's in my purse. Why is it gone?
Speaker 2:But that's what I'm saying as a parent. You should know if you buy it, you're not buying it for one, no, you're buying it for you and her.
Speaker 3:You talk about you missed out on two pieces. No, I missed out on 14.
Speaker 2:I missed out on 14 pieces because I didn't buy that for them, not by my ass, but hey, what do I know? I ain't got no kids, nothing.
Speaker 3:You're right.
Speaker 1:Where we at. We are on to adulting, the thing that everybody gotta do that nobody asked for the thing I hate the most ain't that so crazy.
Speaker 2:Parents literally just said we go, maybe I don't want to have kids what parents really just said we're have a baby and now all of us got to do this life thing that none of us asked for.
Speaker 1:Right.
Speaker 2:I didn't ask for none of this. You know what's crazy Black parents be like. I brought you in this world. I'll take you out. I didn't ask, do it. You threatened me with a favor. Just let me pray to Jesus first, so I know I'm going to heaven. Right, just let me pray to Jesus first, so I know I'm going to heaven.
Speaker 1:But end it. That'll be another topic I was about to ask you do you believe in heaven or are you thinking re-inarcation?
Speaker 2:On next week's episode.
Speaker 3:Re-inarcation See I'm telling you, man, what is the word, did you?
Speaker 2:steal my blunt.
Speaker 3:Your blunt.
Speaker 2:Because you no. I'm telling you, man, what is the word? Did you steal my blunt, your blunt? Because you no, I'm lying.
Speaker 3:What is the word?
Speaker 2:Reincarnation.
Speaker 1:Reincarnation. I said it right.
Speaker 2:I thought you said re-in-nocation. I did A re-in-nocation. Yeah, re-incarnation, yeah, we can definitely bring that up. That's always been an interesting topic to me. But yeah, is it okay to cut off the world?
Speaker 1:I don't think it depends, I'll say that I was strong on no. And think it depends, I'll say that I was strong on no. And now it depends I so like people like me. And two, I see nothing wrong with that. But if you just always MIA, always isolating, always by yourself, no, Okay, yeah. I mean, I don't want you around me anyway. So I guess it could be okay.
Speaker 2:But I don't think that's healthy. I don't think it's healthy, but I do think it's okay, like I don't think it's anybody's place to tell you when you gotta or how you have to interact with the world you need to say something to somebody I mean, like I said, I don't think it's healthy.
Speaker 2:So if I like, if it's somebody in my life like, I'll either go out or go over and chill with them, hang with them or try to get them out to do something. But if it's no, no, no, no, no, no, no, I'm yeah sooner or later.
Speaker 1:That's fine, because at least you know that they are doing that. But if you don't be making that effort and you just never hear from them, you never reach out to them, I think that's okay because then at that point I don't know what you're doing.
Speaker 2:I really don't okay, I guess I shouldn't say never you could just be in grind mode or just getting it, you know but if you know that that's not what's happening, would you say?
Speaker 1:yeah, that's why I said maybe I shouldn't say never, because you, obviously, if you reach out to somebody once in a while or you see them once in a while and you know they're not doing anything, like everything is always the same, but then somehow, for some reason, you need to cut off the world. Why, why, what are you doing? What?
Speaker 3:is stressing you the world is already cut off.
Speaker 1:Like what is going on. It sounds like you need to be in the world.
Speaker 2:I mean, and that could be the solution, but once again, I'm not. I can't be the person to say that and even if I think that is the solution, oh, I'm not going to tell you that either, because I'm not going to tell anybody.
Speaker 1:Then you think it's okay. No, I don't think it's okay.
Speaker 2:Then you would say something.
Speaker 1:I just keep my opinion to myself on that.
Speaker 2:Oh, okay, unless you ask yeah, all right, that's different, because if you say it's not okay for me to just spend some time with myself.
Speaker 1:No, no, because when do you spend time with anybody else? What the fuck you mean? No?
Speaker 2:But if you were not asking I'm not telling you because you didn't ask me. I feel it, but no, I only because and I won't say it was the pandemic that showed me it but going long periods of time by yourself, I think it can be healthy, depending on how you're doing it did you really do that in the pandemic?
Speaker 1:no, that's why I said it In the pandemic.
Speaker 2:No, because I was that's why I said it wasn't the pandemic. I've seen people more than ever during the pandemic I was going to say my pandemic was lit, my quarantine was lit, we was partying.
Speaker 1:I feel like all summer Yo, yeah, I didn't catch it until I was alone, it sounds like isolation wasn't the solution I'm telling you Unofficially you didn't hear us say that, Off the record. You heard me say it.
Speaker 2:I was throwing parties.
Speaker 1:I was going to parties. Yeah, I feel like, I feel like at least my neck of the woods was just very.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but that's when I was staying all night on you.
Speaker 1:Yeah. And every day I'm like what we doing getting drunk everybody that I was talking to was like, we're having a party this weekend we were going somewhere, but where? Was all this when there was no pandemic.
Speaker 2:Nobody's doing nothing now they was like the world about to end. Let's party. That's the legit.
Speaker 1:Don't tell them they can't do it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, because then they really gonna do it. Yep, I've always lived my life like that, though, so it wasn't nothing new to me.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean it seemed like it elevated a little bit but it was just like I feel like my summers are always very. I love summers and see not to try to put us in a relationship talk, but the summer just be. Like man, I wish I was single Best time, best time. Can't we just be married in the winter?
Speaker 2:But there are some times, in the older I get, because I've spent some summers in relationships Couple summers be lit too. I ain't going to lie. They can be, yeah, they very much can be. But fuck that bullshit right now. Right, I'm good right now. Yeah, I am good, definitely. But that's what I mean by like, because me, I'm a person that will just cut everybody off, and I know I can do that. I ain't really got no ties or no responsibilities to nobody, so I'm like I don't want to fuck with nobody right now. I don't want to fuck with nobody right now and I'm like I don't give a fucking piss for two years.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I have a right to do that and that's why I think it's okay, and that, too does depend on whether it's okay to cut people or cut the world off, because if you have a child or a person or just any kind of responsibility and you decide you want to just cut off, yeah, I mean I guess as a parent and a wife. I guess as a wife and a mom, guess as a wife and a mom. It just feels like how dare you cause I don't get to do that.
Speaker 1:I don't get to just be like done with the world you know what I'm taking the next couple months off, y'all do what y'all gonna do, and I definitely I think I even said it to Alvin one time like I wish I could just get up and leave one day, like, and it be okay.
Speaker 2:And I do that so often and it that's one of the reasons why I don't be trying to get into a relationship where I have a kid, because I'm like that, just alone, that alone, that being taken away from me. Because I'm like that, just alone, that alone, that being taken away from me, I'm like yeah, for sure, because I, that's a big, that's a big give up.
Speaker 1:I as as much. As I walked in there, they asked me if they could have ice cream, and I said no. I go to the bathroom, I come out, they huddling over the ice cream, serving it to each other. Now, while I was in the bathroom, I was looking for the toilet paper, and so I said Brayden, because I didn't realize that it was behind me.
Speaker 1:I was going to have him ask by for some toilet paper and when I found it I I said never mind. He thought the never mind was to the no of the ice cream. When have you ever heard me say never mind, you can.
Speaker 2:That's what I'm saying. Kids will make it up in their mind to make it work for them. Their logic is wild.
Speaker 1:And you don't think I want to cut off the world. I really, really wish there was. I saw this story not too long ago of this girl. I don't know if she had kids or not, but she was married and she disappeared.
Speaker 2:Just gone.
Speaker 1:Just gone.
Speaker 2:Sorry to put it like that, just gone.
Speaker 1:Just gone. She's like 25. An investigation going on. They can't seem to find out nothing. Then she reappears. She comes walking down the street. She all beat up. Is this the gone girl? No, she it might be. I don't know. I don't know if this is the gone girl story or not. It sounds like it. She got like some branding on her, like just wild stuff. Turns out she was sick of life. I don't like this mary thing no more. Called her ex-boyfriend. He lived like two hours away. He drove, came, got her. She had been staying with him for a couple weeks or months and before she left she cut off all her hair, told him to brand her, beat her up. So it looked like she got kidnapped once she got tired of that life. Are you kidding me?
Speaker 1:so I don't think this is the gone girl story no, I don't think so yeah what the hell she got tired of her life with her husband, called her ex to come get her got tired of that life, said it's time for me to go back home. And because she she couldn't just show back up, right, she had to make it look like she was kidnapped. I think she's in jail, though, because, bitch, you lied. I hope so. I think she's in jail, you either that or an insane asylum. He filed for divorce, as he should how many kids did they have?
Speaker 1:I don't know if there was kids. I can't remember if there was kids. I don't think there was that's nuts now.
Speaker 2:that is not Now my thing is?
Speaker 1:I don't think my thing is, if I got tired of my married life and I called my ex-boyfriend to come get me, no, and I get tired of that, I'm going somewhere else. I'm not coming back. Coming back to what I got tired of in. I'm going somewhere else. I'm not coming back. What?
Speaker 2:Coming back to what I got tired of in the first place.
Speaker 1:I'll call you from somewhere like hey, I'm okay, just wanted you to know I was kidnapped, but I'm good right now I can't get home right now I'm going overseas Right, why would you show back up? He was going to be like babe, I was so worried about you. I mean he was, but he don't know no different.
Speaker 2:But he going to know the truth Eventually.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I don't remember how they found out that that was what she did but, Was she white?
Speaker 3:Yes, for sure.
Speaker 1:Blonde.
Speaker 3:Like yes.
Speaker 1:But I'm going to be for real.
Speaker 2:But I was going to say, no, I'm not so sorry, because you heard about that black girl that claimed she was kidnapped.
Speaker 1:You know, on the highway I was like no, Said she found a baby or something.
Speaker 2:I was like not us, not us, we know better.
Speaker 1:But with the wife I get it, but I ain't doing it. I'm not even going to lie and be like damn I want to leave these little kids, Because when I'm sitting here listening to this story, I'm like damn I feel it I get it. I I'm like, damn, I feel it, I get it. I ain't doing that, but I get it. Let me think of a better plan, but I get it.
Speaker 2:That shit is wild.
Speaker 1:I don't think they have this. What do?
Speaker 2:you mean think of a better plan, because that one was stupid. I'm going to think of a better plan, but I get it, that one went over my head, that one wasn't it oh my gosh, people be out. These be real stories right and I be like when I hear stuff like that, like and you still don't think you should discipline your kids or set some guidelines on the food because this was somebody's child at one point.
Speaker 1:Who the fuck raised you? And my thing is, if I was thinking about doing something like that, I would be asking everybody but not like what do you think about this? I would tell the story, tell what you gonna do as if it was somebody else and hear what they think. That should determine whether you should do this or not.
Speaker 2:Like people just be getting me she probably didn't know that she was gonna come back right, it was probably just a but that's even dumber. Why did you come back? You didn't plan past a week.
Speaker 1:For real, for real cause I don't even think she was gone that long. It had to have been a couple weeks.
Speaker 2:No, I'm saying even if you was gone for six months, you didn't plan past a week Past you getting with them and after that you didn't know nothing.
Speaker 1:You called your downgrade. Why did you call your?
Speaker 2:downgrade If you haven't seen last week's podcast about spinning the block. We both gave a definitively no.
Speaker 3:Right.
Speaker 1:And she did that. Not only did she do like you was married to what looked like a businessman on top of his shit, but dress nice every day, and you went to a curly haired.
Speaker 2:But if he's a safe guy, we also talked about that, but that's still not an excuse. That's still not an excuse to handle things how she did. Yeah, that's why I'm like.
Speaker 1:I get it Like life just might be boring. Right, he might be a blast in the sack, I get it. But bitch, why did you come back that part? I'm just never gonna get.
Speaker 2:You could have just had an affair if it was that deep, Because that's really all you and you didn't have to get beat up.
Speaker 1:Okay, another subject for next week. Like everything is just coming to my mind. I love it, Is it okay?
Speaker 2:to have an affair. I can't wait to see y'all comments about that shit. But yeah, man, that's what we got for you today. Those hey, I'm not going to lie, We've been on a roll with these shits, yeah.
Speaker 3:We've been on a roll with these shits.
Speaker 1:Because the recommendations on shows and stuff to watch I'm definitely on that shit. I'm going to Chicago tomorrow. Know what I'm about to start while I'm in the car.
Speaker 2:Of course the finals do start tonight, so I'm gonna have to intertwine it with that. But I am gonna check out blackbird and baby reindeer I will check the scores yes, you should. I'll do stuff like you should keep yourself updated at least oh, at least do they like talk.
Speaker 1:Did somebody text or text type out the plays? Is there somewhere you can read that?
Speaker 2:Yeah, there's a couple of sites that do play by place you just like ESPN, I think they do.
Speaker 1:Because they tend to bold, exciting stuff. So I'll just read that stuff. Oh my, yeah, but it don't end up having me go back and be like, ok, well, how do we get here? Right?
Speaker 2:Right, right, right Right, so that'll be good for you.
Speaker 1:You can stay up to it. Watch some good shows. Wow, make your kids ask for food.
Speaker 2:Wow and don't cut off the world If you not got your shit.
Speaker 1:you're not already in the world?
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah world yeah, yeah, like yeah, I feel that and if you and you got responsibilities, you you gave up that option period yeah, I I believe that I'm all for not to go back into this.
Speaker 1:I'm all for adoption if you have given up your rights to whatever, whatever responsibilities you got. Yeah, yeah, and that's on marriage and everything which means if you got a divorce.
Speaker 2:I'm saying responsibility if you gave up your children.
Speaker 1:If you ain't got no job that you got to be there nine to five, yeah yeah you do whatever the fuck you want to do, right. If you got all three of them, things right, get your fucking life together right. It's hard, obviously it's hard, and, yes, there is a thing as mental days or weeks, but you can't just cut off life like yeah that's, that's not an option that's not.
Speaker 1:That's why it's so hard for everybody else, because you got so many people who don't want to take responsibility for what they're supposed to do, government.
Speaker 2:And then somebody else got to pick up the slack the people.
Speaker 1:Government. It's all their fault.
Speaker 2:So yes, you can cut off the world if you've been in the world.
Speaker 1:Right, if you got a reason to.
Speaker 2:And if you ain't got no responsibilities, but if you do a reason to. And if you ain't got no responsibilities, but if you do Set that shit up. That's it, it is what it is, that's all I got to say, that has been what it is what it is what episode is this Four? Three.
Speaker 1:Three.
Speaker 2:Three Is it?
Speaker 1:I think you're wrong.
Speaker 2:No, it's three, it's three, it's three.
Speaker 1:It's three, it is three, it's three, it's three.
Speaker 2:I know.
Speaker 1:It's three.
Speaker 2:See, I'm telling y'all and I'm the smoker they we really gonna have to do a study on this cause, like we gonna have to. I worked all day. So she said I'm allowed to just brain fart the fuck out all everywhere. I feel it. I feel it. I wish I could do that brain shit. I wish I could do that.
Speaker 1:My brain be on from sunup to sundown another topic okay, should women be able to turn their brains off with a man?
Speaker 2:oh, I've been keep wanting to get my opinion, but I'm gonna wait because these is these is these is Let me write it down. I mean we got to capture two Go ahead.
Speaker 3:Oh yeah, go ahead, it's okay.
Speaker 2:That's what we're here for. That's what we're here for. That's what we're here for. I completely forgot it's your boy G. Yes, and you've been watching and listening to he smoke. She don't cause weed stinks it's meaks weed speaks we gonna catch y'all next time we eat stinks.
Speaker 3:We eat smeeks, we eat smeeks.
Speaker 2:We gonna catch y'all next time.
Speaker 1:Ta-da what we gonna do if we get in an argument on the episode. We gonna end it happy, like this.
Speaker 2:Hell. No, I'm gonna just walk off like fuck this, there's gonna be one episode where it just cut off.
Speaker 3:It's gonna be one of us like you're listening. He's motioned up see ya on the next episode.
Speaker 2:I love it. I love it. That would be good. That would be good.
Speaker 3:That would be good.
Speaker 2:Another one down.
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